My Ideal Person:
A woman that is not looking to fix and repair me. That may not be possible. Find those parts of me that may endear yourself to someone like me. You should bring yourself to the relationship ,focus on the few traits, mannerisms, aspects you might be attracted to and nourish them. Give them more importance and praise while not giving fuel to the less desirable issues, syndromes, aspects. Support and help to diminish and weaken defects, learned toxic habits, coping systems, damage. (This is actually sounding like a rule for anyone to engage in a friendship or any kind of longer term relationship) Somebody that can love and appreciate me for what I am and what we can become. Someone that can do what I do. See another when they are at their best and always keep that image/feeling inside themself and help each other to live up to it.