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Mistress,s help - 8/25/2024 Hi, I'm 38 year old and I'm trying to become someone's slave but don't quite know how to get my foot in the door, I'm 6ft with dreads and not bad looking with no limits, any feedback would be amazing 10 response(s), 10 votes |
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Mistress,s help - 8/25/2024 Hi, I'm 38 year old and I'm trying to become someone's slave but don't quite know how to get my foot in the door, I'm 6ft with dreads and not bad looking with no limits, any feedback would be amazing 0 response(s), 0 votes |
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Web cams - 8/20/2024 What has happened to web cams - very few showing up as available? 13 response(s), 19 votes |
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Insertions - 8/6/2024 What do you think about insertions? 4 response(s), 24 votes |
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Does ALT hire fakes and scammers? - 7/4/2024 i have this suspicion, because 99.99% of the women i talk with always end up being scammers. i've noticed too how whenever my paid subscription expires, suddenly i'm flooded with emails from women on this site in a way i never see when my membership is paid up. Has anyone else noticed this? 28 response(s), 129 votes |
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How do I go about this? - 6/23/2024 I wish to be dominated by a large group. Hopefully vidoed and humiliated and posted in numerous <br><br> places for others to see and enjoy. How or what is the best way to get this desire known and also for all to know I am totally serious. I love being placed in retraints and doing as commanded no holds barred. Howie ps I pkace my name and photo here so people know who I am and ... 8 response(s), 37 votes |
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For real - 6/5/2024 How many people are estimated as real? <br><br> How many of you have actually up with someone on this website? 30 response(s), 121 votes |
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Paying for gold - 6/4/2024 How do you use a visa gift card to pay for membership? <br><br> Does anyone know how to do this? 15 response(s), 64 votes |
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When or how did you discover the BDSM world? - 6/2/2024 Briefly share how you found BDSM. Luck. Former sexual partner, curiosity, etc? 19 response(s), 28 votes |
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Trimming the bushes - 5/30/2024 Do you prefer the pubic area: 1. Amazon jungle 2. Trimmed 3. Bikini waxed 4. Full Brazilian 5. Artwork/design in pubic hair 6. Landing strip 18 response(s), 76 votes |
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Fisting - 5/2/2024 do you like to get fisted? 22 response(s), 35 votes |
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Ass to mouth lube - 4/4/2024 Other than spit, a sort of tasteless lube, what is the best ass to mouth lube for those subs/bottoms who need more lubrication? 13 response(s), 117 votes |
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Chat Rooms - You may not enter this room until your profile has been approved by our review team. - 4/1/2024 Anyone know whats going on? I have always been able to get into the Chatrooms, but now Im getting a strange screen and this message in red: <br><br> You may not enter this room until your profile has been approved by our review team. <br><br> How do you get approved? Its very unhelpful not to give a link or something 10 response(s), 56 votes |
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messages - 2/26/2024 Messages are shown in number beside the envelope . I click on the envelope and it takes me to the messages . BUT NO MESSASES . I click thru all of the sections , and still nothing . Also the Bell shows peopel have sent messages , but stil no messages . Is it me ??? Thank you 41 response(s), 287 votes |
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Is there a way to Unlike someone's Photo? - 2/21/2024 I made the mistake of liking someone's pics but then he turned out to be a toerag so Id love to stop liking his pics. Is it possible and if so where do I do it please? Thanks 13 response(s), 86 votes |
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My new story ? - 2/16/2024 I have submitted a new story two times this past week and it has not shown up yet. Any one else having this problem. If they would say I broke some rule fine tell me which one so I can correct it. 14 response(s), 131 votes |
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Do you like pissing? - 2/12/2024 I had this new experience of piss drinking and it's very nice. What do you think? Have you already done the same? 19 response(s), 92 votes |
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FFM 3SUMS - 2/3/2024 Would any women like to join us?? 10 response(s), 90 votes |
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Stop Being a Top Fan of a Deactivated Profile. - 2/2/2024 Please can anyone advise how to do the above. There doesnt seem to be a way of reversing the Top Fan of, if the profile is no longer visible. <br><br> All help appreciated <br><br> Thanks 11 response(s), 56 votes |
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What is your love language - 1/14/2024 As I have understood the languages are acts of service, gifts, physical affection, words of affirmation, and quality time. <br><br> For me it is acts of service as both how I express love and how I feel loved. How about you? 16 response(s), 93 votes |
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what do you miss in your life ? - 1/3/2024 discuss what are you looking for here what do you need what do you miss in your life, and what do you miss in sex and partener to feel excited? 27 response(s), 94 votes |
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What is the most important thing for you when you have BDSM session? - 12/31/2023 in this way there are many different opinions, lets discuss, share experience, and find out more .... 19 response(s), 61 votes |
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Do Femdoms like Sissies? - 12/30/2023 I am a submissive male. I enjoy crossdressing. This is something I have suppressed my whole life but recently, perhaps as I have gotten older I can't resist it. I have bought several shoes and dresses. I love the feeling of tights (pantyhose) on my legs and the soft fabrics of the dresses. I like having to teeter in heels. I absolutely love wearing feminine clothing but frankly look ... 11 response(s), 94 votes |
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Newbie looking to start my journey - 12/22/2023 Are there any members in NE england or clubs can help guide me into the alt universe 9 response(s), 62 votes |
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How do you find notifications? - 11/17/2023 I am standard member and when someone replies to my post or comment I can’t find it. Is this something I just need help with or need to do something specifically to find it. 10 response(s), 83 votes |
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What is best way to accrue points? - 11/17/2023 New to site and still learning the ropes and want to get points. The list of how to doesn’t seem to make a lot of sense. Thoughts? 13 response(s), 63 votes |
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Breeding with Multiple Dicks - Is it a Blessing? - 11/16/2023 I always wanted to be showered with cum all over me and in me. Doesn't matter if there are Multiple dicks and I don't end up knowing which seed breeds me. Does any other girl feel the same? Worth a try what say?? 17 response(s), 71 votes |
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What are all the marks on the member sites? - 11/15/2023 I am new and can’t find a list of a blue check, purple circle with a squiggle, etc. <br><br> I know gold members as that is obvious but what about all the other little symbols on member accounts? 8 response(s), 53 votes |
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Best halloween candy? - 10/25/2023 in your honest opinion for this spooky season what is the top halloween candy?. i personally am a Wunderbar guy. But super curious about everyone else's favorites. 16 response(s), 127 votes |
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Chat room - 10/24/2023 I can access the chat rooms but after hitting send the screen goes and when I refresh my message hasn't been posted <br><br> I have 217 points at the moment <br><br> Any ideas what's happening?? 14 response(s), 69 votes |
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Broadcasts - 10/22/2023 Anyone else not able to watch broadcasts? It does this spinny circle thing for a few min then it says broadcast ended. it does this despite the broadcast still going on. I have my content filter set to everything. any ideas? 6 response(s), 54 votes |
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book a dungeon - 10/21/2023 to book a dungeon with a lady never met will not tell me where it is very demanding about this says it trust and there no website you contact a rep to pay them this feel like a red flag am i right never book a dungeon before what would you do 11 response(s), 36 votes |
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favourite position - 10/10/2023 this is my favourite position for being fucked or fucking someone elses ass , ,, what is your favourite position to be fucked or to fuck someones ass 26 response(s), 65 votes |
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IM - 10/5/2023 Why wont my IM work? Is it not available for standard members? 43 response(s), 71 votes |
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Exposing yourself as a sissy in public - 9/27/2023 Hello! does anyone else go shopping ..walking in the park or strolling down the street with just enough femme items on that any woman might spot and wonder what you are up to? I'm talking about only 1 item such as light colored lipstick , fake eyelashes , eye shadow , bright colored panties under thin white shorts, fishnet hosiery showing below you pants at the ankles , thigh highs and ... 14 response(s), 62 votes |
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fisting - 9/23/2023 Do weomen really enjoy fisting? 14 response(s), 59 votes |
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Are you looking for fun in Ho Chi Minh - 8/25/2023 I would like to hear from you 7 response(s), 69 votes |
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Cocks and crossdressers????? - 8/7/2023 Why do most cross dresser pictures have their cocks hanging out ? Don't they want to be like women ? Is it just being dressed femme feels so good ? Don't get me wrong I enjoy the sight of a nice cock in a pair of panties .... 18 response(s), 71 votes |
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Anyone else? - 7/25/2023 Just super over heated here and wondering is there anyone else that has had enough of the summer heat an Humidity?. i for one look forward too nice cool fall weather  .15 response(s), 96 votes |
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Anyone else? - 7/25/2023 Just super over heated here and wondering is there anyone else that has had enough of the summer heat an Humidity?. i for one look forward too nice cool fall weather .2 response(s), 2 votes |
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Private rooms - 7/14/2023 Ive created few pvt rooms here ovdr the years but unlike other rooms i can click Leave group......but cant seem to figure out how to delete my own private rooms, i thought disable room would do it....but just makes it inkperable i wanna rsmove it so i hace spaces to fill after deletion ppl are gone from site so wanna remove it but cant...! Help?🤔🤔😠 18 response(s), 99 votes |
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Private rooms - 7/14/2023 Ive created few pvt rooms here ovdr the years but unlike other rooms i can click Leave group......but cant seem to figure out how to delete my own private rooms, i thought disable room would do it....but just makes it inkperable i wanna rsmove it so i hace spaces to fill after deletion ppl are gone from site so wanna remove it but cant...! Help?🤔🤔😠 0 response(s), 4 votes |
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Who's been to Hedo II in Negril? - 7/7/2023 I went to "a" heado 15-20 years ago but don't remember if it was 2 or 3 and thinking about checking this one out. I know it had a 2 to 3 story nude water slide. <br><br> If you have been, what's good (sex & Nudity)? What's bad? )Aside from the nightly dress ups and people fucking in the hot tub under my ALT.com for hours, but good for them). ... 3 response(s), 65 votes |
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Role play - 6/2/2023 What are you favorite role play scenes? Mine is boss and secretary! 53 response(s), 252 votes |
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How do I find a dominate mistress from hell - 6/2/2023 I've tried before had no luck. What is the best way to find a dominate mistress from hell to take total control of me? 20 response(s), 47 votes |
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OTK Spanking Mistress Sessions - 5/22/2023 I pull you over my knee and swat you with my hand until your bottom is nice and rosy red, heated to perfection. Maybe I’ll drive you to tears and wailing like the naughty little misbehaver that you are, you clearly deserve some more swats from my cruel hand. I won’t stop until you’ve learned your lesson. 20 response(s), 94 votes |
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Spanking - 5/19/2023 What is your favorite way to spank a naughty slut? 61 response(s), 159 votes |
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f in the U.S.: Magnolia Blossom Inc. 1615 S. Congress Avenue, Suite 103 Delray Beach, Florida 33445 - 5/9/2023 f in the U.S.: Magnolia Blossom Inc. 1615 S. Congress Avenue, Suite 103 Delray Beach, Florida 33445 If outside the U.S.: Athelstan Enterprise B.V., hoogoorddreef 15, 1101 BA, Amsterdam, Netherlands. 1 response(s), 0 votes |
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f in the U.S.: Magnolia Blossom Inc. 1615 S. Congress Avenue, Suite 103 Delray Beach, Florida 33445 - 5/9/2023 f in the U.S.: Magnolia Blossom Inc. 1615 S. Congress Avenue, Suite 103 Delray Beach, Florida 33445 If outside the U.S.: Athelstan Enterprise B.V., hoogoorddreef 15, 1101 BA, Amsterdam, Netherlands. 0 response(s), 0 votes |
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Newbie questions - 4/23/2023 What experience and offers you have got for Mistress <br><br> What is your best play and color <br><br> What do you do for living <br><br> How soon are you willing to be with Mistress and how long 14 response(s), 100 votes |
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Newbie questions - 4/23/2023 What experience and offers you have got for Mistress <br><br> What is your best play and color <br><br> What do you do for living <br><br> How soon are you willing to be with Mistress and how long 4 response(s), 2 votes |
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Foot service - 3/15/2023 How do I get my face to lick some toes on a daily routine 15 response(s), 128 votes |
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Belly Punching - 2/22/2023 I recently came across this strange fetish that involves punching women in their stomach. Is that a real fantasy? Anyone heard of it before? 21 response(s), 146 votes |
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Belly Punching - 2/22/2023 I recently found out about a strange fetish that involves punching women in their stomach. Anyone else out there have this fantasy of wanting to punch a woman in her stomach? Or trample? Is that a turn on? 1 response(s), 1 vote |
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Belly Punching - 2/22/2023 I recently found out about a strange fetish that involves punching women in their stomach. Anyone else out there have this fantasy of wanting to punch a woman in her stomach? Or trample? Is that a turn on? 3 response(s), 0 votes |
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what i your go to post sex snack? - 2/12/2023 dunno if it's just me but after sex i always get hungry. and so as the title suggests im curious what are your go to snacks. Personally i go for something sweet a cookie or slice of cheese cake are never out of the question  . So
let me know if this is just me or a thing others do as well .23 response(s), 91 votes |
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Bbc - 1/4/2023 Anyone on here who is black and wants to stuff there big dick in me? 11 response(s), 106 votes |
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scammers - 1/4/2023 are there any real women on this site ? 49 response(s), 132 votes |
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why do all dominants seem to want me to quit the site after exchanging 4 or 5 messages with them? - 12/28/2022 I came to this site to figure out and explore the submissive side of my nature. It seems like every person i speak to, wants me to bond exclusively to them after the exchange of a handful of messages. Is that a definite sign of them being scammers or is my expectation of taking several days if not weeks to get to know someone before committing to being trained by them unrealistic? Am i expecting ... 37 response(s), 96 votes |
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why do all dominants seem to want me to quit the site after exchanging 4 or 5 messages with them? - 12/28/2022 I came to this site to figure out and explore the submissive side of my nature. It seems like every person i speak to, wants me to bond exclusively to them after the exchange of a handful of messages. Is that a definite sign of them being scammers or is my expectation of taking several days if not weeks to get to know someone before committing to being trained by them unrealistic? Am i expecting ... 2 response(s), 3 votes |
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A question - 12/19/2022 How long have you been on this site? Why? 21 response(s), 104 votes |
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A question - 12/19/2022 How long have you been on this site? Why? 2 response(s), 0 votes |
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A question - 12/19/2022 How long have you been on this site? Why? 2 response(s), 3 votes |
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A question - 12/19/2022 How long have you been on this site? Why? 5 response(s), 5 votes |
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A question - 12/19/2022 How long have you been on this site? Why? 1 response(s), 1 vote |
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A question - 12/19/2022 How long have you been on this site? Why? 1 response(s), 2 votes |
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A question - 12/19/2022 How long have you been on this site? Why? 3 response(s), 2 votes |
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A question - 12/19/2022 How long have you been on this site? Why? 1 response(s), 3 votes |
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A question - 12/19/2022 How long have you been on this site? Why? 3 response(s), 1 vote |
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A question - 12/19/2022 How long have you been on this site? Why? 3 response(s), 3 votes |
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A question - 12/19/2022 How long have you been on this site? Why? 2 response(s), 0 votes |
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A question - 12/19/2022 How long have you been on this site? Why? 0 response(s), 0 votes |
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A question - 12/19/2022 How long have you been on this site? Why? 0 response(s), 0 votes |
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Slave contracts - 12/13/2022 Does anyone know where I can find a Slave Contract for a potential full-use domestic and personal use Sex Slave?? 18 response(s), 55 votes |
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Has the icebreaker been stopped? - 12/13/2022 I used to have one and would like to change it, but it’s not to be found so has alt stopped doing it? <br><br> Thanks in advance 13 response(s), 44 votes |
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my candy cane - 12/9/2022 i sure like to play with it, i would love for you to lick it ! 13 response(s), 75 votes |
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Repeat notifications - 12/9/2022 I'm getting repeat notifications of my profile being viewed (every five minutes) by the same account even though that account isn't showing up as being online. <br><br> What the hell is going on? 9 response(s), 48 votes |
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How Does This Point System Work? - 11/30/2022 I'm fairly new to Alt and am a bit confused by the point system. Are the ways to gain points capped? I have 100 points for adding blog posts and can't seem to earn any more by making additional posts. Am I to be totally capped at earning points? 26 response(s), 57 votes |
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Searching member articles - 11/9/2022 So much of this website doesn't seem to work. <br><br> Why have a clickable link showing the number of articles someone has written, but the click then leads to nowhere. <br><br> So frustrating. 7 response(s), 97 votes |
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Best Halloween candy. - 10/30/2022 Alright people what is the best halloween candy in your opinions ' ?. <br><br>
Got to say myself i am partial to Coffee Crisps and Kit Kats,
But there are just a million options now. Hell back n the
day i dreaded the plain bags of chips that would litter my
haul now you get all sorts of awesome chip flavors.18 response(s), 120 votes |
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question - 10/25/2022 l like to see where i could find new ladies in my area that want to meet and have a gangbang and see if they like to do videos and new kinky sex. 17 response(s), 121 votes |
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where did everything go - 10/24/2022 looking here trying to find what have change on this site it really has change not the same is slower more boring no body comes here anymore very lame. 15 response(s), 77 votes |
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What happened? - 10/8/2022 i took some time away from Alt. i come back and the groups section seems to have disappeared i have a billion e mails from bots.....What is happening here ? 19 response(s), 119 votes |
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Why can't I view the profiles...... - 10/4/2022 Why can't I view the profiles in the Profiles I Can View section? 21 response(s), 80 votes |
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to be or not - 10/1/2022 here to try new taboo and seeing what is out there to do and try new kinky thing and play new thing and try what there alot to do here.there so much here to do and meet other and see what they are into and what they like to try.i like to find the most kinky things there is on this site and see if we can make it happen. 15 response(s), 48 votes |
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What was your first BBC experience, this is mine. - 9/25/2022 1978 - I was just hired as a shipping/rec. clerk for a company. SO being the FNG (fucking new guy) I was assigned to the 25th street warehouse. Helen - 60 something grey haired bookkeeper, took me over and introduced me to Mr. Lynch. Mr. Thomas Lynch - think of the big black guy in "The Green Mile" except he was 6'9" and bulging muscles. After a few months of working together, ... 10 response(s), 40 votes |
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QUESTIONS FROM A NEW GODDESS TO A COMPLETE AND TOTAL SLAVE - 9/13/2022 Can anyone answer me a couple of questions please? What is the proper way to ensure that a slave stays in his slave mindset? What is tge best way to incorporate 24/7 slavery? GODDESS DESIREE 16 response(s), 49 votes |
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Blow Job at the Restaurant - 9/1/2022 Can I sneak under the table at a restaurant and suck my master cock whiles he is waiting for his order or eating? and is it good to always take deep throat because if i am not choked i dont feel the pleasure and i want to have my ass eaten much more than my pussy. 44 response(s), 187 votes |
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How many dicks should i take in a gang bang? - 8/14/2022 Is there any limit or I can take as many dicks I can in a gangbang? I had max 5 men till now, but I am always hungry for more and more. Nd I love being video shot and pics taken like a Porn star as well. Guess that's cool. What do you guys feel? 64 response(s), 96 votes |
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favourable size of a all male gang bang? (how many?) (straight or gay?) - 8/12/2022 <br><br> 5? <br><br> 6? <br><br> 7? <br><br> 8? <br><br> 9? 10? 15? 20? or more? 20 response(s), 53 votes |
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Favorite Horror Movie? - 8/8/2022 Just a humid stormy day here and as such i figured why not watch some Horror movies. So that brought about me being here for this.. What is your all time favorite horror movie? 12 response(s), 60 votes |
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Why don't I get more gifts or help with gold membership - 7/11/2022 I Just wanna communicate with ppl on here. Finding ppl around the states from these sites is my ultimate goal 18 response(s), 76 votes |
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sissy - 6/20/2022 do these panties make me look sissy 36 response(s), 108 votes |
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Diapers - 6/15/2022 Who wants to see me in diapers 12 response(s), 67 votes |
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fun - 6/9/2022 its time to have fun looking for a woman that is into taboo and want to try new thing and see what else she wants to try. 19 response(s), 137 votes |
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Taboo - 6/7/2022 How taboo would you go 21 response(s), 127 votes |
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Domination - 5/30/2022 who is ready to have some fun? 30 response(s), 243 votes |
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Go to lotion for spanking, flogging aftercare? - 5/10/2022 It's been a while since I've put together an aftercare kit. What's your go to lotion for the aftercare of spanking and flogging, nipple clamps etc... I'm sure there are new and better products out today than there were years ago. 22 response(s), 96 votes |
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submissive Vs slave - 4/28/2022 What differences between submissive's Vs slave;s 24 response(s), 95 votes |
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No Restraints BDSM - 4/2/2022 I need find more information about BONDAGE without using restraints, pain or strict rules. Is there such a thing, to me it sounds very vanilla? 27 response(s), 238 votes |
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Mistresses - 3/23/2022 How do I know which Mistress is right for me? There’s so many to choose from. 24 response(s), 104 votes |
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what would you do - 3/12/2022 friend of mine was ask by dom mistress he has never met before she has him ask to book a dungeon to me it a red flag what do you think 24 response(s), 107 votes |
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How to increase the opposite sex - 2/23/2022 I want to know girls of the opposite sex but I don't seem to have their good feelings, so I have not dared to take the initiative to talk to girls, so the yearbook of more than forty years is still a person who has not made a girlfriend, so I want to ask you how female members can get or girls like？Or is there a girl here who is willing to try to associate with the stupid goose to see and ... 23 response(s), 89 votes |
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bondage suspension frame - 2/14/2022 I'm looking for advice on portable, bondage suspension frames. I've checked the Tripods and Quadpods on line, looked for DIY ideas. I live in a VERY old home. The ceilings wouldn't a ahrpoint without a professional installation contractor. (How do you explain a hardpoint in the middle of a room?) I've got nice high 8' 9" ceilings, so height isn't a problem. I'm ... 17 response(s), 65 votes |
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Ass - 1/25/2022 I have never been fucked in the ass and curious if you can feel him cumming inside of you ? 25 response(s), 108 votes |
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Cane, whip or hand? - 1/21/2022 Which do you prefer when giving a good spanking? 48 response(s), 98 votes |
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spankings - 9/18/2021 This is something that I have never been interested in. But I have been having an online conversation with a Domme from this site. All of a sudden, I have really started to crave a spanking from her I'm not looking for a punishment, so I'm not looking to be bratty in any way. Just a bare ass, over her knee spanking. Is there anything wrong with just coming out and asking for one? 46 response(s), 252 votes |
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Black cock - 7/7/2021 Why is "black cock" in requirements? 3 response(s), 5 votes |
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Do females like being called humiliating names, as part of play? - 6/13/2021 Mentioned this in a blog and would like to know what female think. I appreciate that it's personal preference, and it requires permission, to be meaningful in a private connection. 86 response(s), 262 votes |
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How is everyone meeting safely with Covid so widespread - 2/11/2021 What precautions are you taking when meeting? 30 response(s), 52 votes |
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Sounding - 12/10/2020 If you are into sounding can you share Some tips on safety and techniques? 29 response(s), 226 votes |
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Lockdown - 11/8/2020 Are you following the rules or are you meeting playmates and dating? 44 response(s), 201 votes |
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did everyone have a safe kinkoween? - 11/2/2020 with virus went to the local basement bullpen meet kinkoween with our regulars was safe kink fun ,  31 response(s), 207 votes |
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wHY RESPODENTS ARE NOT ACTIVE? - 10/23/2020 hERE WHY respondents are not active? 61 response(s), 232 votes |
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First Experience - 10/17/2020 what was your first experience with a dom/domme or sub/slave like? 4 response(s), 21 votes |
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Alone - 10/9/2020 Why it feels like alone all the time even on alt here...it seems to be perfect place for slaves like me 78 response(s), 408 votes |
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Alone - 10/9/2020 Why it feels like alone all the time even on alt here...it seems to be perfect place for slaves like me 25 response(s), 81 votes |
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Men and Women in love doing things to appease their innate desires. - 10/8/2020 Here we all are pleasure and to satisfy our fancies and love to express our innate desires on sex and love and care in our human life. In many blog posts i came to see that women the wonderful creation of God do titilate our manly senses. Sometimes the women are showing everything that we dream of. In this connection, I would love to ask my dear lovely men and women whether they fantasize making ... 22 response(s), 176 votes |
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Ideas for Profile Video For Sub Male - 9/28/2020 I'm trying to come up with some ideas for making a video or two to upload to my profile and I was wondering if I could get some suggestions and advice for some of the other members here. I don't really have any toys and I'm by myself so I'm thinking to keep it simple. [image]... 28 response(s), 103 votes |
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shopping - 9/21/2020 anyone know of a good place to shop for cloths and lingerie around rehobeth or bethany beach in maryland? 33 response(s), 136 votes |
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Cum volume - 9/12/2020 I have started taking a zinc cap and two vit E each day, plus plenty of water. I have noticed some improvement in the volume and consitsency of my spunk, wonder if others have any other methods they use ? 45 response(s), 244 votes |
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Why is it so difficult to find a play mate? - 8/27/2020 We have been looking for weeks but cannot find the right play mate. We have spent money on other sites with no results whatsoever. We are reluctant to keep paying out on these sites. How can we find genuine people? 61 response(s), 138 votes |
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messages - 8/20/2020 why does it take so many points to just chat 52 response(s), 144 votes |
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Real or not? - 7/23/2020 How can you tell what profiles are actually real and what one are fake? It seems to me if they want your email and phone number right away they are not real. Any helpful hints? Thanks for reading 44 response(s), 123 votes |
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When did you know? - 7/19/2020 When did you first know your sexual desires exceeded the “normal” vanilla lifestyle? Did you accept it immediately or did it take some time to acknowledge and accept? 1 response(s), 6 votes |
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Masks - 7/3/2020 Why do some people have such a hard time wearing masks, and understanding the concept as to why they should be worn? 3 response(s), 19 votes |
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doms/dommes and 'forced' bi - 6/6/2020 Do people have a genuine fetish of using or watching people of a questionable sexuality getting pushed past their limits and the point of no return? 40 response(s), 111 votes |
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Forced submission - 6/1/2020 My kink is that Iike to be forced into submission, I like me freedom taken from me. Haw many dommes would like to take a slave this way? 18 response(s), 75 votes |
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IM - 5/26/2020 I have just opened an account and I can't seem to open the IM at all, is this normal when you first join up? 7 response(s), 18 votes |
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Stinky, sweaty, smelly ass to worship - 5/19/2020 Do any women enjoy having their ass sniffed and licked after the have gone days without a shower? I love stinky dirty ass to worship and clean with my tongue. But it freaks most out 29 response(s), 135 votes |
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Intelligent subs - 5/16/2020 If you are Dom/me, how important is an intelligent sub to you? Are you just all about the body, or is their mind important too? 39 response(s), 133 votes |
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training kit - 5/13/2020 my question is i been ask to send money to a mistress to buy a training kit has i new to this and still learning this am needing some advice or any ideas would be great 42 response(s), 94 votes |
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Why? - 5/10/2020 Why do you feel that you need to lie? Why when a submissive/slave asks questions, she's not being submissive or slave like? 30 response(s), 111 votes |
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Why do we stereotype age? - 5/7/2020 Im 51, He's 63... People automatically assume we're "old" we are anything but "Old" . We have experience, and tons of energy... Enjoy an amazing sex life, together. Neither one of us is fat. However the we're either over looked or too old. Age is merely a number. Why do we as a people, tend to discriminate on age? 47 response(s), 170 votes |
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Hello - 5/5/2020 How do I get some of that jazzy bling on my profile? ... 30 response(s), 103 votes |
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stir crazy - 4/22/2020 this is all getting quite nuts. Hope some of you have play partners to share lock down with. How're you spending isolation? 28 response(s), 106 votes |
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Masterbating - 4/21/2020 How do you like to masterbate? 2 response(s), 19 votes |
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Masterbating - 4/21/2020 How do you like to masterbate? 1 response(s), 5 votes |
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How long is too long? - 4/12/2020 How long is too long to keep a male locked in chastity? <br><br> I am in my seventh year locked in long term chastity. I have had more than one keyholder. It is rare that any of them allows to that orgasm release. Most of the time is is orgasm denial. <br><br> My question is for me. Is seven years too long or not long enough. <br><br> I am thinking about ... 19 response(s), 111 votes |
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Is it Spring Fever or COVID ? - 4/10/2020 i don't know why, but for some reason my Desire for Dick seems to have spiked in the last few days. Maybe it is due to the singing birds, blooming flowers, and more hours of daylight here in the Northern Hemisphere. Or maybe it is some form of Sexual Cabin Fever induced by the covid mandated Social Distancing. Or maybe it is a combination of the two. Whatever the reason(s) my compulsion for ... 27 response(s), 91 votes |
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Submission to a black Mistress - 4/5/2020 Black bulls love to have white sissies under their power. Is that the same for black goddesses? Do they prefer to submit white males (or girls)? 12 response(s), 66 votes |
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hows everyone making it thru the lock down? - 4/4/2020 we enjoying our kinks with hot sex wear theme sex role play with each other.while waiting for it to end.how about you? 38 response(s), 120 votes |
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Does anyone have a dungeon that they rent out? - 3/30/2020 i am looking for a dungeon to rent in the Hamilton to K-W area. Prefer for an overnight experience. Would like to know details of rental if you have one. Thank you keith 9 response(s), 42 votes |
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points - 3/28/2020 do these question posts produce points? 26 response(s), 110 votes |
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lockdown - 3/28/2020 how's everyone dealing with the lockdown in the UK? I wanted try a little confinement but this isn't what I had in mind! 14 response(s), 59 votes |
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Not sure...chastity ring... - 3/27/2020 I've been told I need to buy a chastity device and i know it will be metal...do I get the chastity where the ring is hinged or a full circle? If a full circle, non-hinged, not sure exactly the size given that I THINK it should be 1.5". Wondering if my balls will fit through as well as cock to get it on correctly. Thoughts and experiences? 3 response(s), 12 votes |
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cock rings - 3/25/2020 What are the effects of a cock ring? 17 response(s), 53 votes |
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Male Webcam Play - 3/25/2020 Are people interested in seeing a play and tease himself on webcam? 8 response(s), 10 votes |
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Alone time - 3/25/2020 Did anyone else think there would be more people on here since many of us are stuck inside the house? Are people reading books instead? What is going on? 10 response(s), 13 votes |
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strapons - 3/24/2020 Does anyone like using strapons? 14 response(s), 17 votes |
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Messages - 3/20/2020 How do you contact someone about this site ? My messages received are now in Spanish .This happened before and then changed back to English. Was talking to a lady now cant reply. 12 response(s), 48 votes |
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How far would you or have you travelled to meet with another alt member? - 3/1/2020 1) Your city area (0 to 50 miles) <br><br> 2) Your state/province. <br><br> 3) The adjoining state/province. <br><br> 4) Country wide <br><br> 5) International 49 response(s), 78 votes |
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New to this, how do i find the right kind dominate woman for me? - 2/29/2020 Ive tried to get ex girlfriends to " take control" in bedroom and of certain things , or just to say the right kind of things during dirty talk or mild role playing. They all would just repeat a word or two that i said and not take it seriously. Only one years ago actually totally took control during sex of me. She 24 an me 18 at time, it was great but i was also to shy to say some of ... 3 response(s), 5 votes |
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Accessing members' photos - 2/19/2020 Is anybody else unable to access members' photos on their profiles? i have been getting the page, the pinwheel of destiny, but then a blank page. This has been going on for about three days. A friend sent me pics from her album, but all i could access was a white screen. i am a paying gold member, so i'm a bit confused about the whole thing. 21 response(s), 70 votes |
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have you been to green door swingers sex club in las vegas ? - 2/8/2020 hi we going this thrusday feb 27 and seeking info on the club and its bondage play area hows the club and others who go? thanks for any n all info and input 26 response(s), 99 votes |
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Fake automated emails or scam? - 2/1/2020 So before it seemed if gold members sent emails you could read them and at least know if they were real or just another cut and past scam. It also allowed you to know if Alt was legit or just all bots. This also allowed gold members to send some messages to all the other members even if they could not reply. Right now I am seeing several emails getting scrambled and replaced with junk . This is ... 22 response(s), 50 votes |
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How do "TIPS" work? - 1/31/2020 Been looking around on the site and can't find any info on how the "TIPS" feature works? If anyone has a clue, please share. <br><br> Thanks! 14 response(s), 55 votes |
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Are there any real Mistresses in this site? - 1/29/2020 Based on the last few months that I am a member of this site, I never came across a single Mistress that was not trying to scam me, so I'm wondering if there is any "real" Mistresses in this site? 11 response(s), 31 votes |
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Lost - 1/28/2020 I have been on the site now for over a year. I have had no luck at all. I mean I have talked to to some women on here but , no luck in finding what I am looking for. Let alone meet some one that’s not a bot . What am I doing wrong ? 13 response(s), 32 votes |
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Saddest part? - 1/27/2020 In the quest for points, what is the easiest way to get them? And what happens when you run of them? 5 response(s), 11 votes |
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For female subs - 1/27/2020 What are your expectations re financial arrangements if you live with a Dom / Master? Is it usual for such a person to work for employment? <br><br> Thanks 4 response(s), 42 votes |
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Question for experienced male doms - 1/27/2020 What are the usual financial arrangements for a live in salve / domestic servant? <br><br> Thanks 5 response(s), 30 votes |
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Question for experienced male doms - 1/27/2020 Has anyone ever brought a female from another country, and if so what were the financial arrangements? <br><br> Thanks 1 response(s), 17 votes |
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Monday curiosity - 1/26/2020 What was your best orgasm like and who was it with? 9 response(s), 34 votes |
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best time - 1/26/2020 Do you prefer at night, in the morning, mid-afternoon, or NOW? 7 response(s), 32 votes |
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Another question ....for you point lovers.. - 1/26/2020 And please give your very first thought as mine was...omg!, wtf? and like that song from Prince Karm, "Later Bitches" <br><br> So anyway, there I am replying some emails and all of a sudden I get that little box that says, this person flirted with me and when looking at the picture there is a sexy man holding a huge gun wider than of those ... 18 response(s), 54 votes |
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Should a sissie show his face in a profile - 1/26/2020 Should a sissie show his in profile picture yes or no 7 response(s), 24 votes |
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worthy sub? - 1/24/2020 how can i get a worthy sub i can train the way i believe is right? 17 response(s), 56 votes |
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What's an ambassador - 1/22/2020 Just wonder what's an ambassador on here how do you become one and what does it do for you 7 response(s), 18 votes |
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PROFILES I VIEWED - 1/18/2020 Only recently I became aware and started checking this section on the site. <br><br> I have to say that I am flabbergasted at the amount of profiles on there that I have NEVER looked at. <br><br> I understand that if the cursor passes over a profile, or I view them on the cams or IM, it registers, but there are profiles of people in other countries that do not even appear ... 15 response(s), 54 votes |
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ORLANDO LADIES - 1/13/2020 any orlando ladies enjoy creampies and anal sex? 10 response(s), 34 votes |
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Read profiles - 1/12/2020 Do gold members every read the profiles they message? I ask for local people or some one willing to come to me. I get messages from all over the us! 16 response(s), 50 votes |
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new to this - 1/12/2020 sorry ask but what is a 7 response(s), 30 votes |
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Use of everyday articles......or bespoke dildoes? - 1/11/2020 I am curious to know what fellow BDSM aficionados feel about the merits of using everyday articles rather then the use of designer dildoes. In the past I have enjoyed using fruit and vegetables, kitchen items, toys, and obviously bottles and cosmetic containers. I have also missed this up, with dildoes of various shapes and sizes! <br><br> For the most part, I have had the best ... 12 response(s), 37 votes |
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On being "Cuckold" ? - 1/11/2020 So anyway, I do have a serious question about the word "cuckold" and yes, forgive me if I am spelling it wrong because I am always thinking, I am. <br><br> I went to Berlin, Germany with another member from this site and sincerely, enjoyed an amazing time with a few flaws, that reminded me, I am not perfect. <br><br> ... 22 response(s), 60 votes |
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I have a Question - 1/9/2020 How many times do you get asked , what are you looking for on here 30 response(s), 30 votes |
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For male slaves... - 1/8/2020 Why would an owner find you pleasing and why do you want to be owned? Yeah, I know it's a simple question really but I have been such, I know what I dreamt about and what it actually was and so I guess I am interested with the male prospective I guess you can say. <br><br> But anyway for some points earn them and talk to me about what slavery means to ... 38 response(s), 47 votes |
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I have a question..... - 1/8/2020 Can you tell me a very dirty story and I do not want a long one. If you do not know any stories maybe a good dirty joke or knock knock games. ... 28 response(s), 49 votes |
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Moods - 1/5/2020 Is there anything with more changeable moods the us humans ? 10 response(s), 19 votes |
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Messages - 1/4/2020 Just wondering if others get messages in Spanish ? I don't read it or speak it but my messages only show up in Spanish Was talking to a lady then her message was suddenly in Spanish ?? 9 response(s), 33 votes |
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piercings - 1/3/2020 whats the best piercings for bondage 16 response(s), 33 votes |
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Satisfaction - 1/3/2020 What is most satisfying in D/s relationship ? 12 response(s), 24 votes |
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2020 its here - 12/31/2019 seen like 2019 came fast and was gone that fast year fly here but looking forward to what 2020 bring to this site 11 response(s), 21 votes |
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taboo - 12/29/2019 is taboo something that woman like and want to try there alot of taboos what is your favarite and what turn you on the most about kinky sex 25 response(s), 39 votes |
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If you had one SEXUAL desire awarded to you in 2020 - 12/28/2019 If you had one SEXUAL desire awarded to you in 2020 what would it be? <br><br> I mean something you always wanted to do but haven't had the opportunity yet. Maybe due to lack of willing partner or because you were too shy to ask. 26 response(s), 38 votes |
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Happy year is ready for the new year - 12/26/2019 To be ready in the new year. I hope that you will get everything you need and look forward to awakening your deep, dark, suppressed and enjoyable fantasies in the new year and happy birthday to all. 7 response(s), 35 votes |
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If you were totally new to ALT - 12/24/2019 If you were totally new to ALT and this was your first introduction, would you even stay here a day? 28 response(s), 53 votes |
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15 points - 12/23/2019 Anyone else now being charged 15 points to IM? 15 response(s), 31 votes |
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A Christmas party full of potential humiliation - 12/22/2019 I'm looking forward Christmas night party in a lady friends house. I have been accused of stealing her underwear. Her friend will be there as well. I have stolen underwear from both of these ladies. I will be dressed in red lingerie and stockings and suspender belt that will be clearly visible at times. Would be a pleasure to to listen as they verbally humiliate me about underwear ... 12 response(s), 36 votes |
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Where all the pussy - 12/21/2019 Vermont I own a house where you can privately allow submit and obey your sexual request and requirements <br><br> Cock torcher ...humiliation ........forced bareback or raw "no condom" ejaculation inside vagina or wherever demanded .........tie me down , releacing me after you have fully finished ejaculation in my and have been licked dry and had your orgasm juices drank 11 response(s), 33 votes |
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whats new - 12/19/2019 here looking to see what is new what woman are looking for and have in there mind when they first meet someone 9 response(s), 25 votes |
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Chastity - 12/16/2019 What's the longest time you have been locked in chastity 17 response(s), 31 votes |
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Safe words - 12/16/2019 Are safe words needed when there's a real connection between Dom and sub? Are they a good way to push limits without breaking trust? 24 response(s), 37 votes |
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Is it just me or is the website broken? - 12/15/2019 Even more than usual. Pictures aren't showing. Menus and pull down boxes are misaligned from the usual with options not working. 27 response(s), 54 votes |
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meet greet n freak get out n get it on or stay home - 12/14/2019 we going meet out local hotel lounge over drink then freak at hotel next to bar on sat dec 21 cuckold couples who love black dom bulls .will ya go or stay home 17 response(s), 50 votes |
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Sexual inclinations in women. - 12/12/2019 Women are more loving and giving and sharing in privacy. Why so?.Touch them and caress them in privacy accepting consent and they share openly and once aroused they wish for more sex and finallly penetration with moans. Any good experience can my friends share out of their encounters?.. 15 response(s), 33 votes |
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Anyone rlse having problems with search - 12/12/2019 When I try a search member, the site now no longer loads anything. Just the ads which dominates this site more and more. To make matters worse, I am a gold member also. 20 response(s), 35 votes |
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How many ways has ALT completely fucked up this website? - 12/5/2019 How many ways has ALT completely fucked up this website? <br><br> There is basically not a single service or feature on this site that is not faulty or broken in some shape or form. <br><br> It has made this site a complete waste of time and not as it was intended originally. 35 response(s), 46 votes |
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Sexuality in woman.... - 12/4/2019 Man and woman are natures partners in sex life. It is researched that woman does not leave a man if she truely loved him and vice versa. She submits to man for all his desires. My question is when they are under a safe roof who first tries to seduce and offer love and express love willingly? 12 response(s), 22 votes |
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Any Ejaculation partners middlebury vermont - 11/30/2019 I need a dominatrix can feed me puss and force me to ejaculate raw in her puss repeatedly a few times a week... 13 response(s), 20 votes |
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is it ok to get kinky on turkey day? - 11/28/2019 43 response(s), 55 votes |
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Anyone else having issues with alt taking points for nothing? - 11/21/2019 Alt seems to steal points at any time has anyone else been having this issue? 51 response(s), 55 votes |
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CORSETS AND BLOOD PRESSURE - 11/21/2019 I recently was checking my blood pressure after putting on a tight corset and noticed that it made my blood pressure significantly higher . I took the corset off and my blood pressure returned to normal . I am curious how this might effect me if I wore tight corsets often or exerted my self to much when wearing a tight corset? 18 response(s), 25 votes |
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daddy needs a lil girl ,milf,kinky,taboo ltr - 11/20/2019 with the many people on here real and fake it shouldnt be that hard find a ltr with the right individual.id love find a partner with very few limits that can please in ways no one else could or would do or allow 17 response(s), 26 votes |
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CUM eating issues - 11/20/2019 Hello; After I eat cum a few hours later my stomach gets upset . Does anyone else have this problem and what can I do about it? 21 response(s), 41 votes |
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Push Alt to bring back the 5 free messages a day? - 11/18/2019 Seems the site has gone downhill. 27 response(s), 44 votes |
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REAL MEETINGS ? Safety and Success - 11/17/2019 <br><br> Lets hear some meet up stories and what safety ... 22 response(s), 35 votes |
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Points would be OK if they worked - 11/15/2019 If you are lucky enough to connect on IM it sure wont be for long 17 response(s), 25 votes |
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gloryholes - 11/14/2019 when i was a bit local store had gloryhole booths of course i tried them out for curiosity sake .. only once was there ever a woman in there which was sooo hot .. who enjoys them still and how much have you done? ive sucked, been sucked and since i wanted to try my first bareback anal i got fucked through the hole 12 response(s), 19 votes |
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people get what kick means? - 11/13/2019 just curious. seems like only way to comminucate here. wellcraft290 7 response(s), 23 votes |
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Using blogs to communicate vs email - 11/13/2019 I've seen references people saying something the effect of "Not a gold member so can't email, hit me up on my blog" <br><br> Is there a way set up a blog entry have email-like conversations with other members? <br><br> Please advise <br><br> Thanks Toni 9 response(s), 16 votes |
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the best swingers club dungeon for group kink play. - 11/12/2019 we found a few on northeast one of our favorites is riplayground in providence ri.full dungeon in basement really hot. what are some other good 1s going? we do travel to clubs. 10 response(s), 23 votes |
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finish - 11/9/2019 this shit started when this web site change it keep asking for 1 point now its 10 fucking points how do you go from 1 point 10 points talk someone its sooo fucked up the way they got this shit rig up 10 response(s), 14 votes |
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New chastity - 11/6/2019 Now that I have a new chastity how long should I keep it locked on 19 response(s), 20 votes |
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points of view - 11/6/2019 does this site promote real or is it handy for golddiggers ? 13 response(s), 30 votes |
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Pictures ideas/suggestions - 11/6/2019 OK I don't have many pictures taken. So I am asking people for ideas or suggestions on what pictures I should add. Give me a style, scenery, and /or type of photo. If you want a specific pose then must send pictures showing the pose. Would like to know if perception of attractive style change the further away 8 response(s), 22 votes |
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fuck fuck fuck - 11/5/2019 i come here and talk about the points this fucking site does nothing but take away my points everytime i get points they never fucking work what is wrong with this site 14 response(s), 29 votes |
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Another question - 11/3/2019 How can I get a tranny come fuck me and get in relationship 9 response(s), 14 votes |
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My question is - 11/3/2019 How do you get a relationship here 9 response(s), 9 votes |
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what do you have to do? - 11/3/2019 Seriously want a dominant mistress from hell to dominate , humiliate , use anyway she pleases. What steps need to be taken to find a mistress around here? 8 response(s), 9 votes |
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asking question - 11/2/2019 why do you have to come here is to ask a question. on how this site works its sucks because the point they have taken from you when this shit does not work 12 response(s), 16 votes |
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IM woes - 11/1/2019 The IM system seems to be the biggest waste of time, points and energy!!! 25 response(s), 36 votes |
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hi dose every one have trouble with points - 10/30/2019 had to enjoy the site when fitting for points with ALT daily casuse the take what you already have for no reason 31 response(s), 27 votes |
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Instant messenger - 10/28/2019 I have just joined and cant get IM to work, it takes me to the order page, anyone know how to make it work please 3 response(s), 4 votes |
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Do you think it is weird to like incest role play (I like it) - 10/28/2019 A long time ago I discovered my friend was fucking her father. Ever since then incest has fascinated me. 17 response(s), 26 votes |
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Why are there so few DOMS on cam ???? - 10/27/2019 I'd like to see and hear a Dom use me on C2C . Do you think that would be a great way to introduce yourself??? 13 response(s), 27 votes |
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mate - 10/27/2019 looking for someone that is what i want is something you got to keep looking tell you find it and you will know when you find it you will be surprize 12 response(s), 13 votes |
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mental health and activities... - 10/25/2019 Have been stuck with sometime to think and one thing I haven't seen much about is dealing with mental health issues during activities...have you ever had any, dealt with any, etc....blah, blah...thanks 10 response(s), 18 votes |
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For switches, how quickly can you go from being in one role into being in the other? - 10/25/2019 For switches, how quickly can you go from being in role into being in the other? I wonder because for , for instance, although I do enjoy being on the dominant side it takes a buildup of things get from the submissive side that dominant side. Is it like that for you or can you like take a 10 min break, smoke a cigarette, a joint, whatever and boom you can be in the opposite role? ... 10 response(s), 23 votes |
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What is the greatest piece of advice you have ever received? - 10/25/2019 What is the greatest piece of advice you have ever received when it comes being in this sort of lifestyle or about sexuality at all? Thanks. 8 response(s), 17 votes |
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What music do you like to have playing during sessions? - 10/23/2019 So I was sitting here bored, listening to some music and I have just realized that certain songs, etc. have a way of bringing on certain memories and in some cases put me in certain moods to do certain things. It brought me to the question of what music do others like to have during sessions, I suppose many call them, and does that music do the same to you as it does to me when hearing it during ... 15 response(s), 19 votes |
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IM - 10/22/2019 Has anyone else experiencing IM now costing 20 points ? 26 response(s), 29 votes |
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hungry - 10/21/2019 like to eat after you had a good fuck........ sound kind of weird but fuck you burn all the energy you need to eat to fuck again 10 response(s), 20 votes |
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POINTS - 10/19/2019 i want to know why is that you have to for this fucking points to talk to people its like they charge you for everything fucking thing you do here you want to talk to someone its points you want to massage it points everything is a fucking point what in the fuck do you have to for points where you can get it for free.......... and why do you for points where this site and massenger if ... 23 response(s), 29 votes |
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IM - 10/17/2019 So it's 10 points to send and now it's charging 10 points to receive as well. Except when it tries to charge 11 points at first. AND how did I manage to start the day with 30, send 2 messages and then have 3 left an be unable to reply to a message sent me? Thanks for the great system and service 19 response(s), 29 votes |
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Positive Body Image ? - 10/17/2019 In the Group "Anything Goes" a poll has been posted asking how members refer to overweight females. Only two options were given; one positive and one negative. i chose the negative one, because it was closer to what i really think. (Check the poll to see my actual terminology.) However, it got me wondering about something that i have pondered for some time now. (Even though i have ... 23 response(s), 31 votes |
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looking - 10/16/2019 anyone here like this new changes they made 13 response(s), 10 votes |
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Denial of contact disciplined - 10/16/2019 Is denial of contact a form of punishment to a disobedient sub? 11 response(s), 43 votes |
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Blocking - 10/16/2019 Is there an effective way to block other members from being able to contact you, tried the block link on profiles but it does nothing and still getting messages coming through. 24 response(s), 31 votes |
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Music to Fuck to... - 10/15/2019 While music is not a necessity, it can be a kink, if you've got the right track. Maybe you even like to take some delicious dirty videos? What music do you add to the edited video ( the moaning and slapping sound of skin of course)? <br><br> So what do you think? Got any song suggestions to fuck to? Got a playlist to share? <br><br> *And to be clear, asking for music ... 12 response(s), 20 votes |
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IM Chat - 10/15/2019 is the IM chat working? Does it takes 10points even when know delivery or contact? 34 response(s), 38 votes |
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Forced bi- fantasy or made up? - 10/14/2019 Are people who pursue or enjoy the kink known as 'forced bi' living out a fetish or kidding themselves about their true sexuality? Especially interested to hear from those who've gone through with it. <br><br> No judgements towards LGBT please, keep it friendly 15 response(s), 21 votes |
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Made a mistake - 10/14/2019 I somehow Made a mistake and hit remove bid on being a top fan on a member, I was a fan but now I am not even listed as a fan. Any idea how to get ranking back. 11 response(s), 15 votes |
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what is the best way to meet RL bdsm abusers? - 10/14/2019 Please can people advise me. 5 response(s), 3 votes |
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where is everyone? - 10/13/2019 No locals in my area? 13 response(s), 12 votes |
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Older sissy - 10/12/2019 How do i start to meet new folks to use me? I have been on this site for many years also the name bp2436. I was in Maryland and now in texas. I am older than my profile pic and not as cute. I want to start meeting again. I have met in real time in the past least times and a couple lasted for years. See lrdbalto for references. How can i start again with discrete contacts. I have limited ... 7 response(s), 18 votes |
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Older sissy - 10/12/2019 How do i start to meet new folks to use me? I have been on this site for many years also the name bp2436. I was in Maryland and now in texas. I am older than my profile pic and not as cute. I want to start meeting again. I have met in real time in the past least times and a couple lasted for years. See lrdbalto for references. How can i start again with discrete contacts. I have limited ... 0 response(s), 2 votes |
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Older sissy - 10/12/2019 How do i start to meet new folks to use me? I have been on this site for many years also the name bp2436. I was in Maryland and now in texas. I am older than my profile pic and not as cute. I want to start meeting again. I have met in real time in the past least times and a couple lasted for years. See lrdbalto for references. How can i start again with discrete contacts. I have limited ... 0 response(s), 1 vote |
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Older sissy - 10/12/2019 How do i start to meet new folks to use me? I have been on this site for many years also the name bp2436. I was in Maryland and now in texas. I am older than my profile pic and not as cute. I want to start meeting again. I have met in real time in the past least times and a couple lasted for years. See lrdbalto for references. How can i start again with discrete contacts. I have limited ... 0 response(s), 2 votes |
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Cams - 10/10/2019 Cams appear be working again. I wonder for how long? 12 response(s), 30 votes |
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who is in charge - 10/8/2019 I want to know why this site doesn't allow members paying and non paying to view and make contact with each other. I thought this was a dating site for people of a particular mind set/ 27 response(s), 42 votes |
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Vanilla vs BDSM - 10/8/2019 When and how did you come to accept you aren't vanilla? 24 response(s), 34 votes |
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Thanks for the Spam - DickWads ! - 10/8/2019 It's bad enough that the new owners are doing their best to scare off members, now a couple idiots who are trolling for useless points have decided to spam the magazine section. And the mag is one of the few things that still works and that Everyone can participate in.  <br><br>
And what will they do with those points? Go on the IM (which
rarely works) in hopes of ...14 response(s), 35 votes |
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Are you just here for the points? - 10/7/2019 Make Alt Great Again 1 response(s), 0 votes |
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Let's go for 3 - 10/6/2019 Ignore for a third time 15 response(s), 40 votes |
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I wanna play again - 10/6/2019 Ignore this post as well 7 response(s), 19 votes |
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I wanna play - 10/6/2019 Ignore this post too 6 response(s), 15 votes |
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Halloween Playlist ? - 10/4/2019 It seems like this time of year every Radio Station plays "Monster Mash." But if you were going to make up a Halloween playlist, what other songs would you include? Here are the ones that i would put in: > --- "Excitable Boy" (Warren Zevon) --- "Werewolves of London (ditto) --- "Season of the Witch" (Donovan) --- "Witchy Woman" (The Eagles) --- ... 3 response(s), 6 votes |
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Hard limits with a slave. - 10/3/2019 Interested in knowing what other Masters hard limits are with a slave they owned. 0 response(s), 0 votes |
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How many still have cyber sex?? - 10/2/2019 How many women out there , still have fun on line, while they pleasure themselves? 33 response(s), 38 votes |
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Cleanliness ? - 9/27/2019 How important is cleanliness to you. Is it "Next to Godliness?" Or, as in the Manga below (read it right to left - it's Japanese) does the smell turn you on? <br><br> i've never sucked a stinky Dick myself. But i've often wondered what i'd do if i pulled a Man's pants down and was assaulted a three-day-stink, or even an uncut cock with smegma. ... 39 response(s), 63 votes |
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Why can't i view any cams - 9/27/2019 They all say Member has stopped broadcasting383 32 response(s), 30 votes |
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Do you think ALT should be reported for False Advertising and Fraud for overcharging credit cards? - 9/24/2019 There are many polls in the community section voted on by ALT users, that show that ALT advertising of paid services included with Gold or Silver membership such as IMC, Webcams, Points system, Editor and many other features are not functioning as intended currently. <br><br> What is even worse is users are reporting repeated charges to credit cards after cancelling membership which ... 38 response(s), 59 votes |
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Best way to find a mistress - 9/24/2019 Wish to be a sissy sub what's the best way to find a mistress? 7 response(s), 10 votes |
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Switching - 9/23/2019 Are mot ladies leaning towards submissiveness? Being in control is not of interest? 15 response(s), 29 votes |
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What are some of your kinks that aren't very popular, but they are very fun? - 9/20/2019 Just widening my mind of more things I don't know about. 21 response(s), 28 votes |
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How did you figure out what you actually wanted? - 9/20/2019 Myself being Bi-curious, and curious about lots of things. what made you realize it's what you wanted, and not some filthy thought? 8 response(s), 28 votes |
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What exactly are you looking for on this site? - 9/20/2019 Good question ask understand if someone is just wanting FWB, ONS, or a relationship. 18 response(s), 20 votes |
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What made you want to sleep with a TS? - 9/20/2019 I want know because I still just curious, but I haven't gotten over the hump of doing it. 5 response(s), 16 votes |
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Best way to get introduced into BDSM? - 9/20/2019 Just curious if anyone has any first time experiences help me understand better, and figure what I like. Or even tips of what makes it good for you? 6 response(s), 21 votes |
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PISS ENEMA - 9/13/2019 Is there anything in that when absorbed in the colon that can harm you? 14 response(s), 17 votes |
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50 Shades of Grey? - 9/12/2019 How can I spank or paddle a married sub w/o leaving marks for her husband to see. She wnats it badly 19 response(s), 17 votes |
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Golden Shower - 9/12/2019 , , , This old way of refreshment and powerdrinks
are stil forgot? This is the time to explöre the State of Golden Nectar and
find the ultimate way of life -pantha rhei! How you think about this idea? , , , ...13 response(s), 16 votes |
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Instant Chat - 9/10/2019 Do all are still having problems with instant chat? Think it's worst when I message a user is using a computer when I'm on my phone and vice-versa, any ideas how to make it work better? 15 response(s), 28 votes |
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Hair removal - 9/10/2019 Is there anything stronger than Nair for removing hair from crotch and legs? 12 response(s), 9 votes |
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Hotlisting - 9/8/2019 What is it with people adding you to their hotlist but then making no further attempt to communicate and ignoring IMs (when they work)? <br><br> Do they hope you will become a fan? <br><br> What is the point? 21 response(s), 23 votes |
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Heart or Mind? - 9/3/2019 So being somewhat new to this, I guess lifestyle as many call it....I wonder, to those of you in relationships, do you tend to follow your heart or your mind? I find a lot of the time I am stuck choosing between what my heart is telling me i desire and what my mind is telling me is good or bad for me. <br><br> Your thoughts....thanks. 17 response(s), 18 votes |
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taboo - 9/1/2019 looking and looking. for mature woman that are willing to try new kinky taboo. woman that are tired of the sex and old . one that want to spice things up and try and explore there limit. something that woman like to try and always fantasies about but never try it. 30 response(s), 36 votes |
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Are points being lost in conversation? - 8/29/2019 Points seem to be used up every time I chat? Anyone experiencing the thing? 33 response(s), 26 votes |
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Breath play - 8/28/2019 How far have you taken it? 8 response(s), 20 votes |
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Restrains! - 8/28/2019 What kind of restrains you find most efective, chains, cuffs, ropes, duct tape, etc.. 15 response(s), 21 votes |
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Just gotta know - 8/25/2019 Really now how do u really ever know> I meam there are thousands of mistress' out there. Some claim to be mistress' or goddess' and all of them are always atleast one state away. So how does one who wants training go about finding a mistress without traveling . I am a good and loyal soul and without a doubt am a great candidate for slavery and . but I want not to have to because I ... 19 response(s), 28 votes |
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MO - 8/21/2019 where are the best swingers nights in MO? 7 response(s), 17 votes |
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Do you wish you'd gotten into kink earlier? - 8/18/2019 As a relatively late starter I often wonder how things might have been different if I'd started . Any thoughts? 41 response(s), 64 votes |
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Can I block members on this site? - 8/15/2019 I am being pestered by someone and I told the person to leave me alone, but the person won't stop. Can I block this member? 7 response(s), 9 votes |
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Help with sub wife - 8/11/2019 . I wouldn't myself an experienced , but I'm learning. My wife is submissive me and I am looking for some advice / ideas for more ideas of fun scenes explore. This is not a "kneel in the corning with your nose just touching the wall for an hour" or a "you fucking suck his cock you choke on it" type of /sub relationship. She is submissive ME sexually. She already ... 10 response(s), 18 votes |
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IMC wont work for you? There is another option, use our Group Chat, All ALT users welcome. - 8/10/2019 IMC wont work you? There is another option, use our , All ALT users welcome. <br><br> Join ALT Website Community Feedback , ALT Website Community Feedback <br><br> h t t p s : / / alt.com/intgroups/gi44948/acshow_group.html? <br><br> This group has formed because ALT Website services are failing. <br><br> We have a group room ... 33 response(s), 61 votes |
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Chat messed up? - 8/9/2019 Is messed up for everyone else too? <br><br> Seems like most chats dont go through and there are no free chats anymore 40 response(s), 43 votes |
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Favorite Gag - 8/8/2019 Have you got a favorite gag? Either to use or have used on you. What makes it special? Personally I like ring and ball gags that encourage a lot of drool. 25 response(s), 57 votes |
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A SEPERATED LADY...sending gifts and then blocking?. - 8/4/2019 A seperated lady createsid on social sites. Asks for friendship. Once accepted her friendship first she for a couple of days makes relation asking many details. Then she tells she is to send you some costly to you. You say no to . Then she tells as a token of love she is interested to send some alongwith her some undisclosed document and items and sends to the person concerned through ... 20 response(s), 31 votes |
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Up Above the Fray - 8/3/2019 Have you done it on a old windmill platform? Climbed up the ladder and laid your lady down on that narrow wooden floor? 12 response(s), 23 votes |
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Does pressure of results lead to dating anxiety, and frustration? - 8/3/2019 I read complaints about how ineffective alt has been as a meeting website, and yet I have found both success and failure with the people on this site. Yes there is frustration with the website, but I believe we are here because it has a good of like minded people on site. So is it people's lack of instant reward, or the pressure hook up with everyone they write that leads this ... 12 response(s), 24 votes |
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why not - 8/2/2019 looking to meet and why would anyone not want to meet. the whole reason we are here is to discuss our kink and get to meet new people to try them soooo why not meeting and trying it 17 response(s), 23 votes |
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Free IM's Gone ? - 7/27/2019 standard members used to have 5 free IM's per day has this been removed as it wants to charge me points or upgrade to gold to chat on IM now even when its the only one I have done that day. Does anyone know if alt have changed this or is it another bug? 46 response(s), 51 votes |
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Have you done it in a soft rain?? - 7/25/2019 Given that it’s a , but raining gently (no thunder)it can be quite erotic. It is similar to getting it on with a you’ve pissed all over and similar to a amply endowed with body lotion. Slippery is sexy. 13 response(s), 27 votes |
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i dont understand - 7/23/2019 I'm not watching anyway... i don't understand 11 response(s), 18 votes |
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i dont understand - 7/23/2019 " Standard Members May View One Video at a Time <br><br> Premium Members can connect to multiple webcams and enjoy unlimited access to profiles, email, photos and sexy video introductions. Upgrade now and get 6 months FREE! <br><br> Note: Standard members might need to wait 5 to 20 seconds after closing one webcam before they can open another. Upgrade now to get ... 1 response(s), 4 votes |
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IM Not Working - 7/22/2019 A friend referred me to this site and we are both gold members, we tried to test the IM so I could learn how to use it, but I am not receiving any messages. <br><br> I have already, deleted my cookies and updated my preferences.. Is there something else I can do? 34 response(s), 47 votes |
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Cam Picture - 7/22/2019 How do I get a different picture that is displayed when I am on cam? 8 response(s), 17 votes |
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Cam Picture - 7/22/2019 How do I get a different picture that is displayed when I am on cam? 1 response(s), 4 votes |
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