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New sub interested in strapon - 11/16/2001 I'm a new submissive, but I want to try a strapon. What's it like, and how do I get a woman to bend me over? 0 response(s), 1 vote |
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Dom couple (husband & wife) relationship. - 8/30/2001 This true lesbian, is seeking her first experience with a Dom couple, can you offer me any advice, in how I canover come a nasty childhood experience under the hands of a man, from my own experiences Im okay chatting and letting males hug me, but my biggest fear is the sexual side in the dom couple relationship that Im seeking, I would be able to satisfy the woman, but the man, their would ... 1 response(s), 0 votes |
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halls mentho-lyptus - 6/19/2001 i had made a sub of mine stick a halls mentho-lyptus cough drop up her ass. it created a burrnig sensation thats was hoped for, but my question is, is that safe to keep doing, or will the medican bother something. 0 response(s), 0 votes |
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hard on problem - 6/7/2001 why is it that l am only 39yrs and l cannot get hot and mostly if it is the same person l always see? It is a problem to came and my legs do hurt when they are opened. We have had our relation for the last three years steadily, we really loved eachother but he betrayed our love and l ended with fungus and that put me off. We got back but these days we cannot make love easily, l fell ... 0 response(s), 0 votes |
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3SOME - 5/9/2001 DO OTHER MEN REALLY GET TURNED WATCHING THERE WIVES MAKE LOVE TO OTHER MEN 1 response(s), 0 votes |
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special dildo? - 5/5/2001 Does anyone know where to obtain a specialized dildo that stimulates the g-spot? It is made of a clear, hard material (similar to lucite), and it is bent in a special shape. It is smooth in texture, and I believe that it costs about $50.00. I cannot find it anywhere. <br> Thank you. 0 response(s), 0 votes |
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enema -- how much liquid? - 4/28/2001 How much water would you suggest I use for my first enema? Warm? any additives? How long should I try to hold it? Any advice is welcome. 0 response(s), 0 votes |
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SWOLLEN BALLS????? - 4/22/2001 THIS past weekend I ran in to some old friends.we had not seen each other in years, we talked about old times.this soon turn to how we use to have sex all the time.I was always the one in the middle, I would do her he would do me. I often would take her strapon while he watched & took pic.They told me they were in town with another couple that they wanted me to meet.Over dinner they told ... 0 response(s), 0 votes |
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Advice Sought on Maintaining D/s Energy - 4/20/2001 I would be very appreciative of any advice I could get from the creative Doms and subs out there. I am in a relatively new (5 month) relationship with my Dom. He is planning on moving in with me which means more time spent together doing the routine tasks of life. My ideal is a 24/7 relationship in which there ARE informal times when we just kinda pal around together but the D/s element ... 0 response(s), 0 votes |
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BITCH TRAINING 101!!! - 3/18/2001 JUST FOUND OUT my best friend's wife want to be a dog! she loves to be striped & have a collar and leash put on her. she said he don't have the balls to do it.are there any Dom OR DOMMIE that can help me keep this bitch in line? I'm a sub myself but this was 2 good to pass up.the nite I found out I put the collar on & made her strip naked & drive me around town stoping at a fast food place ... 0 response(s), 0 votes |
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shaving for men - 3/13/2001 I'm looking for tips on shaving my cock & balls. Lately when I shave my balls, they get real itchy after a few days. Not sure why. 0 response(s), 0 votes |
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Bottom Seeks Group for Ass-fisting - 2/23/2001 I'm a bottom who loves to stretch his asshole. Have several large toys that I use on myself. I am having a very hasd time finding others in VA or surronding locations that will stetch my ass, especially a group. Can someone help me out? 0 response(s), 0 votes |
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constricting devices on my cock and balls while stretching my ass... - 2/22/2001 i`ve used all sorts of string and cord around my cock and balls, i`ve even put weights around them.additionaly i`ve used every smooth cock shaped device around the house on my ass .i need new ideas or help... can you help me? 0 response(s), 0 votes |
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Valentine's Day: Is a gift appropriate? - 2/6/2001 I hope this doesn't seem too silly. I am a novice sub who, after some discussion and meetings, has just accepted a Dom for training purposes. We will have our first real session in two days, and Valentine's Day will be within a week of that. In a sense, I will have given him my virginity (in D/s). Assuming we have a good experience together, is it appropriate for me to acknowledge him ... 1 response(s), 0 votes |
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Love getting it in the butt - 1/24/2001 I love to take it in the butt.does that mean I may be Gay or Bi? My girlfriend love to use her strapon on me, and has just started to let some of her friends do the same.This was kool but now they want to bring in a guy or two to join in the fun.Not really into guys but like to submit to her.what should I do, bendover & take it, or just stop at the strapons.I'm really afraid I may like the ... 1 response(s), 2 votes |
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butt plugs...... - 1/13/2001 i enjoy wearing a butt plug. but i can't find one that will stay in, and can be worn all day. most just hurt or fall out. i had one with this little strap, but it was useless. i want to stretch so i can be fisted, any advice or objects, techniques, or other ways to stretch will be appreciated 2 response(s), 0 votes |
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What is OTK? - 12/10/2000 I have heard the term OTK from someone who was into spanking and light bondage. I have no idea what it means. Can someone clue me in? 1 response(s), 1 vote |
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Your Favorite Tricks that Drive Your Dom Crazy - 12/9/2000 I thought it would be fun if subs and even Doms wrote down some of the best/simplest/most creative/ ways a sub has just blown their Dom's mind. I am NOT looking for long involved rituals. I just want quick clever ideas of 5 sentences at the most. Here is one of my favorites as an example. <br> I bought a remote control vibrator at Good Vibrations right before the Dory Ally BDSM ... 0 response(s), 0 votes |
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Why can I find black women who are serious about being submissive? - 12/3/2000 I have been looking for a black sub for quite a while now and have not had much success. I've heard from a few but they are not serious about their submissiness. Are there any other resources I can look into besides this one? 0 response(s), 0 votes |
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New sub wanting to learn - 10/24/2000 I am new to BDSM and want to be a sub any Master would be proud to have. I want to learn all there is to know about being a sub but I am not sure how to go about finding a trainer and Master. I am also concerned about the dangers of finding a trainer and Master. Please help. 1 response(s), 0 votes |
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Verbal Size Humiliation - Where Do I Find It? - 8/13/2000 I find that having a woman deliver verbal, candid remarks regarding my below average size fits perfectly on that pain/pleasure line. These assessments can run the gamut from genuine disappointment to overtly derisive. I often fantasize about having a woman announce these feelings right in the midst of having sex. Love to locate a woman who's not afraid to be matter-of-fact honest in this ... 1 response(s), 0 votes |
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Pain without marks? - 7/20/2000 What's the most intense sort of pain that could be administered *without* leaving much in the way of telltale marks? I mark easily, far too easily, and crave intense BDSM pain/pleasure without residual markings. Thank you. 0 response(s), 1 vote |
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Switch, sub, or DOM ??? - 3/10/2000 Personally I consider myself a switch personally. But for the past few weeks, I've been seeing this girl and I don't know where she stands and when. Sometimes she'll start taking control, then just back off. While other times she's submissive then hits a neutral zone. Any suggestions on how to bring out the "real" her? 0 response(s), 0 votes |
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there,s a problem with the request of (women loking for men ) in the contry of canada. - 8/15/1999 could you check this section for me and try to organise this section as soon as you could please , because i don't under stand what's happen there or if it's my P.C. is in trouble. Thank for your attention, " tarro". 0 response(s), 0 votes |
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why ??? - 6/2/1999 i get turned on (and have to go off and have a wank if she is not in the mood if she is it only last about 5 mins) when my girlfriend shouts at me dose that mean i am a sub ? 0 response(s), 0 votes |
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How to find the male 'G' spot - 3/17/1999 Ok ladies sit up and take notice. Much to popular belief you are not the only ones with a 'G' spot. Its true that your is easier to reach than ours but once you have found it be ready for some spectacular fireworks from your partner. Ever noticed how when you get anywhere near your partners anus his hips start rising? Well this is because your only a few inch from his 'G' spot. Try oiling ... 1 response(s), 0 votes |
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What are some ideas that I can have my male slave do? - 3/5/1999 I began a few months ago dominating our relationship. I just started anal play and wearing of womens panties. I need ideas that would apply to him. I am now his mistress 24/7 and i provide him with lists that have to be completed. So please i ask you please give me some new ideas, for i want him to know that women are superior to him and his little package. 0 response(s), 2 votes |
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where can i find to sell my erotic photos - 2/15/1999 I have several erotic photos of different women doing different things and would like to find someplace to sell them. 0 response(s), 0 votes |
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How do I work on a budget - 1/25/1999 I am a starving college student who couldn't afford the complete gear. Are there any creative people out there who can help me have great sex on a budget? 0 response(s), 0 votes |
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