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meadowbunni 69 F
1 question
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i want to give breast milk - 3/17/2002

how can i stimulate my breasts into giving milk without getting pregnant?

3 response(s), 0 votes
Kuromaku 39 M
1 question
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TPE - 3/17/2002

I am new, and i have heard TPE used, and i have no idea what it means

0 response(s), 0 votes
MODCOCK 62 M
1 question
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Dick head with hair? - 3/9/2002

Just wondering if anyone has any experience or has seen or heard of guys with a hairy cock head. Mine suddenly sprouted hundreds of rapidly growing hairs just on the head.... seems very strange to me....

0 response(s), 0 votes
BTBAR11 74 C
1 question
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Swing Clubs - 2/22/2002

We are a swinging couple from south jersey and are interested in finding a club for swing, just a no pressure type place where people are there for the same reason we are.I know there are no signs posting these types of clubs, or a listing in the yellow pages.If there is anyone out there who can help us with this please let us know, anywhere in the state would be helpful.

0 response(s), 0 votes
PEPIE 49 F
1 question
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mistress moving a new sub in w/ her for 24/7 - 2/16/2002

i am a mistress and i have met a sub w/ no limitations, i am wondering how would a live in arrangemnet work, and a couple of months later getting married, how do i separate being domme and falling in love with my sub and not wanting to hurt him, how do i separate the 2 and losing the fire as being a domme.

0 response(s), 0 votes
brainwave 74 M
1 question
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Anyone in UK who prefers mutual masturbation to penetration? - 2/11/2002

Am I unusual? I would like to meet a woman without the hassle of worrying about penetration. For me one of the greatest pleasures is to bring a woman to a climax by clitoral stimulation. It is fantastic to see the pleasure this produces and the intensity of the climax because she knows she can just enjoy the moment for what it is. Similarly when a woman brings me to a climax it is all the ...

0 response(s), 0 votes
Ms_J_and_FB 55,1958 C
1 question
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Dom wife needs experience,sub hubby choping on bit where do we go? - 2/8/2002

we are new to these roles I loved being dom agressive male but have recently found love beeing sub even more wife needs more confidenced and ideas wondering if there are groups/couples/singels in our area for help she only wants subs I think she woried that she wont have controll if other dom is there we both like TV'S/CD'S so I guess what I'm saying is HEEELLLP!!!!! WE ARE IN ALEXANDRIA ...

0 response(s), 0 votes
HornywithHeels 47 F
1 question
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alt holiday resorts? - 2/6/2002

Can anyone supply details of holiday destinations with an adult / alt theme ?

1 response(s), 0 votes
Mountndelight 60 F
1 question
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Anal training - 1/22/2002

my Master has instructed me to find out about anal training using butt plugs, as he wishes to begin training me in wearing them so i will be more open and accessible in that area to him. i am interested to hear what experiences other subs have had in this type of training so i may report back to him before my training begins.

0 response(s), 0 votes
pirri7 60,1950 C
1 question
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Erotic vacation - 1/21/2002

Hello we are a copel som want to fund one erotict plase on the world ther the is possible to have nice vacation wid lots of sex exp. on the beach, wid or insaid of the swiming pool, wid m.m. <br> Best Regards uffe / Alesja <br> P.s We are open for all proposition

0 response(s), 0 votes
frustrated33 56 F
1 question
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Waxing hair on the labia - 1/18/2002

Can someone please help? my DOM wants me to wax the hair on my perineal/anal areas. My problem is that I cannot find a wax that recommends using it for that purpose. I've tried to carefully do small areas as test patches, but I cannot get the hair to come off. Does anyone know of a particular brand of wax and/or techniques to help me get this done?

0 response(s), 0 votes
thewall980 68 M
1 question
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WHAT happens in a european household - 1/9/2002

i'm thinking of beoming a sub in a european household? what does it mean what will happen or does happen?

0 response(s), 0 votes
gardeniagirl 118 F
1 question
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Master wants me to find female play partner...any takers? - 1/8/2002

My Master wants me to find a female partner to join us in our play. Where should I find her? I am a bi-curious submissive with no switch tendancies.

0 response(s), 0 votes
YoursMistress 44 M
2 questions
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Domination on the net? - 1/5/2002

Can you be dominated by someone thousands of miles away, over the inter net? If so what could/would/ should happen? How do you know when they have completed their jobs and how will you taim them. Is there many people interested in this area and where would you find them.

0 response(s), 0 votes
hardpeter4u 65 M
1 question
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Man to man sex---How do you find it? - 12/17/2001

I have recently become very turned on by the thought of having sex with another guy. I wonder if this is just a fantasy or not, but everytime I see another cock, I want to have it. I am married and consider myself straight. Is this a normal thing to go through and if so, how do I go about finding someone for this experience?

3 response(s), 1 vote
wildcouple2ofus 63 C
3 questions
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HELP!! What are we looking for? Peg is looking for female with a strap on in St. Louis - 12/17/2001

Well here it goes. We have been talking for some time about going out for a weekend just to find a female for her. She has never been with a female before and for some reason it seems to be turning her on "Oh and me too" just talking about it. She would like to find someone with a strap on to treat her right and it would be a great time for alittle oral. All I can tell you is that she ...

2 response(s), 1 vote
scheuee 43 M
1 question
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whaere is my mistress - 12/3/2001

i am a 26 yr old male who is looking do be dominated by a female/couple, i am new to this seen, but i would enjoy being someone's slave.

0 response(s), 0 votes
geoad 59 M
1 question
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How do i meet ladies in this exciting scene - 11/24/2001

i send e-mails but the women i send them to dont respond what am i doing wrong or is it my profile is wrong and unappealing.ive went your chat rooms but no one wants an inexperienced person ie ME.can you help or just point me in the right direction to convince people im 100% genuine

0 response(s), 0 votes
yrslaveboy24 46 M
2 questions
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New sub interested in strapon - 11/16/2001

I'm a new submissive, but I want to try a strapon. What's it like, and how do I get a woman to bend me over?

0 response(s), 1 vote
ashleigh_jane 45 F
1 question
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Dom couple (husband & wife) relationship. - 8/30/2001

This true lesbian, is seeking her first experience with a Dom couple, can you offer me any advice, in how I canover come a nasty childhood experience under the hands of a man, from my own experiences Im okay chatting and letting males hug me, but my biggest fear is the sexual side in the dom couple relationship that Im seeking, I would be able to satisfy the woman, but the man, their would ...

1 response(s), 0 votes
master_jedidiah 44 C
1 question
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halls mentho-lyptus - 6/19/2001

i had made a sub of mine stick a halls mentho-lyptus cough drop up her ass. it created a burrnig sensation thats was hoped for, but my question is, is that safe to keep doing, or will the medican bother something.

0 response(s), 0 votes
deborah36 62 F
1 question
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hard on problem - 6/7/2001

why is it that l am only 39yrs and l cannot get hot and mostly if it is the same person l always see? It is a problem to came and my legs do hurt when they are opened. We have had our relation for the last three years steadily, we really loved eachother but he betrayed our love and l ended with fungus and that put me off. We got back but these days we cannot make love easily, l fell ...

0 response(s), 0 votes
CJF69 65,1961 C
1 question
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3SOME - 5/9/2001

DO OTHER MEN REALLY GET TURNED WATCHING THERE WIVES MAKE LOVE TO OTHER MEN

1 response(s), 0 votes
toymaster3 66 M
1 question
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special dildo? - 5/5/2001

Does anyone know where to obtain a specialized dildo that stimulates the g-spot? It is made of a clear, hard material (similar to lucite), and it is bent in a special shape. It is smooth in texture, and I believe that it costs about $50.00. I cannot find it anywhere. <br> Thank you.

0 response(s), 0 votes
curiousfem32789 62 F
1 question
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enema -- how much liquid? - 4/28/2001

How much water would you suggest I use for my first enema? Warm? any additives? How long should I try to hold it? Any advice is welcome.

0 response(s), 0 votes
slutdog7 69 M
6 questions
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SWOLLEN BALLS????? - 4/22/2001

THIS past weekend I ran in to some old friends.we had not seen each other in years, we talked about old times.this soon turn to how we use to have sex all the time.I was always the one in the middle, I would do her he would do me. I often would take her strapon while he watched & took pic.They told me they were in town with another couple that they wanted me to meet.Over dinner they told ...

0 response(s), 0 votes
Lola7 58 F
2 questions
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Advice Sought on Maintaining D/s Energy - 4/20/2001

I would be very appreciative of any advice I could get from the creative Doms and subs out there. I am in a relatively new (5 month) relationship with my Dom. He is planning on moving in with me which means more time spent together doing the routine tasks of life. My ideal is a 24/7 relationship in which there ARE informal times when we just kinda pal around together but the D/s element ...

0 response(s), 0 votes
slutdog7 69 M
6 questions
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BITCH TRAINING 101!!! - 3/18/2001

JUST FOUND OUT my best friend's wife want to be a dog! she loves to be striped & have a collar and leash put on her. she said he don't have the balls to do it.are there any Dom OR DOMMIE that can help me keep this bitch in line? I'm a sub myself but this was 2 good to pass up.the nite I found out I put the collar on & made her strip naked & drive me around town stoping at a fast food place ...

0 response(s), 0 votes
NJGNTLDOM 63 M
1 question
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shaving for men - 3/13/2001

I'm looking for tips on shaving my cock & balls. Lately when I shave my balls, they get real itchy after a few days. Not sure why.

0 response(s), 0 votes
filtnastraw 46 M
1 question
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Bottom Seeks Group for Ass-fisting - 2/23/2001

I'm a bottom who loves to stretch his asshole. Have several large toys that I use on myself. I am having a very hasd time finding others in VA or surronding locations that will stetch my ass, especially a group. Can someone help me out?

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