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hotibodi 43 M
4 questions
Score 0.0
What is a multiple orgasm? - 8/5/2004

Yup heard this phrase a few times. but wat does it really mean? does it mean the gal experience a number of orgasms before the male cum or does it mean the gal experience multiple orgasm at the same time?

8 response(s), 0 votes
ilstupendo2 71 M
1 question
Score 0.0
advice sought on new pupil training - 8/5/2004

I need an expert to give me guidance on the strict control over a new pupils slave induction

1 response(s), 0 votes
DomLover1976 47 F
1 question
Score 0.0
Collaring Ceremony - 8/5/2004

i have been looking for items to wear in a Collaring Ceremony for a male Master and a female sub. i am not haveing much luck. Does anyone have any ideas?

6 response(s), 0 votes
Kaysler 40 M
2 questions
Score 0.0
Where is everyone - 8/3/2004

I'm 20 years old single and looking...and looking...and looking. From birth we have been told our 20's would be the best years of our lives for love. I am not seeing it. I have used online meeting centers such as here, aI've tried meeting people through friends. What's the deal? Why are we all having so much trouble meeting one another we have hundreds of thousands of singles looking on ...

13 response(s), 1 vote
uhhuh4u2 69 M
1 question
Score 0.0
How do I convince younger women that to be appreciated by an older man can in itself be rewarding? - 8/2/2004

younger women are looking for visual stimulation & I don't blame them but I can remember when I was only 19 & a 47 yearold taught me just what a learned & talented woman is capable of. In short she made me a better lover.Whay can't younger women see this. That 47 year old LADY appreciated me but boy did I appreciate her & for years I looked for more like her & found them too.

3 response(s), 3 votes
lookin4lotsofFun 49 C
6 questions
Score 0.0
Is there any where with Good Solid Medical Advice on analingus - 8/1/2004

With regard to analingus... <br> "Sorry, but I have to weigh in on the side of caution. There are too many reasons for the issue of safety to be raised. Can a dam stop hep C ? E Coli, Salmonella , etc. STDs also have been known to inhabit the anus. Actually, when rimming was so terribly popular in the 70s, the incidence of STDs and hep climbed steeply. It was then known as a ...

0 response(s), 0 votes
lookin4lotsofFun 49 C
6 questions
Score 0.0
My wife is interested in double penetration? - 8/1/2004

My wife is interested in double penetration. Is this possible for me to do with the aid of toys, strapons? Are there toys that would allow me to be able to make love to my wife's pussy with my penis and at the same time do her anally with a strapon or toy attachment? We have looked at toys on the net but cannot tell if the angle of the toys is possible to keep both my penis and the toy ...

5 response(s), 0 votes
lookin4lotsofFun 49 C
6 questions
Score 0.0
Another question about dual penetration... - 8/1/2004

Is there a toy that can make this possible? I'd like to find a VERY Very long (how long I am not sure that is why I am asking here) but no more than 3 or 4 inches in diameter (it has to be small in diameter - our backsides are way to tight) double ended dildo for my husband and I to place in our backsides at the same time. It would be like the lesbian couples I have seen do but instead of ...

3 response(s), 0 votes
justfree 44 M
1 question
Score 0.0
What is this life truly about? I want to know more... - 8/1/2004

Ok so how does one start out or begin to phathom what this is all about? My curiousity has finally gotten the better of me I need to satiate my hunger. <br> How does a newbie move on from being a newbie...?

6 response(s), 0 votes
sexydave4u3 50 M
1 question
Score 0.0
how to last longer in bed? - 8/1/2004

when it cums to sex with my wife i only last for about 5 min. befor i cum.but when im with someone eles and got a rubber on i can last a good 20 min.so why do i only last a sort time with my wife?can someone tell me what to do so i can last longer with my wife?

13 response(s), 0 votes
tex944 43 M
3 questions
Score 0.0
cock rings - 8/1/2004

How long must abstain for sex after have a cock ring insurted?

1 response(s), 0 votes
ikuiku78 45 M
3 questions
Score 0.0
Women, help me out! I'm ready to give up... - 7/31/2004

Here's the scenario...I send an e-mail, invite them to my network, they accept, I see that they are on IM, so I send them a standard "Hello", then they decline the invitation to chat. This has happened too many times and I have to wonder if anyone on here is serious at all. Why would you accept an invite into someone's network if you weren't the least bit interested in them? On top of ...

6 response(s), 0 votes
swankarlos 56 M
4 questions
Score 0.0
Looking for the scene in Spain - 7/31/2004

The problem is it seems more underground here than most places I have lived, which is strange since they have such a rich history of it here there is even an old inquisition dungeon below my house.

4 response(s), 0 votes
Petitediablo 48 M
1 question
Score 0.0
Anal females in the UK, do they exsist? - 7/31/2004

Hi, I really love anal sex but find it diificult to find woman in the UK into it..Have chatted to some on here who all said they love it and most woman do.. but not found any in real loife as yet..Not easy to find out and they often feel Im just a pervert when I try in bed..Any suggestions or offers? <br> G

3 response(s), 0 votes
lookin4lotsofFun 49 C
6 questions
Score 0.0
What does one do for analingus safety & cleanliness? - 7/30/2004

I have had someone toungue my backside out only a few times in my life and it has to be by far the most incredible feeliing in the world. I have also done the same to a few special individuals with the most mind blowing results. These times were all wild crazy in the heat of the moment or a long lust of the other person's incredibly hot backside. My Husband & I feel the same way with ...

5 response(s), 1 vote
labuse 50 M
1 question
Score 0.0
how safe is had? - 7/29/2004

I want to get it real hard, I mean been a sex slave and all, but i cannot get someone who can just do that, I am very busy and cannot give a 24/7 lifestyle of it, not even one day, but I realy like it. I want to be tiedup andspanked, have some nipple clamps and hot wax, and dildos. but I am not sure how can that be safe with someone I dont know?

4 response(s), 0 votes
justlookingbbw 47 F
2 questions
Score 0.0
What are the postions for presentation to a Dom? - 7/29/2004

I have a couple of questions. What are the postions for presentation to a Dom/Domme and what are the reasons for the postions? The only one that I have heard of is kneeling on the floor, hands on my thighs, palms up, knees spread wide, leaning back on my heels. Any help would be appreciated.

6 response(s), 1 vote
masternslutsub 68 C
5 questions
Score 0.0
SINGLES MEANS WOT? - 7/27/2004

On our profile it says couples only NO SINGLES so y do singles still mail us?? i really would like to no...

8 response(s), 0 votes
tiemeupintn 53 F
2 questions
Score 0.0
Looking for an "Educational Video" on bondage - 7/26/2004

i was just wondering if there was a good video about bondage that i could get my b-friend to watch. i've tried it with another guy before we got together, and i loved it. i don't think it would really freak him out if he found out i liked it. i could just say lets watch this movie, and i could mention that it looked like fun and i think we should give it a try. if anyone knows of some good ...

1 response(s), 0 votes
LVWIZZARD 66 M
1 question
Score 0.0
Do angels need sex too? - 7/25/2004

We all need to be satisfied right. Thats why were here but I have a limit. I'm hoping to find it so meday.

0 response(s), 0 votes
Sevyn 46 F
2 questions
Score 0.0
A Question For The Group: - 7/24/2004

I am looking for a little advice, I wondered if anyone had any experiance or would know of a good reputable web cam site, I may be able to get hooked up with? I see so many scam sites out there I thought some input from the group would be helpful and a good resource. I want to play and heck if I can make a bit of money on the side, I could use it. Thanks Sevyn

6 response(s), 0 votes
Sevyn 46 F
2 questions
Score 0.0
Late Spring Cleaning... - 7/24/2004

I finally got to my spring cleaning this last week, lol, ok late spring cleaning! I found that my panty drawer was overflowing. I have disposed of a couple pair at auction. While that was ok, and after doing some searches I see so many sites. How do you know which ones get the best results, price, response, etc. I have had a blast chatting with some of the people that responded to my adds. ...

7 response(s), 0 votes
ikuiku78 45 M
3 questions
Score 0.0
Sub fems...How do you interact with others as standard members? - 7/23/2004

I'm feeling a bit frustrated because there are so many standard members and their interaction seems limited. I can't even tell if someone is interested or not because I never receive any e-mails (most likely due to standard members not being able to e-mail me back). My question is...What's the best way to interact with a standard member if none of them are on chat or anything? Thanks in ...

6 response(s), 1 vote
dws_69 54 M
1 question
Score 0.0
Where R all da KINKY HORNY need a DICK N dar PUSSY AT ?? - 7/23/2004

I thought this site was 4 people that wanted 2 Fuck & have WILD SEX all the time. So Y don't the Boston area get FUCKIN, SUCKIN, LICKIN, HAIR PULLIN, BITIN, and my favorite EATIN ASS & FUCKIN female subs & slaves

1 response(s), 1 vote
KafkaKnows 50 M
1 question
Score 0.0
Should you try being BI - if your partner requests it - 7/23/2004

My woman asked me if I would give a man oral sex. While I'm not totally turned off by it, I'm not sure if I really want to doit. The reason I have not declined the chance to explore is that I know she would love watching me and another guy. Should I take one for the team!

9 response(s), 0 votes
BaSlave 65 M
3 questions
Score 0.0
Dreaming of Sex with a Man 24/7 - 7/22/2004

Since as far back as I can remember I've always dreamed of being a submissive sex slave to another man In my dream the scenes have changed the men looks have changed but what has remained the same always is that I am always submissive and the other man is aggressive and dominate and I enjoy satisfying his every demand. But in everyday life I'm not a shy person or submissive in anyway. I've ...

3 response(s), 0 votes
getwithU2 56 M
1 question
Score 0.0
Need help setting my wife's sexuality free!!!! - 7/21/2004

My wife is as sexually conservative as they come. Kinky for her is having a light on during the missionary position. We have discussed varying our routine, but when trying something new, she usually cuts it off, saying “it bugs her.” Any and all advice would be appreciated. There has got to be a fireball in her somewhere!

10 response(s), 0 votes
Gwyd 54 M
2 questions
Score 0.0
Female Squirting orgasm - 7/19/2004

I have slept with a lot of women, and for the first time, found one that...ummm...there is physical evidence of climax. This is new to me, and I found it to be a major turn on. Are there a lot of women who do this, or just the odd few with some unusual pluming?

1 response(s), 1 vote
sub_bmce 37 M
1 question
Score 0.0
Is 18 too young? - 7/19/2004

i am an 18 year old male who is new to the scene, and have sent out letters to a few Dommes in my area, asking Them if They might be interested in getting to know me well enough to consider me for a sub/slave position. Usually, when i get a response (if i do at all) it is that i am too young to know what i want in life. So, i would appreciate responses from anyone who could possibly shed ...

4 response(s), 0 votes
servant2u40 60 M
4 questions
Score 0.0
is oral cheating? - 7/19/2004

Do married woman see being eating out to orgasm from pussy or asshole liking cheating?

0 response(s), 0 votes