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Meh 10/10/2023
When did the messenger stop letting new members message
people using points?
0 Comments,
33 Views,
29 Votes
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Meh 10/10/2023
When did the messenger stop letting new members message
people using points?
0 Comments,
22 Views,
22 Votes
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Members not interested 7/9/2023
The whole Magazine set up is member driven, if your not interested
in posting any comments then that’s fine.
0 Comments,
29 Views,
23 Votes
,0.91 Score
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Meh 12/19/2022
This site is an embarrassment
0 Comments,
50 Views,
44 Votes
,0.34 Score
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Meh 12/19/2022
This site is an embarrassment
0 Comments,
31 Views,
27 Votes
,0.08 Score
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Meh 12/19/2022
This site is an embarrassment
0 Comments,
33 Views,
29 Votes
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Meh 12/19/2022
This site is an embarrassment
0 Comments,
25 Views,
25 Votes
,0.81 Score
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Meh 12/19/2022
This site is an embarrassment
0 Comments,
18 Views,
18 Votes
,0.94 Score
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Meh 12/19/2022
This site is an embarrassment
0 Comments,
28 Views,
25 Votes
,0.37 Score
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Meh 12/19/2022
This site is an embarrassment
0 Comments,
25 Views,
24 Votes
,0.74 Score
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Meh 12/19/2022
This site is an embarrassment
1 Comments,
23 Views,
19 Votes
,1.15 Score
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Meh 12/19/2022
This site is an embarrassment
0 Comments,
19 Views,
18 Votes
,0.26 Score
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Meh 12/19/2022
This site is an embarrassment
0 Comments,
11 Views,
9 Votes
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Its a bit hard 9/29/2021
But Its hard for me to tell someone of the same sex I am not
interested because regardless I am a caring person so I
want to make sure I do not offend anyone. What's the
best advice for this?
2 Comments,
87 Views,
67 Votes
,0.30 Score
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Saying no in a nice way 11/28/2020
how do you usually say no to someone that you are not interested
in?
6 Comments,
135 Views,
93 Votes
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Anyone have any secrets they want to share? 7/2/2020
Anything taboo stories to get the convo going?
1 Comments,
53 Views,
47 Votes
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Just points to reply 11/3/2019
Just points to reply
3 Comments,
108 Views,
87 Votes
,0.75 Score
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To be, or not to be... 5/4/2019
I got a question. Tis it nobler or more appropriate to tell
someone their is no interest, perhaps with explanation
or to end in perpetual silence?
1 Comments,
40 Views,
29 Votes
,0.43 Score
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CUT AND PASTE FOR SCAMMERS 3/22/2018
EVERY DAY on ALT.COM several million scammers are seeking
YOU out.! <br><br>
Does YOUR profile make you seem NEEDY ? <br><br>
<br><br>
As a PRO DOM who YES. makes a financial living from this lifestyle.
let me explain what I mean .. <br><br>
LOOK AT YOUR PROFILE , And I mean REALLY LOOK at it .. ...
1 Comments,
28 Views,
7 Votes
,2.79 Score
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Gay/Bi Men 9/24/2017
At what point to you get rude with the pushy gay men? i usually
just give a simple No Thanks.. But some just can't take
NO... I'm sure the women deal with this all the time.
Thanks
2 Comments,
61 Views,
18 Votes
,2.72 Score
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Polite rejection 3/11/2017
Have never suffered with too much ill feeling over being
rejected, although do how the arrogance of how some deliver
it. Currently if I want to tell someone they are not my type,
I have found that it softens it or puts it into perspective
to say that they are simply not my 'flavour'. Wondering
if that sounds crass? but it seems to make sense to me. Sound
like Volvo's some like Porches, some like ...
4 Comments,
59 Views,
14 Votes
,4.26 Score
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seems easy but... 12/14/2015
Wish I had the chance to say no to some of the ladies here,
but more often is men looking for another man that do not
take NO very easily. Why don't some read profiles?
2 Comments,
39 Views,
13 Votes
,3.98 Score
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Not Interested 4/16/2015
What do you think is the best way to tell someone you're
not interested? Especially if it's someone that you
probably will see somewhere and don't want an awkward
situation?
15 Comments,
129 Views,
18 Votes
,4.08 Score
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Nothing wrong 6/8/2014
To me there is nothing wrong with saying no thanks. I have
been in this lifestyle for many years 30 and counting. I
have seen, heard and done a lot and trust me not everything
is for everyone. Just find someone who fits you wants and
desires and then push the envelope a little but don't
go out of the comfort zone. This lifestyle only works well
with trust, openness, honesty and desire.
3 Comments,
42 Views,
10 Votes
,3.78 Score
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Saying no is better than bullshitting 8/26/2012
I have been approached by many women who have initially
provided me with bullshit photos so what do you say to them?
No thanks
2 Comments,
109 Views,
10 Votes
,4.18 Score
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be open and up front 7/24/2012
be open and up front and talk about what you both want and
be willing to try new things
1 Comments,
28 Views,
6 Votes
,3.65 Score
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I wish people would say no thanks!!! 3/7/2012
People don't just ignore e-mails!!!! Write back and
so no thanks!!! Way to many e-mails go unanswered!!!! It
is the polite thing to do!!!!
8 Comments,
115 Views,
13 Votes
,4.99 Score
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why? 1/28/2009
If i told somebody no thanks already and keep asking me for
sex? what can i do? that peson dont leave me alone. and im
sick of it.i dont like to use violence or be rude with people
but at this point i feel like if im gonna exploid.
2 Comments,
93 Views,
8 Votes
,3.01 Score
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The Sun, the Moon and the Stars, and I said no thank you 11/28/2008
I was recently approached by a Dominant that offered me
potentially everything. Several homes in amazing locations,
a connection to nature and life around them, boats, cars,
lake, city, prestige, a private dungeon, freedom to spend,
shop, primp, live what could be seen as the life of Riley.
His letters to me were so far and away from the norm I receive,
they caught my attention and ...
11 Comments,
452 Views,
29 Votes
,6.15 Score
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Already had a problem 5/4/2008
I've been a member here less than 24hrs and I've
been extremely polite to each and every response I've
recieved yet one member asked for my YM ID after our first
email. I politely told him that I don't give out my YM
ID's (I leave them off my profile for a reason) as I've
had problems on another site in the past. He immediately
emailed me back and rudely informed me I must be of lower ...
11 Comments,
371 Views,
34 Votes
,6.92 Score
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No Thank You 1/8/2008
I was checking on the love list and this couple came up
that look to be interesting so i set them a wink and put them
on my hot list. I was wink back and put on their hot list. I e-mail the back to let them know that i was interested in
them Even if they wear on the heavy side, I did not have a
problem with that. The Female was Dom and her husband was a Sub, I sent her a couple of e-mails as to ...
0 Comments,
230 Views,
9 Votes
,1.07 Score
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Thank You, I am not interested. 8/11/2007
When someone contacts me and their profile does not interest
me, I click the quick response and am done. The problem comes when they return email with nasty comments.
Why does NO THANKS have to become a slap to your sexuality,
sensuality, intelligence, body shape, lifestyle and
more?
Maybe the person receiving the NO THANKS should step back
for a moment and think that this person has ...
3 Comments,
119 Views,
9 Votes
,5.14 Score
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winks and flirting 7/20/2007
Having someone view your profile might suggest they liked
you picture or your one-line come on but it doesn't
necessarily mean they're interested. After reading
about you, there might not be a match. Still it shows up on
your "interested" list.
But winks should be a better indicator right? I say *should*
because I am the proud recipient of a "no thanks"
quick reply indicating she ...
2 Comments,
142 Views,
11 Votes
,5.04 Score
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Master's Offer 5/21/2007
I consider myself submissive. I received an offer from
a potential master about a week ago.
Here is my problem, the way he approached the subject made
me want to defy. I have never had that happen to me on a first
meeting. He chose to tell me that he is very prominate in
this community and that his wife knows nothing of his desires.
Those two facts right there made my stomach turn. It ...
7 Comments,
383 Views,
21 Votes
,5.97 Score
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no thanks 3/9/2007
I think it's just being rude not to reply to someone
that's taken the time to respond to your profile. ON the other hand there is too many random hits and fake, (maybe
people paid by this site) emails that it starts to piss you
off. If it's a genuine email I reply each time. There are
many ways to say no thanks but the best is thanks for your
interest but no thankyou.
3 Comments,
72 Views,
5 Votes
,4.12 Score
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random hits to your profile 2/13/2007
Anybody else wonder what contributes to some of randome
visits to your profile? Of course it is flaterring but curious
as well when somoeone for very far away drops by for a look.
4 Comments,
176 Views,
8 Votes
,3.01 Score
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Cock Shots 12/26/2006
i generally turn down requests
for contact from Men who send me nude pictures, especially
cock shots. But i got to thinking, why would a Man send one
of an unattrative cock. Don't get me wrong; most cocks
are more than average in size, but that alone doesn't
make them attractive. So i thought i'd hand out my POV
on the matter.
1) If Your cock is a ...
15 Comments,
534 Views,
39 Votes
,5.76 Score
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how do u say no 12/18/2006
when u set up a meeting with a girl and she smells like fish
how do u tell her no
1 Comments,
127 Views,
2 Votes
,1.04 Score
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leave it alone 11/21/2006
Why can't people take no for an answer. If a married
person contacts me I politely reply and tell them I am not
interested in married men. Please leave it at that. I don't
want to hear about your miserable marriage or that your
wife is not into it. I am not into it with a married man!
2 Comments,
287 Views,
13 Votes
,3.14 Score
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Why people donth bother to reply 11/12/2006
I have often been thinking why people are so lazy when it
comes to be polite on the net.
Very often when i send someone an email, i dont even get a
reply.
How hard is it to simply say "no thanks, i am not interested"
I know that some get a lots of emails. And of course the women
in here maybe get tons of mails, but thats not an excuse to
not reply, i mean if they get too many mails than ...
6 Comments,
251 Views,
15 Votes
,5.58 Score
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Should I...? 11/9/2006
My "boyfriend", Paul, is very persuasive.
Only recently have I finally given into him and had sex,
but before that I had to resort to all sorts of excuses to
say no. Did I have a good reason? No, not at all. I didn't
want to have sex, but then, I was young and didn't know
much. Every time Paul suggested it, I would feel embarassed
and wonder what to say. My first thought was always, "Should ...
3 Comments,
387 Views,
9 Votes
,3.21 Score
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Why do some trolls cant take a rejection 10/21/2006
Ive noticed that most trolls can not take rejection. It
makes me question..?
Im always polite when someone approaches me but I can get
really angry when they keep going on and on... so if this
is you.. dont show women that you are desperate it is so unattractive...
thank you
2 Comments,
235 Views,
14 Votes
,3.46 Score
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How to say no to a woman 10/6/2006
I meet this lovely and beautiful woman here on Alt.com.
I am ready for sex, in all kind and ways, so was she.., but
she was also ready for more; moving togheter in the same
apartment etc. She want listening to me, I doesn't
want a relationship. How to say "No"..!?
2 Comments,
379 Views,
8 Votes
,3.01 Score
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Male Obligations 9/23/2006
It seems the more and more I get into the lifestyle the more
and more i notice that we (of the lifestyle) have a respect
for one another. Top, bottom, male, female, doesn't
matter limits are limits. Which is great but since i live
in a small area i'm stuck looking for vanallia people
to be aroung and date around with, and i think I've noticed
that there is a great lack of resect it seems in ...
1 Comments,
162 Views,
5 Votes
,3.80 Score
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never thought it would happen 7/16/2006
never thought it would happen to me. I'm not one of those
pretty boys. In the last 3 months I have found 3 occasions
in which I needed to say "No thanks." For one
it was just there was no attraction what so ever. She kept
saying it was the best I could ever get - but I have learned
to have standards. The other was a lady who was in a sad state
mentally. I could not bring myself to ...
1 Comments,
225 Views,
8 Votes
,2.32 Score
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When there IS no reply... 7/9/2006
I'd think it's safe to say that if you send someone
a reply and you don't get one back, does this not mean
they're not interested?? I've had many people
get so snotty about this and show their true colrs/manners.
So.. What I DONT get is that WHY do the men get so upset over
not getting a reply when their profile CLEARLY states/wreaks
that they're out for a*s?? Personally, if they cant ...
4 Comments,
421 Views,
23 Votes
,4.65 Score
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How to explain to a submissive that he is not suitable 6/23/2006
A submissive usually would not take no for an answer. He
will ask and cajole and plead and say that he loves you(this
is often just a trick to get you to keep him). You get annoyed
bu his whining.
To test whether the guy is genuine, tell him to do something
difficult for you, that would require a lot of effort from
him and observe what he does.
He either does what you asked ...
2 Comments,
124 Views,
9 Votes
,5.56 Score
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Dont Take it personal.... 6/10/2006
Dont take it personal when you meet someone and the "chemistry"
just isnt there. The thing you have to remember is that 99%
of the people you meet you wont get along with EVEN if they
are physically attractive.
The key to finding the right person is knowing that YOU want
and need from a potential Dom/me sub/slave and then DONT
SETTLE for anything less.
When I am meeting someone whom I ...
2 Comments,
143 Views,
9 Votes
,4.07 Score
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everyones expecting 5/30/2006
people are always sending the most crazy emails and most
expect a responce. This isn't porn shop just a place
to hook up. if people would lightn up and just be honest with
self you'd be getting some right now.
1 Comments,
102 Views,
2 Votes
,3.81 Score
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will you be the slave for the rest of my life?NO THANKS 4/29/2006
Why people just dont understand when u refuse them and they
are so angry about it.I just dont get it, or maybe i am a little
bit stupid hehe
2 Comments,
227 Views,
7 Votes
,3.04 Score
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when you've found someone else.... 3/30/2006
Why is it that whenever I've said "Thank-you,
but I've found what I'm looking for right now"
men seem to think its an invite to ask one of, or the entire
series of questions...
"Why does he have I don't" "What makes you think he's better than me"
"Why did you lead me on"
"Will you keep in touch with me in case it doesn't
work out"
"Will you just call me anyways"
Its pathetic. ...
1 Comments,
170 Views,
10 Votes
,3.39 Score
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How to say you are not interested 3/25/2006
I believe that people need to be more honest when they either
respond to an individual, or show any interest. They need
to be upfront from the beginning. If the person does not
appeal to you, then let them know. Don't lead them on
and then back out. If you put a pic in your profile, make sure
it is you.
0 Comments,
93 Views,
5 Votes
,5.43 Score
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dont get tied down. 2/1/2006
She looked so nuetral. And as i talked to her she showed no
sign of what was to come . I went to her house and we drank some
then she got a little goofy and asked me if she could tie my
hands behind my back. i Playfiully said yes she looked so
sweet and beautiful. nice and almost naive.I let her kindinly
. She removed my pants and as i was naked she rubbed me off
before tying it off with ...
0 Comments,
549 Views,
21 Votes
,0.28 Score
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Is It Illiteracy or Just Ignorance? 1/10/2006
The thing is a lot of times, saying "No thanks"
doesn't work. Men are particularly clueless. They
troll. They stalk. They whine, wheedle, and lie their asses
off just for the incomprehensible "flirtation"
of showing you a picture of their penis as if that's
all the allure someone wants in a relationship. Get some
clues, boys!
<br>
When someone takes the time and makes the ...
2 Comments,
588 Views,
53 Votes
,6.80 Score
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Kinda hard to say NO 12/17/2005
Kinda ODD but I feel we all have had this moment in our "dateing"
lives.......hence ya like certain peeps but not sexually....But
they want you...Odd cause when you crave this you get it
but not from the ones you want....lol...Ironic cums to
mind...lol...So do you engage in sex just cause the other
wants too, or you say no and become the bad guy? I rather say
NO and be ohnest.....Sum say ...
1 Comments,
145 Views,
8 Votes
,2.09 Score
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How to say no 11/7/2005
To say "no" and make it stick, try this three-step
technique. Ask yourself each of these questions, and then
look your friend straight in the eye, and confidently state
your position:
<br>
<br>
1. What's the problem?
Be very specific about what is wrong. Give it a name. Say
"that's stealing, " or "that's
dangerous, " or "that's mean."
<br>
2. What could ...
0 Comments,
168 Views,
11 Votes
,2.42 Score
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how to say no 10/23/2005
Be honest in your evaluation of the other person and if you
still feel a negativity of interest be firm and say/write
NO (nothing else equates with these two letters so far as
communication is concerned - it is a universal acceptance
of negativity).
0 Comments,
205 Views,
15 Votes
,2.67 Score
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Propriety or Prudishness 9/10/2005
When it comes to male on male love....its strictly a matter
of personal choice. I mean , most guys have had one or two.......a
few or more Homosexual encounters in their time. (and)
that is understandable.
<br>
However, I think a guy has to make some choices...........like-
I am a regular Bi-sexual or I make a living fucking other
guys -up the ass, (ect.
<br>
Now, ...
2 Comments,
223 Views,
6 Votes
,2.80 Score
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How to say "No Thanks" 9/9/2005
I've been in a lot of situations where things were offered.
Whether its a lap dance or a 3rd helping of pie, when offered
and your not interested, I've always found the best
answer to be "No Thanks". Its simple and it works.
Why do we always try to make life so complicated?
0 Comments,
234 Views,
14 Votes
,5.54 Score
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"No" doesn't = "Nasty" 9/8/2005
One of the things the Internet has added to our lives as we
seek our partner, is access to a larger pool. I live in a city
that has plenty of prospective partners, but how do you
cut through the bs and find others with compatible interests?
The Net provides safe ways, like through ALT...
First, it enables me to look at a profile, hopefully with
a picture, and see if what's said or unsaid ...
1 Comments,
135 Views,
3 Votes
,3.43 Score
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After I was finished he said no thanks. 7/18/2005
I recently had a man write to me. This was the first e mail
to me and this is how I said no in a different way and gave him
a taste of his own crudeness.
_____________________________________
I'm looking for a bit of help--special help. I'm
thinking of having 4 guys over for a poker party but I need
a bit of an edge. You could help me with this edge by assuming
the role as my hostess ...
13 Comments,
1553 Views,
98 Votes
,8.00 Score
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I'm innept 7/8/2005
I meet people from thse sites occationally, and they're
never my type. I have no good way of turning them away, so
I just try and fade out of mind. Does anyone have a better
way, without hurting anyones feelings? Am I doing it right?
5 Comments,
343 Views,
11 Votes
,2.05 Score
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I try to be respectful 6/30/2005
Even when saying, no thank you, since respect is important.
One can not just say 'fuck off' .. well wait, one
can but it's entirely rude. Instead i like to point
out why i consider the whole effort a complete wash. It's
actually a fairly good way of pointing things out if mistakes
have been made. Things that people should consider....
i think it helps them in their searches.
Sometimes ...
2 Comments,
239 Views,
19 Votes
,5.10 Score
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Meeting and Declining Sexual Invitations 6/21/2005
Has anyone ever met anyone off of this site and changed thier
mind about having sex with them because of false information
or pictures posted on the site?
4 Comments,
569 Views,
15 Votes
,3.13 Score
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Safety In Play 6/12/2005
Hi All,
I recently went to meet up with a mistress from the uk, called
SexyDomBitch. We had chatted on line for a week days and
had discussed a lot fo BDSM activities we both enjoyed.
During this time, She had asked me to send her 15 pictures
of myself doing things she had told me she wanted to see.
Throughout this she refused point blank to send me a picture
of herself and told me I ...
6 Comments,
568 Views,
37 Votes
,6.54 Score
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White or Wong? 5/23/2005
My sub and I have been together for 30 plus years as husband
and wide as well as Dom/sub. I am a psychologist and from
the moment I met her I realised she was a closet Bisexual.
So I encouraged her to make love with other women, although
I liked to be present. She has had some terrific lovers;
some subs as well, which has made things especially good
from my point of view. But the most ...
0 Comments,
348 Views,
17 Votes
,1.29 Score
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Masochism without the sex 5/12/2005
I came here looking for someone to get involved in needle
play with, not because it arouses me sexually, but because
i like the how it feels in a "pain to know you are alive"
way. I have been in the community as a voyeur for a year now,
and the only thing that i have ever seen and wanted was to
be pierced.
I came to find a piercing artist who can maybe involve me
in a show without going ...
2 Comments,
313 Views,
16 Votes
,2.25 Score
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The Message 5/6/2005
I have always found it to be very important to communicate
in some detail as of why things will not click between a new
aquaiqutance and or enquiry. Even if my mail box is flooded
with virtually dozen’s of new messages with most of them
being “canned” and very short to a degree of a few pointed
and often degrading words. My responses have varied of
course, but overall I always give a ...
1 Comments,
369 Views,
25 Votes
,4.68 Score
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2005-05-06
"SANTA, can Police seize my cell phone, if we take
pictures of our doin's; this weeek-end with Tiffany, Ooopsie,
Carmen
and me, SANTA?" Just pretend to be 14yr. old, best
"nigga-friend" of Tiff.;"DARBY"
asked, as she continued to ride SANTA's pony, with
girlish enthusiasm. The old Elf chuockled and shook his
baldling head, and giving Darby a thank-you pat on her
caramel coloured butt, he said. "New Hanover County
Judge W.Allen Cobb Jr.Superior Court, in Wilmington,
NC, ruled
that arresting officers should have obtained a search
warrant before viewing images from the camera phone of
one Mr.ChristopherSnow, 26. Mr.Snow is charged by Wrightville
Beach Police with second-degree sexual-offense and secret
peeping-photographic image. A witness told Police that
she had seen Mr.Snow taking pictures of an unconscious
woman on the beach. An officer activated the phone and retrieved
several immages, including one of someone pulling down
the woman's underwear. A warrant was obtained the
next day, and police contacted Sprint corporate headquarters,
that provided copies of seven images including one of the
woman's genital area. Judge Cobb wrote "THE
SEARCH AND SEIZURE`Did not fall with in any aknowledged
exception to the Search Warrant requirement under THE
FOURTH AMENDMENT." "WOW, " jiggled
just pretend to be 14, Darby. SANTA continued, "Police
officers violatedMr.Snow's constitutional rights
when they seized a camera-cell phone containing explicit
images." "Judge Cobb's finding, could
create legal precedant and serve as a reference point for
future cases nationwide." [please excuse any typos,
no Spell-Checker-will keep readers posted on further
cases]
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No thanks !!! 5/4/2005
Is it just me or do a lot of people have a problem with saying
"no thanks" ?
<br>
I have been a member of alt now for several yaers and have
written many well directed messages top people. My profile
is very long and my messages are always directed at the speciffic
person, couple.
<br>
At the end of my message I always ask that if you are not interested
please just send ...
3 Comments,
384 Views,
27 Votes
,7.87 Score
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It's the same in vanilla... 4/28/2005
Courtesy and thoughtfulness SHOULD BE something that
everyone practices, no matter what kind of lifestyle they
lead...I will answer each and every message sent to me,
whether or not I think we would be compatible...and yet,
time after time, I get silence from those that feel we're
not compatible...I understand that some people will get
idiots messaging them, and they should be treated ...
0 Comments,
140 Views,
10 Votes
,4.58 Score
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what men want 4/14/2005
Men can stop chasing sex and say "no thanks"
but if it falls in their lap...they're all over it.
If a female walks to any guy she'll get sexual favors
3 out of 4 guys wether they're married or not
1 Comments,
194 Views,
13 Votes
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Me ? 3/20/2005
Usually I get a lot of inappropriate sexual offers because
I look so pretty. Some gays think I'm a boy HO and try
to buy me what a mistake they want a man and would run a soon
as they saw my tits! Not that wouldn't like it I'm
just not who they were thinking I was. Then some
teens try to pick-up on me usually girls who are attracted
by my looks and are under legal age not exactly who I ...
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I'm a bit curious 3/10/2005
hey out there I'm not sure if this is the right place
for this but can anyone tell me why most men on here seem not
to be able to read?
now I'm not a man hater, but as my profile states I'm
looking for a girl here as, don't take offense, but
men are somewhat easier to find in normal everyday life.
but I keep getting hounded by pictures of unatractive mens
privates and it's starting to ...
13 Comments,
857 Views,
50 Votes
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flakes 2/11/2005
why are there so many dishonest deceitful guys out there?
I am very explicity as to what i give and want from a guy. Im
a bottom tgirl and say so, but they lie about their desires
and only want a BJ. Or they are a half-and-half XDreseer
and look awful with their hairy bodies and terrible clothes.
Im also through replying to non-photo members. all men
are the same - only their ugly faces ...
3 Comments,
473 Views,
27 Votes
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2005-02-10
SANTA[DATELINE]PolicingVideoVoyeurs! [The FEDS join
the battle against perverts with cameras] JOlene Jang
was enjoying an outdoor festival in Seattle withherboyfriend
when she felt uneasy by a creepy guy standing too close behind
her. He was reaching into her backpack. When she confronted
him, the man started to run away, but Jang's boyfriend
tackled him and held him until police arrived. A pickpocket?
No the man wasn't just a pickpocket he was using a small
digital video camera to take pictures up her skirt. Her
assailant pleaded that he was just taking the pictures
for his own enjoyment. The courts thought different, he
was convicted, began serving 38 days for violation of
the State Voyeurism Law. However;the WashingtonState
Supreme Court, overturned the verdict[Ruling: That
Ms.Jang was out in public when it happened, she had no reasonable
expectation of privacy.] Furious Ms.Jang became an outspoken
activist, and finally the state rewrote the law [The space
under a person's clothes private even in a public place.]
SANTA has found out that currently 44 states have some kind
of statute that makes video voyeurism a crime. A just-passed
Federal Law could help sort out the problem of State's
Laws with vague wording and First Amendment issues. [It
is a crime to secretly photograph anyone onFederal Property
or Military Bases.] Ms.Jang says, "I'm still
wearing skirts, but i make sure that they're on the
longer side." [SANTA says"Excuse.typos.no.SpellChecker."]
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SANTA; 2/2/2005
SANTA[UnDeadLine]RALEIGH, NC;I'mDead? SANTA.was.reading.Police-Blotter,
Funeral-Obituaries, and Autopsy Rep- orts for a new "Article"
when he came.across.a.MedlcalExamner's.cause
of death:"UNDEAD!"return to Franklin Regional
MEdical Ctr.Hospital. A mwdical examiner studying a body
in the morgue was taken aback when he saw the man take a short
shallow breath. ...
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2005-02-02
SANTA[DEADLINE]VIDEO.VOYEURISM: "SANTA, What.is.the.most.recentcase
of "nonconsensual photograpy" with a video
camera?" "That would have to be when Bunny Brunt
was shopping at the Norolk Mall, in.Richmond, Va.for.prom.access-ories
with her 18-year-old daughter Raquel when she noticed
a man waving a.shopping.bag under Raquel's skirt.
obviously, if wishing he could see up her skirt, if she were
wearing panties, or maybe not, a blind shot of the teen-agers
pusse^." "When Mrs.Brunt confronted him, he
bolted. After she and another, custom er chased hin down
in the Mall. Security found a secret, hidden, video camera
vid.cam.in the shopping bag he had used to peer up Raquel's
skirt. Arrested, it was found that he had also been up-skirting.several
other-teens." "But, because of a loop-hole
in Virginia's law, prosecuters were.only able to
convict, Jeffrey Swisher of nonconsensual photography,
disorderly
conduct, to serve 10 DAYS IN JAIL!" inuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuu
"It's immoral, it's certainly wrong, but
under the code, it's just not a writtn offence, "said
Delegate John Cosgrove, who is sponsering a bill tyt would
close the loophole in Virgina's law. We're trying
to tight the code soo some pervert isn't able to up-skirt
or down-blouse any one else." Similar effforts have
played out across the coountry, as states struggle to to
rewoord laws written before the advancement of camers
technologyi led to a boom in digital voyeurism. The internet
has fueled the erotic explosionof"up-skirt"or"down-blouse"
into a search engine, and up to a million of Web sites have
popped up. [SANTA is going for a coffee break, if any more
of you readers are interested in what one critic of SANTA's
Articles called-"SLUDGE"-req est "up-skirts
#2]excuse any typos:
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Pay attention... 2/1/2005
I can't & won't speak for others. I can only
voice my own opinion, for whatever it's worth. Frankly,
if you answer a profile/message that the poster feels you
don't meet their requirements? Don't be surprised
if you get a reply that may singe your eyeballs!
<br>
People; male, female, top, bottom, dom/me, sub, slave,
whatever, get tired of sifting thru the needy, greedy,
fulfill ...
3 Comments,
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32 Votes
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there was a time 1/18/2005
There was a time I use to answer a polite "no thanks"
to all the mails I received (here or elswhere) beeing a woman
and a Dominant one generate a lot of asking mails.
Use to think I needed a special subcretary to answer all
of them but never found the one *S*
<br>
This took me a enormous amount of time, maybe because I was
more than polite and gave a little answer to every mail ...
7 Comments,
393 Views,
24 Votes
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A kinder way to reject a prospect 1/11/2005
My experience with the Alt IM and Chatrooms has left me with
a somewhat bitter taste for the manner in which disinterest
is shown.
<br>
I would suggest that Alt managment devise a more subte and
less semantic manner in which to indicate a lack of interest
in either an IM or private chat arrangement.
<br>
Could we not utilize, "Sorry, but [this person] is
not presently ...
3 Comments,
245 Views,
25 Votes
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ID feel much better 1/10/2005
yes thats right if a person feels the message they recieved
was not for them then a simple no thanks would do the trick.
By saying no in a responceyou let the other member know that
the site is not full of people who just want to show photos
of them selves so to all those who respond NO THANKS THANK
YOU FLASH51167
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[Another Santa ARRESTED]Touched.sex.11yr.oldElf: 1/10/2005
[DATELINE]ForestCity;ASantaAressted: AP: A-nother.Santa.was.charged.with
.taking taking indecent liberties with one of his girl
elfs. Davie.Cty sheriff's.said.that.the11yr.old.girl
volunteer.elf.was.touched.inappropr- iately as soon
as they left Forest City on the way to his house for a childrens
xmas party, after gaining parents permission to travel
with Santa. ...
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Revealing 1/2/2005
A friendly and polite response to a profile should merit
a "No thanks" if the person doesn't match
one's preferences. If not it would not only be a lack
of "kinderstube": it is surprising how many
people don't realize ho much they are revealing about
themselves by not extending this basic courtesy. Not getting
any reply at all after some time is an answer in itself - and
I for one accept ...
2 Comments,
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15 Votes
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Tell Me no, it's ok 12/22/2004
I would rather be told no thanks than hear nothing back.
I follow up with a reply thanking the person for taking the
time to turn me down
If you get a nasty response, look on the bright side, you
don't have to worry if you made the wrong choice turning
that person down. Then bask in the glow of knowing how bad
they really wanted you.
<br>
Anybody seen my slave?
0 Comments,
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17 Votes
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Say no thanks and then...... 12/22/2004
Say no thanks and then block the user. That way you don't
have to listen to the whiners.
<br>
Still looking for my slave.
0 Comments,
117 Views,
16 Votes
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In defence 12/18/2004
When I first joined Alt and every other site, I made a point
of replying to each response I got even though at times it
felt as if I needed a secretary.
<br>
I try to be clear on my wants/needs and not to lead anyone
up the garden path...
<br>
I thought that 'thanks for your interest but you are
not for me' would be appreciated instead I received
responses asking ...
4 Comments,
571 Views,
37 Votes
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how to get out without being rude. 12/15/2004
i recentley met this guy online and before we met he seemed
really cool. he looked attractive to me and he was well hung
and said he was a total top wich i really like. but when i got
to his place he was totally not what he said he was then i was
really dissapointed, but i didnt really know what to say.
i ended up leaving without doing anything with him but he
said that i was a tease and ...
2 Comments,
410 Views,
18 Votes
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saying not interested 12/8/2004
even if you email someone or they email you, it would be polite
in just saying no thanks or not my type, I have found that
people have a tendency to get really rude if you don't
respond either way. so I make it a point to reply whether
to say no thanks or not my type, just my viewpoint
4 Comments,
93 Views,
20 Votes
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WHy do people "phish" 12/7/2004
Why is it that people will send a "email" with
a different addy to respond back to. And then have links
to "paid" sites in order to reply. At other sites.?
To me it gets old. Am I the Lone Ranger or what?
1 Comments,
102 Views,
9 Votes
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Cougars 12/5/2004
I don't know about you, but I have trouble with Cougars.
They are constantly prowling around me, its not that I'm
overly against fooling around with older women, its when
they say "you know I have a your age" that
doesn't do it for me.
<br>
Why is it the Cougars are far more forward then the rest?
6 Comments,
226 Views,
16 Votes
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One of the obstacles I've run into with my own bi-curiosity... 12/2/2004
I used to get whipped every now and then by a master (who will
remain nameless here), he knew I was bi-curious, but he
also knew that the mutual agreement between US was he was
master and he whipped me. Before we did anything, we discussed
a bit about what was acceptable between us. I already have
a mistress and I'm HER slave, and every now and then
she liked to send me to him for a proper ...
1 Comments,
171 Views,
14 Votes
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Time to be polite. 11/16/2004
I believe that any well mannered person has the time to be
polite. Of course standard members are restricted to the
number of emails they can answer. I understand that. Anyone
who writes me gets a reply even if it is no thank you. I appreciate
that people here are reaching out to people they feel may
be kindred spirits. Take heart my fellow rejectees. Somebody's
looking for somebody like ...
2 Comments,
94 Views,
30 Votes
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Sometimes it's just not worth it! 11/15/2004
I used to take the time to say no politely and it usualy ends
up in the other person getting hostile over being rejected.
If someone is across the country or IN another country I
don't see the point of answering. It's silly to
me and I don't have the time to be honest. Don't
take it personally! Just my 2 cents..
1 Comments,
145 Views,
32 Votes
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how could you? 11/9/2004
this one would like to take a moment or two to speak her feelings
on the word No and what it means girl was always taught that
no matter your relation no matter your situation one always
has the right to say No or has a safe word then when used is
supposed to stop the present activity from happening but
it seems to this girl that sometimes ...
1 Comments,
97 Views,
17 Votes
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How lovely we are not meant for each other 10/31/2004
WEll well well,
of late i have had some pleasant experiences with saying
no thanks. In a couple of letters i responded with...'i
think You got the wrong idea about what i am looking for,
but thanks for writing' or ' i am afraid that that
is really not something i am interested in' or even
'now i know all about You, You have not even said why
You wrote me, i do not think there is any hope ...
0 Comments,
132 Views,
17 Votes
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how to say no. 10/30/2004
How do you say no to a person you dont even know? Well the truth
is you might be missing on a great guy or girl and most people
say no pretty quickly if the person standing infront of
them is not a gq or perfect ten model. Oh well get over it,
we are all sometime or another plastic, no matter what we
look like or are like we are only human. If you dont like the
person and dont have the ...
0 Comments,
37 Views,
12 Votes
,2.45 Score
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Please Read Profile Before Sending An Email 10/26/2004
I have recieved emails from individuals who have in all
likelihood not taken the time to read my profile. If they
had they wouldn't have put forth the effort to send
me an email as my location and what I am seeking here differs
from their own. I typically don't respond to these
emails, not out of a lack of common courtesy but because
it's clear that they either didn't read my profile,
or ...
5 Comments,
96 Views,
37 Votes
,5.95 Score
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Responding to e-mails 10/24/2004
I have seen frequent postings on alt about people who don't
answer e-mail. I myself have a system. In my profile I clearly
state that I won't relocate, want nothing to do with
attached partners and am not into sadists. Despite this
I get e-mail from these individuals which I typically don't
answer. Nor should I be expected to, if the individual sending
it has read my profile then they know ...
1 Comments,
91 Views,
20 Votes
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You'd have to be crazy. 10/12/2004
How many times has a hot woman in a tight red dress approached
you, brushed her blond bangs out of her blue eyes, curled
her pouty lips up and asked you: do you come here often? Do
you want to?
<br>
Now if this were to happen... would you turn her down? We
all know that if you are a man, and you know that this blonde
is not a man.... the answer is Huh NOOOO>
<br>
...
0 Comments,
73 Views,
9 Votes
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UNACCEPTABLE BEHAVIOR & THIS APPROACH IS COMPLETELY WRONG, WRONG, WRONG 9/23/2004
Most of the time a man is attracted to a woman's face,
her figure and then maybe her personality after. He then
wonders how her body would look without her clothes. That
is when his imagination starts to take over him completely.
He can not stop wondering what sex would be like with her.
Then he starts to create fantasies about having a sexual
encounter with her and he would do just about ...
1 Comments,
94 Views,
7 Votes
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Why can't they just say it???? 9/23/2004
with a few girls that i have been with later i found out they
just wanted to be friends. But they started it???? This
not makes me feel bad but it also makes me wonder what i do
to make them think that is the only way to be my friend? I think
that is why i like it here. Don't have to worry weather
you want to be my frined or not, just if you want to get it on,
if a friendship happens out of ...
0 Comments,
31 Views,
2 Votes
,3.81 Score
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Why can't they just say it???? 9/23/2004
with a few girls that i have been with later i found out they
just wanted to be friends. But they started it???? This
not makes me feel bad but it also makes me wonder what i do
to make them think that is the only way to be my friend? I think
that is why i like it here. Don't have to worry weather
you want to be my frined or not, just if you want to get it on,
if a friendship happens out of ...
0 Comments,
60 Views,
4 Votes
,2.86 Score
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UNACCEPTABLE BEHAVIOR & THIS APPROACH IS COMPLETELY WRONG, WRONG, WRONG 9/23/2004
Most of the time a man is attracted to a woman's face,
her figure and then maybe her personality after. He then
wonders how her body would look without her clothes. That
is when his imagination starts to take over him completely.
He can not stop wondering what sex would be like with her.
Then he starts to create fantasies about having a sexual
encounter with her and he would do just about ...
1 Comments,
135 Views,
20 Votes
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Submission brings a great deal of problems with being assertive 9/8/2004
I am a new submissive femme and getting more than my fair
share of responses. the trouble is that i am happy to messege
the Doms and i am not wasting time, i really do want to meet
up with some of them, but some of them try to really pressurise
me into a meeting the first time we talk and i find it very
difficult to say no. Sometimes they want things that i am
not ready for and sometimes ...
1 Comments,
83 Views,
16 Votes
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Reply to Hurting Feelings 8/31/2004
I too have seen much of this. When sent an e-mail no matter
if I am interested or not, I write back cordially thanking
them but respectfully declining. Why is it then these socalled
"Dominants" come back with acidy remarks and
hissing insults? One word: Immaturity. They've never
truly grown up. Either within the lifestyle or outside
of it. Same can be said for women however.
...
1 Comments,
84 Views,
36 Votes
,8.07 Score
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RE: Why do people find they have to lie ?? 8/30/2004
I had this happen to me just recently. A female submissive
was gung ho about being my sub. She was into kinky stuff that
I was into to. But she couldn’t express these feelings with
her husband (red flag #1). When it came down to meeting,
she didn’t want to give her number (red flag # 2) because
she says her husband is a snoop. To make a long story short,
she was a no-show and when ...
0 Comments,
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19 Votes
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got to be honest ya site is losing ground unless there more open hearts 8/29/2004
it not going to open hearts unless it beautiful i sorry i
lost not gonna come back unless human understand thier
own heart
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No Thanks is important 8/26/2004
No means No, unless you're role playing, then you should
pre-set a safe word. If not sure, then stop what you're
doing, as it is important that everything be agreed on,
and not against someone's will. (note, you can get
sued)
0 Comments,
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15 Votes
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Reply to Don't Bend Over 8/20/2004
Dear Tex944
<br>
I think you're article was better suited for the "jokes"
section of the magazine.
<br>
No true Master would ever speak so foolishly to His slave.
Maybe a young guy to his girlfriend, but not a Master to His
slave.
<br>
After reading some of your other articles and your profile,
I've come to the conclusion, you are a young guy, ...
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14 Votes
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An amendment to "Hurting Feelings" 8/6/2004
in my previous article i expressed how some people are rude
and hurtful to others and i said that some Doms dont realize
they are hurting feelings, i had meant to say that both Doms
and subs/slaves can be hurtful. i apologize to everyone.
subs can also be known to write back and be hurtful at times,
it is not JUST the Dom/Dommes that do. please accept my humble
apologies for the oversight ...
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11 Votes
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Hurting Feelings 8/2/2004
sometimes a person will be disinterested in another and
write back and be very hurtful. this is tasteless and tactless.
if you do not like how someone looks or are just disinterested
please just say no thank you. do not be rude. people have
feelings, sometimes Doms do not realize that their words
may hurt someoens feelings. but they do. its good to remember
that everyone has feelings. a lot ...
0 Comments,
92 Views,
23 Votes
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Don't bend over 8/1/2004
I often had my slave complain when i give it to there in the
ass, i hvae the answer just told her not ot bend over then!
2 Comments,
104 Views,
26 Votes
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No Thanks to Toys, Anal, Bi-Sex, and more. Section 1 - Toys 7/4/2004
My wife & I tie one another up occaionally and when it
happens the other knows it is no holds bar, meaning they
can do whatever they want to do. It was the only way we could
do the things "we" wanted even if the other was
not gung ho. For example, my wife was not so much into toys,
so I tie her up and play and play and play. She gets into into
eventually but the beginning is slow. She ...
0 Comments,
68 Views,
23 Votes
,5.23 Score
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No Thanks to Toys, Anal, Bi-Sex, and more. Section 2 - Toys 7/4/2004
The next time I tied my wife up she was on her stomach and I
licked her pussy clean, fingering the heck out of her. I
had 3 fingers in her pounding her pussy as deep and hard as
I could. I licked her anus ans she freaked out, then I did
it again, same reaction, then I just buried my tongue in
her tight forbidden litle hole and tongue ****ed the heck
out of her. She involuntarily spread ...
0 Comments,
66 Views,
11 Votes
,4.66 Score
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No Thanks to Toys, Anal, Bi-Sex, and more. Section 3 - Anal 7/4/2004
So only when I tie my wife up am I able to do wild and kinky things.
So I tied her up again, she hadnt let me do her anally but one
time until I force her to tied up. I tongue her out anally
forcing her to suck me till I am leaking cum all over. After
making her drink some of it I then toy around her anus with
the head of my penis leaking cum all over it. She loves the
feel of my penis ...
0 Comments,
84 Views,
11 Votes
,4.29 Score
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No Thanks to Toys, Anal, Bi-Sex, and more. Section 4 - Strapons 7/4/2004
So here I have my wife tied up able to do unspeakable things
to her in any manner or form I desire. So I eat her out bringing
her to orgasm. Then I pound her pussy till she comes yet another
time. I come all in her pussy and then make her lick me clean
sucking my cock and drinking the rest of my cum and her pussy
juice. I then lick her pussy clean of all her juices and at
her request ...
0 Comments,
145 Views,
13 Votes
,2.30 Score
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ha,ha,ha 5/31/2004
how do you get a gay guy to fuck a woman?shit in her cunt.
1 Comments,
177 Views,
43 Votes
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response to monkeylove 5/25/2004
Actually the auto response u mentiond is available now, ,
use the auto response feature in your preferances to say
"No Thanks" to everone that sends u a email,
and go back and apologize for the mix up on the ones you really
want to keep. this way everyone that sends u a message
can at least feel that u have responded back in kind
<br>
Good luck 
0 Comments,
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14 Votes
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Re: sayin no thanks 5/22/2004
I agree... When composing a message to someone with honesty
and being respectful, it would be appreicated to recieve
a reply of "no thanks" or "not interested, "
instead of wondering if the message was ever delivered....
A rating of non respon-dees or something similiar would
be a good idea...It would save time for those who are sincere
in their search would'nt ya think?
0 Comments,
150 Views,
20 Votes
,5.68 Score
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Not Interested In Meeting. 5/17/2004
Any suggestions for politely telling someone you are not
attracted to them after they eventually send you a picture...after
exchanging a number of emails?
0 Comments,
45 Views,
25 Votes
,5.57 Score
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Some People Have No Tact! 4/16/2004
I am finding that some people think I am being offensive
when I tell them I am only looking for people who love BBW.
Heres my point, I am very secure and I love who I am! Why should
I settle for someone who just wants to fuck? If you dont love
the chub..Im not the girl for you nor are you the guy for me.
Dont be mad about it. Appreciate that fact that I am REAL!
0 Comments,
32 Views,
65 Votes
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To Reply or Not to Reply 4/16/2004
When I contact someone, I always make sure I fit the profile.
I write a very thoughtful message that is based on the person's
profile. I have paid the extra fee so standard members can
contact me. Still, leaving out automatic replies I only
get about a 15-20% return. I'm a reasonably attractive
man, very intelligent and witty. To me, if I go to this much
trouble and the person just ignores ...
0 Comments,
23 Views,
46 Votes
,7.53 Score
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people who won't take no 4/14/2004
I try to respond to every reply to my ad but do not always have
time to do it right away. And I have had to tell a few people
no and then some on more than one occasion. There are a lot
of people that need to realize that just because someone
is on here looking doesn't mean they owe you anything.
I have had two different people try to convince me to give
them a chance (after I made it ...
0 Comments,
96 Views,
33 Votes
,7.83 Score
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The sisterhood..... 4/9/2004
Often wonders what happened to the sisterhood of submissives..those
who have the honor to allow their collared sisters to thrive
in a relationship with their Masters without interference,
jealousy, and envy. Seems too many now cannot have what
they wish, so they undermine those who have found some happiness
and surrender to One they adore and love...perhaps a lesson
to be learned here...if ...
0 Comments,
36 Views,
30 Votes
,5.79 Score
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Giving Negative Responses 4/2/2004
my Master throws group parties. So he sends out very polite
and insightful "cold calls" to come and meet
in a safe and sane place to screen and then to later attend
a safe and sane group party with like minded people. We browse
profiles on his addy because he is a gold member. We think
the serious will pay for membership although I am just a
standard member. It's worth the money to have ...
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To Reply or Not 3/17/2004
I don't know why some men reply to your ad and then get
upset when they are not answered. I am very explicit in my
profile as to what I am looking for and also what I am NOT looking
for. And yet men who are WAY outside my age parameters, are
married, or are otherwise unsuitable seem to think I will
bend those parameters and make an exception for them because
they are so ...
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A simple fast response to say no thanks is nice 2/20/2004
Many times I respond to folks and so no thanks that I am not
interested and I get back the sweetest emails saying thank
you for being polite. That is sort of sadenning that others
dont do the same -- on the other hand, don't hold it against
a standard member if they dont respond as Alt only allows
so many emails per day and the female members get tons more
mail that is allowed responses ...
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to respond or not to respond? 2/12/2004
Ahh, time for me to put in my $0.02 worth on the respond or
not 'debate'.
<br>
First, I have autoreply set on my alt account, that states
-
<br>
In my opinion, this autoreply ...
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best friend want me to join in 1/26/2004
i have a buddy who is cheating on his girlfriend with someone
elses wife and they both want me to join in and have a threesome
know my first thoughts were no way but i have been thinking
about changing my awnser and have some fun with them any
sugestions
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It is ok to say NO Thanks 1/14/2004
some Say that They Can not say No..But they can..Most Try
to inimtidate others but how they use Words.always Be on
Guard of Ones Who use Big Words to Throw you.With My Learnings.Ones
that come at Me with Baby You wont Ever find another Like
Me..is When I Run Fast and Hard..Know When To say No Thanks
I will pass on That. One Dont have to Agree to anything That
They dont Want too.
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ITS NOT BEING RUDE 12/22/2003
First of all … A profile states specifics…or it should…
as someone else stated in a post why would anyone bother
to reply to a specific request? If you don’t fit the request?
I know I don’t.. Why make a fool of your self and show how insensitive
you are to the needs of others... Who wants some one who doesnt
respect the needs of others?? Second… why post insults ...
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reply to Does Commonsense go out the window? 11/30/2003
I am a dom and I have a "no play" on the first date
rule (no play dosen't mean no sex, just no bondage).
It would seem to me that this should be an "unwritten
Law" for subs. Why would anyone put themselvs at the
complete mercy of a total stranger?
<br>
Hey, there are clowns out there and they are eating people!
So, this is more advice than anything. When meeting someone
new, ...
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Does Commonsense go out the window? 11/1/2003
Surely the rules in the real time dating world are the same
as a first meeting from a d/s chat site or a personals ? For
example meeting a jerk in a d/s situation that has appeared
to be a perfect person online, why does the disappointed
person not say thanks but no thanks? What perception is
there that this person who purports to be dominant has to
be obeyed? Surely the disappointed person ...
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respond too just say no 10/22/2003
there is a difference is saying no thanks and just flat out
being rude! It doesn't take someone using such language
too get ones point across. Treat everyone like you would
want too be treated yourself.
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RE: 2nd "re a little advice " 10/19/2003
I sort of see what you are talking about, but I still agree
with the original article...
Currently I live in a very large metropolitan area, and
just going 20-30 miles can take an hour or two. However,
I may only have a total of 4 hours to give to a partner, due
to my current situation... I would hate for a guy to travel
several miles to see me, and find out at the last minute that ...
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re a little advice 10/8/2003
I talking a bout the profiles people post and the ones they
answer. And of course those people who write you who are
2 hours away(etc)
<br>
Think for one second(not meant to be rude), but some people
who really beleive in the life, are in small towns with good
jobs, are not willing to give everything up just to meet
that speacil person, what about them?
<br>
They ...
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Push LOVE BLIND 7/7/2003
I kept emailing this woman that thought I was sexy. I guess
I wound up hurting my self-Cause she thought I was obbsecive?
I was trying to email her , and she was a standerd member.
I wished her all the best.BUT she thinks I am strange, sorry
I forgot to have manners.
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is it right to abuse someone while their hurting? 1/22/2003
well is it?
u dont a friend, sit on the edge of their bed and while
their asleep touch them.
u dont do u?
especialy when they have just been made homeless, childless, humiliated, and
forced to be sub or else.
by yet another nasty vile monster.
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when a sub is really a dom 1/17/2003
i recently knew a very mixed up man, howard a sub.
he strangely ordered me about, yet still insisted he was
sub.
hed lose his temper with me, tell me im a bitch.
hes well and truly gone from my life.......he tried to abuse
his cleaner, what a weirdo.
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