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Relationship 7/9/2023
Relationship can only happen where there is free interaction
between people.
1 Comments,
73 Views,
49 Votes
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Covid 11/20/2022
Why are there so many covid posts here?
1 Comments,
84 Views,
72 Votes
,0.91 Score
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Intimacy of a Dom and his slave 3/5/2022
Forever and ever I have required the heat and passion of
a slave. <br><br>
I need her heart more than I want her body or servitude. <br><br>
The act of deep kissing is my form of TPE as she gives herself
completely and the connection is perfect with no pretense
or costume. To lie upon her breasts and listen to her breathe.
To press my ear into her as to hear her heart ...
5 Comments,
143 Views,
83 Votes
,2.49 Score
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Relationship building 7/4/2021
Relationship are a 24 / 7 job. I sometime
wonder if it's worth the effort or if settling for the
occasionally hoop up is the way to go....
7 Comments,
205 Views,
130 Votes
,0.74 Score
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Central Astronauts Training Education Masochist feetslave 6/20/2021
article is in preperation
1 Comments,
96 Views,
87 Votes
,1.23 Score
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Finding True Self By Being Humbled 4/24/2021
We all agree, it seems, that D/s relationships are tricky
affairs which most folks aren't very adept at. The
control freak is too often abusive rather than an instructive
dominant and the bratty sub is an attention rather
than a yielding submissive. Why is this so and what to do?
<br><br>
Humiliation is not a fetish but a pathway to discovering
reality-based selfhood of the ...
7 Comments,
200 Views,
90 Votes
,1.48 Score
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Corona's time 7/31/2020
Hello, I hope that everyone will be fine, healthy and happy.
We previously talked about the most dangerous disease,
which is the Corona virus or Covid-19. There are some conclusions,
such as this disease that will leave an impact with humanity.
Some people began live with this disease as if the disease
did not exist, and it may be the most dangerous stage or vice
versa. A puzzling question. It ...
2 Comments,
129 Views,
95 Votes
,1.16 Score
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Greetings to doctors and nurses in the world who are victims of humanity 5/24/2020
The diary of the Corona Virus. I wish everyone a recovery,
and that everything is okay with everyone and be in health,
happiness, and salutation to the doctors and nurses in
the world who are victims for humanity and death for
humanity. From the due appeal, I understand many thanks,
gratitude and gratitude. The most loyal loyal soldiers
of the homeland are lost because they are in battle with
an ...
2 Comments,
99 Views,
78 Votes
,1.16 Score
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God, joy and smile prevail over all the people of the world 5/16/2020
Good evening to friends. I hope for everyone to be well and
well. Complement a topic. I love adding some things. We
talked about the most serious disease that afflicted mankind
and the paralysis of the economic movement in the world
days. Life comes back from another. But we have to be careful.
I talked about some sixty products that the virus with
weather A lemon sunlight Most herbs. Drinks, ...
0 Comments,
69 Views,
60 Votes
,0.63 Score
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O Lord, the joy and smile prevail over all the peoples of the world 4/30/2020
Welcome to the next chapter of my blog The Most Dangerous
Enemies of People We Benefit From Or There is a useful experience
that informs conclusions about the most dangerous human
disease Hovoved Corona virus emerging What you should
know about the emerging corona virus disease as a benefit
The corona virus emerging affects people all over the world,
including Many as the virus continues to ...
1 Comments,
80 Views,
67 Votes
,0.51 Score
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The most dangerous enemies of humans 4/30/2020
Hello everyone who read my blog and I wish the good and happiness
to the people of the world and I hope that it is fine and good
health and the recovery of all disease. We benefit from
it or a useful experiment that benefits conclusions from
the Coronavirus or (COVID-19) is present in areas that
witness a widespread and continuous spread, for example
cold areas like Europe and America, the ...
3 Comments,
88 Views,
65 Votes
,0.38 Score
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Good three in the morning, evening and late night 12/26/2019
Good in the morning, evening and late night
3 Comments,
104 Views,
71 Votes
,1.38 Score
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Happy year is ready for the new year 12/26/2019
be ready in the year. I hope that you will get everything
you need and forward awakening your deep, dark,
suppressed and enjoyable fantasies in the year and
happy birthday all.
6 Comments,
64 Views,
47 Votes
,0.90 Score
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How to contact you 12/25/2019
Hello, <br><br>
Thanks for reading. If you are of points, how are you
contacting people here? I am using malepuppylips on k.i.k.
<br><br>
I enjoy breast , rope , anal, spanking, role ,
taboo, /, Mother/, Doctor/patient,
etc., collar and leash, caging, pet , nipple stretching,
anal stretching, anal plugs, bondage, hot wax, etc...
<br><br> ...
1 Comments,
66 Views,
39 Votes
,0.79 Score
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How to contact you 12/25/2019
Hello, <br><br>
Thanks for reading. If you are of points, how are you
contacting people here? I am using malepuppylips on k.i.k.
<br><br>
I enjoy breast , rope , anal, spanking, role ,
taboo, /, Mother/, Doctor/patient,
etc., collar and leash, caging, pet , nipple stretching,
anal stretching, anal plugs, bondage, hot wax, etc...
<br><br> ...
1 Comments,
54 Views,
28 Votes
,2.01 Score
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how to 12/12/2019
i would if it were easier to build points
0 Comments,
13 Views,
10 Votes
,1.59 Score
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Bus Journey. 12/11/2019
Travelling is a hobby for many and compulsion for most of
us. We have to travel long distances and when in urgency without
reserved tickets in train BUS JOURNEY becomes best option.
On such an occasion I had to travel and I boarded the bus.
There were two seats on remote back corner. Relunctantly
i sat there . After an hour on next stop of bus a young lady
of 30 around entered in bus and she had ...
1 Comments,
51 Views,
31 Votes
,2.47 Score
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Beaches. 12/9/2019
It is astonishing to find out that all grown up boys and girls
show fascination for to visit beaches and to further their
love interest. On one such story, a boy meets a girl and both exchanges smiles
and share sun tanning sleeping close to each other. The
curves of girls attracts the attention of the grown up boy
and he immediately request for a friendship. The girl was
also good cake and she ...
1 Comments,
36 Views,
20 Votes
,2.23 Score
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Can anybody answer?. 12/7/2019
Two ladies were sleeping on same bed. They were hugging each other and kissing each other at times
while gossipping. Their intentions were now known. they just talked and kissed and hugged tight. Why they were doing so?.
2 Comments,
36 Views,
16 Votes
,2.54 Score
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Tribal Education; TPE (Total Power Exchange) 24/7 12/7/2019
[post 174] 24/7 TPE Dynamics <br><br>
Friday, October 30, 20 Tribe Education Gridlox TPE Total Power Exchange <br><br>
TPE or Total Power Exchange is an arrangement between two
or more individuals, in which an agreement is made of
bonding, trust, complete understanding of all parties
expectations, desires, boundaries, needs and limitations.
Based on these ...
3 Comments,
34 Views,
21 Votes
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My sex session with a stranger woman. 11/28/2019
It was a evening. I went to park. Cool breeze was breezing
and gave more oxygen and mood changed. Mood for lovely evening
with good food came., I needed a woman for me to have dinner.
I searched and searched on corners of the park. But no one
attracted my attention. Then I went to a nearby bar with food. I sat in a corner. A lady
came and asked me what I want. She tole me She is also hungry
and ...
5 Comments,
63 Views,
28 Votes
,3.14 Score
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whores 11/7/2019
looking for a dirty whores that are into taboo its sometimes
hard to find them but when you do find them they are into everything
and want to try new things witch every woman like to see there
limit
3 Comments,
38 Views,
20 Votes
,1.85 Score
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insatiable always 10/28/2019
testimonials available
3 Comments,
27 Views,
16 Votes
,2.54 Score
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You had me at hello 10/6/2019
So hello doesn't really work as an attention getter
on here. What is the best line for you or that caught your
attention?
4 Comments,
31 Views,
18 Votes
,2.58 Score
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Starts here 10/3/2019
Its time build a bdsm relationship. subby kinky needing edge .
0 Comments,
1 Views,
1 Votes
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minus three extremities.. 7/4/2019
everything but intercourse or giving, the session
is $80 a limited time Nicholasville, Kentucky. See my <br><br>
website www.commodityadult.com <br><br>
And more freevideos www.commodityadult.com model/candyCastle <br><br>
And live now free on webcam www.commodityadult.com blog/WineForCandy <br><br>
Passionate. I enjoy foreplay, passion, slow, ...
1 Comments,
7 Views,
3 Votes
,1.96 Score
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How do you know how to trust on alt 2/28/2019
Their are so many fake people on here how do you know who to
trust. Looking for help.
2 Comments,
20 Views,
7 Votes
,2.28 Score
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A poly family 2/6/2019
Hello, So I am a Mistress who has a bi male sub and a bi female domestic
sub. We are a family and in a poly lifestyle. For a lot of poly
family's, all the members play separately and they
each have their own paramours. For our family, My puppy
and I only play as a couple. I have been told that it is a rarity
for a poly family to be that way but as far as I am concerned,
It is safer and it ...
0 Comments,
4 Views,
0 Votes
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How long has it taken you to be comfortable with your Dom as the submissive? Females... 2/4/2019
Establishing a D/s relationship takes time to build up
trust, chemistry and the ability for a sub to let go. How
long has it taken you to get there?
5 Comments,
51 Views,
15 Votes
,3.28 Score
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Subs Are Born Not Made 11/23/2018
I very fortunate in having vast and varied experience
at sharing the D/s experience with female subs who are truly
authentic in their sexual submissiveness. Authentic
subs are submissive at their core. They don’t to
be trained to be a sub. It is as natural as breathing to them.
They already know and feel it inside. The authentic sub
simply needs to be brought to and express her natural and ...
4 Comments,
60 Views,
17 Votes
,2.42 Score
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Spanking is needed in every relationship 9/13/2018
I feel that to buld a good relationship must have good communication
an trust an have a good sense of humor.i have always felt
that there should always be spanking in a lasting loving
relationship
27 Comments,
223 Views,
59 Votes
,5.37 Score
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Are people here for something more? 4/23/2018
I am only assuming here but I imagine most people here are
highly sex driven individuals; people who think about
sex for the majority of the day. Chatting is the norm, meets
are a given but what about relationships. Are people here
to find a relationship and hopefully find love? <br><br>
With standard dating sites, you get to know the person first
and then after meeting I guess the ...
0 Comments,
27 Views,
6 Votes
,3.37 Score
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Wait until you are chosen 11/16/2017
As we are all searching for the right partner. Don't
assume because you identify as a Dom it gives you the right
to instantly make demands or to disrespect someone. Untill
a sub chooses you, you are not her/his Dom. Respect is earned
not instantly given. Being chosen as a Dom is a gift not an
entitlement.
4 Comments,
46 Views,
19 Votes
,5.10 Score
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Memories that now make sense 9/2/2017
When I was a young boy, there was a married Woman nearby and
they lived with her Mother. She was around 30s, attractive,
both her and the mother were well dressed and made up always.
When they went out, the woman and her mother would walk together
chatting, he would walk about 3 yards behind them being
ignored. On the return from shopping, he would be walking
behind them carrying the bags. I ...
3 Comments,
116 Views,
14 Votes
,2.66 Score
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Is it worth it? 8/11/2017
Wearing this chastity cage between my legs. Waking up early
in the morning as I get a painful woody telling me I need to
go to the bathroom. Living my life now as a chaste husband.
There are times I ask myself is this all worth it.
Then I look at my wife. My beautiful and gorgeous wife. Then,
like last night, I see her in bed with someone other than
me. I watch another man pound his cock ...
6 Comments,
85 Views,
14 Votes
,4.58 Score
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Chinese slaves 7/3/2017
I want to tell you about a young slut I met in Shanghai.
First time I met her she was 17 years old. She was tiny with
small tits and a nice mouthwatering body. I met her in the
street where she approached me and tried to sell her services.
I turned her down and told her that she should join me for
her own good and to learn how to behave. She reluctantly
accepted and she joined me to my place. Of ...
2 Comments,
155 Views,
25 Votes
,2.91 Score
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Chinese slaves 7/3/2017
I want to tell you about a young slut I met in Shanghai.
First time I met her she was 17 years old. She was tiny with
small tits and a nice mouthwatering body. I met her in the
street where she approached me and tried to sell her services.
I turned her down and told her that she should join me for
her own good and to learn how to behave. She reluctantly
accepted and she joined me to my place. Of ...
3 Comments,
90 Views,
13 Votes
,1.80 Score
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Chinese slaves 7/3/2017
I want to tell you about a young slut I met in Shanghai.
First time I met her she was 17 years old. She was tiny with
small tits and a nice mouthwatering body. I met her in the
street where she approached me and tried to sell her services.
I turned her down and told her that she should join me for
her own good and to learn how to behave. She reluctantly
accepted and she joined me to my place. Of ...
1 Comments,
40 Views,
7 Votes
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Chinese slaves 7/3/2017
I want to tell you about a young slut I met in Shanghai.
First time I met her she was 17 years old. She was tiny with
small tits and a nice mouthwatering body. I met her in the
street where she approached me and tried to sell her services.
I turned her down and told her that she should join me for
her own good and to learn how to behave. She reluctantly
accepted and she joined me to my place. Of ...
2 Comments,
57 Views,
9 Votes
,1.72 Score
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Why Africa or Asia? 6/2/2017
Seems odd someone posting in africa or asia in variety of
language when looking. Picking a language seems easy unless
not serious.
2 Comments,
10 Views,
5 Votes
,1.84 Score
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Takes Time 4/22/2017
If you want a good relationship, you need to take the time
to get to know one another. Rushing into it when you hardly
know each other usually ends up not working out.
1 Comments,
6 Views,
2 Votes
,3.81 Score
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Would you be in to a Trophy Stepford or made in to one in to Submission? 3/14/2017
I know I am a Natural Stepford with the push up bra's
and tight corset's but some what to go to the extreme.
Being a kept Women for a man she cater to him out of her submission.
She must submit to him fully in contract. Willing to be forced
in to refinement and pleasure and marriage in contract.
To cater and be under him as he guides and protects you must
wear what he requires heels are ...
22 Comments,
223 Views,
41 Votes
,7.39 Score
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EFFORT AND TIME 11/13/2016
IT TAKES TIME AND EFFORT TO BUILD A RELATIONSHIP. IT TAKES
TRUST, COMMITMENT, AND COMPROMISE TO HAVE A GREAT REALATIONSHIP
WITH YOUR PARTNER.
1 Comments,
16 Views,
3 Votes
,5.39 Score
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EFFORT AND TIME 11/13/2016
IT TAKES TIME AND EFFORT TO BUILD A RELATIONSHIP. IT TAKES
TRUST, COMMITMENT, AND COMPROMISE TO HAVE A GREAT REALATIONSHIP
WITH YOUR PARTNER.
0 Comments,
12 Views,
1 Votes
,5.00 Score
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When chosing a sub, does race really matter? 5/4/2016
I'm open to any race that wants to be with me, but sometimes
I get the feeling that the stigma of race is in the air when
I'm searching for the sub to be with. I'm still
first, and foremost, a gentleman, and a scholar ( college
educated with a 3.0 GPA) , and I do dress to impress on first
meets.
2 Comments,
41 Views,
6 Votes
,4.79 Score
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How love sex and marriage can be possible. 3/23/2016
Hope the title got your attention. If not I am sure the explanation
and illustration that will come to follow will. For coup!es
serious to be with one another and explore to the fullest
extent. Only for the open minded and strong willed. Willing
to want more then comfortable. To be able to imagine want
desire and explore with all possibilities.only for the
mature strong and nonjudgmental. No ...
0 Comments,
37 Views,
2 Votes
,1.04 Score
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Long Distance Relationship 1/2/2016
Has anyone travelled to meet someone from this website?
How far? Was it worth your effort? How far would you be willing
to travel?
9 Comments,
117 Views,
18 Votes
,5.72 Score
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Long Distance Relationship 11/6/2015
I have a long distance relationship. He is in a place where
he can receive photos but no nudity. I have great sexy clothes
and costumes. I need suggestions for photos. What would
create a really hot photo? What are your favorite poses
and scenery? What visual images turn you on?
4 Comments,
69 Views,
5 Votes
,2.49 Score
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DOMESTIC DISCIPLINE DATING/NETWORK 9/18/2015
DOMESTIC DISCIPLINE NETWORK http://alt.com FORUMS BLOGS INSTANT MESSAGING VIDEO CHAT VIDEOS GROUPS FORUMS AND MUCH MORE
0 Comments,
59 Views,
5 Votes
,2.82 Score
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hi there 8/19/2015
I have tried all the normal dating sites and now am here.
Looking for a relationship. I have found that some of us
have an inner strength and some of us don't. Honesty,
loyalty and honor are the ground works for any good relationship.
It would seem when you are honest you run the risk of being
scorned by many. I am not saying from the moment we meet all
will be perfect, that is and would be ...
2 Comments,
118 Views,
15 Votes
,3.44 Score
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How Control and Surrender are Different 3/28/2015
External control is when my partner delegates to me, the
privilege of exercising authority on her behalf. That
includes authority over her, and making decisions on her
behalf, to the extent and degree permitted both in advance
and in the moment.
Internal control is of myself, my thoughts, my actions
and reactions, the balance and emotion of my feelings.
It is the observation and ...
3 Comments,
138 Views,
7 Votes
,4.06 Score
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New Friends and Fun! 2/28/2015
I joined this website for fun yet didn't know what to
expect. My goal was to find people for real-life play. I
am lucky to have been contacted by people who are sincere
in their desires.
Regarding the world outside of the website, I am amazed
at how quickly time spent playing in this lifestyle turns
into friendships. I feel like I have so much in common with
people whom I've met. I ...
2 Comments,
249 Views,
17 Votes
,3.83 Score
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Finding the right Dom 2/13/2015
I'm finding it extremely difficult in finding a dom
who fits in with my lifestyle. I love being dominated during
play time but outside of that I require someone who is able
to treat me equally. I need a dom who respects my profession
and who is able to love me as well as dominate me. My last master
fell in love with me then was no longer able to dominate me
it was beyond frustrating. Is finding ...
8 Comments,
455 Views,
27 Votes
,5.98 Score
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Second chance 12/8/2014
Just an expression of thanks for dominant women who give
a guy a second chance after he screws up an introduction.
Cheers.
0 Comments,
26 Views,
4 Votes
,3.63 Score
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Who does what even in Femdom 10/31/2014
It appears that in many cases it is up to the man to begin the
communication and continue building the relationship
from that start. That is, being the aggressor at the beginning
of the relationship. Even in a female lead relationship.
2 Comments,
86 Views,
9 Votes
,3.00 Score
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Mescaline but Submissive Gentlemen, Can It Exists or Is It Delusional! 1/15/2013
I am a mature gentlemen in has late fifties who sees himself
as being a mescaline man while a gentlemen by the nature
of the way I was raised. But I am also sexually submissive
to women and enjoy being dominated by a lady during play.
I would like to ask you ladies out there can a man be seen as
mescaline especially out in the vanilla word we live in,
a gentleman with proper etiquette and being ...
3 Comments,
49 Views,
2 Votes
,3.81 Score
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a real relationship 12/14/2012
what it takes to be with the person u love so much n yal cant
not please each other and the person have to get alone with
the person u love or fall in with n yal got to talk to each other
n yal may have disagree sometimes that normal n yal have
to support each other in everyway
1 Comments,
27 Views,
3 Votes
,3.43 Score
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humiliating Sarah, the first time 5/30/2012
All my stories are true unless stated.
I do have a few ideas of fiction I would like to write and will
do, sometime. For example about a man who can’t pay his
debt to me and the consequences he has to pay, his wife for
a weekend.
Another, hopefully amusing as well, about a lady who goes
to something like and meets the people
running it. They agree to have her for a day to tie ...
1 Comments,
340 Views,
16 Votes
,6.66 Score
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my new Group Stepford Women/1950s lifestyle any one can join. 5/9/2012
please join and enjoy. ...
1 Comments,
65 Views,
3 Votes
,3.43 Score
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New to this 4/28/2012
Hi I'm new to this life and i got my first slave I'm
looking for some help i don't what I'm doing having
trouble controlling him so i ask all the doms & subs
out there to share there know how with me
2 Comments,
148 Views,
6 Votes
,3.08 Score
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Black Air 11/4/2011
Aaron Seagull placed the Guidance Control Helmet on Senator
Arrowbrim Recovering Alcoholic wife’s head an d Began
to Butt Fuck her with his 18b inch Black Dick in his private
Helicopter out in the Pacific Ocean out from its home base
in Malabo looking at the Cashier’s check in his pocket
with a golden Smile from his capped teeth in the Early week
of her release from Phoenix Treatment Center
0 Comments,
20 Views,
3 Votes
,0.98 Score
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Blood is thicker then water 10/8/2011
Bonnie and Roger sat next door watching a hidden camera
as Gerard was running around looking for his bank card that
Bonnie stole, as she gave her brother a deep throat to his
pubic hair, he chuckled and handed her a tray with ten filled
syringes of coke, they traded places and he began is muff
dive as he eyed her twisting her hand just as Gerard hand
twisted and he burned his finger on the fry ...
0 Comments,
30 Views,
2 Votes
,2.42 Score
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True Police Story 10/4/2011
Mrs. Jones and Mr. Grumpy were married because of Dad’s
Shot Gun; he was an outlaw farm boy football hero that could
drink the best man under the table, but got his
pregnant and had no choice. She was Miss Darling, the pick
teaser of the Cheerleaders and a coke head from the grave
living dead, but she sure was pretty to look at. He worked
his ass off all day long for meat and potatoes and ...
0 Comments,
40 Views,
3 Votes
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City Nights 9/30/2011
Mike O’Dea told Gloria to put on her mini skirt and Stiletto
high heels and take off her panties and met at the apartment
house staircase at the fire door to the roof, she obeyed.
He told her not to turn around as he lifted her dress and not
make any noise Mrs. Sullivan was taking out the trash as
he slid it on in. "Night Life"
When the evenin' sun goes down You will find me hangin' ...
0 Comments,
17 Views,
1 Votes
,5.00 Score
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My Life is the Night Life 9/11/2011
Night Life Well, you can tell by the way I use my walk I'm a woman's
man no time to talk Music loud and women warm I've been
kicked around, since I was born And now it's all right,
it's okay And you may look the other way We can try to
understand The New York times' effect on man Whether
you're a brother or whether you're a mother You're
stayin' alive, stayin' alive Feel the city breakin'
and ...
0 Comments,
10 Views,
2 Votes
,3.81 Score
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New Gay Men 8/13/2011
Rainbow Power Today with the male homosexuality so out of the closet so
to speak, the Adulteress affair might sound something
like this. Hello Jim, is Carol gone to work yet? Susan left
for her Seminar in the Bahamas, come on over you big Burt
and bring that polish you got in your basket upright and
ready, my asshole is quivering.
1 Comments,
25 Views,
3 Votes
,4.41 Score
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Old Nevada 8/2/2011
Sheriff Burt Hanson, got the boys together, Mitch, Gush,
Don, Mike, and John, the best dam Deputies he ever had. He
explained his plan. Well men he said, this town is really
getting kind of dull, and town folk here all been itching
for a good hanging. There is this real smart ass rich boy
from Kansas City, Missouri, his daddy is big time banker
into the railroad, running for office. He’s done ...
0 Comments,
14 Views,
2 Votes
,3.81 Score
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Police Business 5/20/2011
Period of prolonged heavy breathing Hello, Hello, Hello, is anybody there? Hangs up Period of prolonged heavy breathing Hello, Hello, Hello, is anybody there? Hangs up Period of prolonged heavy breathing Hello, Hello, Hello, is anybody there? This is Sgt Sadanko, “You have won the contest for most
nonemergency 911 Calls made.” What was the breathing all about? Oh that’s just my Massif, ...
0 Comments,
22 Views,
5 Votes
,4.45 Score
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Sensitive Dom? 4/6/2011
Hi and thanks for reading! Maybe you can help me? When I look at how I treat my "Toy"
it feels like I am to kind... I enjoy the ideation of them
being helpless and at my mercy! I enjoy satisfying their
needs above my own.
Always believed that a "Sub" is the one that
has the real power! Do you agree? They say how far they will
go and when to stop!
What I am getting at is I feel ...
2 Comments,
178 Views,
15 Votes
,3.90 Score
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Return of TJ Bonobo 3/11/2011
Planet Fart Revised
The Revenge of Bam-Bam, was a never ending battle of fighting
Black Panthera’s one after another who appear whenever
the Goddess Perk-a-Dama got mad, and she hiked up all her
little gay fruit juice drinks into insanity to agitate
everyone all the time, it seems that he didn’t really
get circumcised, and the government lied, and so did the
military, seems like ...
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Cooking at Home 2/5/2011
Cooking Honey incest is best! Roll your own and kept it in the family.
A family that sleeps together stays together! Blood is
thicker than water! Trust the ones you love, and the only
ones you can trust are your family! Stick together forever
and you’ll always have each it other; they only have themselves!
Honey, did mommy leave to go shopping? Yes Daddy! Good,
go put on the new red dress I ...
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Safe Meetings 6/2/2010
The reason for the success of this site is that it allows
people with 'alternate' sexuality to meet and
get to know each other, literally across the seven seas.
However, there is an inherent danger and that is that unlike
people we meet in daily life, friends of friends and fellow
workers there is no guarantee that the person will be as
they present themselves...
How then do we meet Alt ...
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QUALITIES OF A DOMINANT FROM A SUBS VIEW 4/21/2010
When choosing to gift your submission, what is the thing
you look for above all else, if you had a top ten of traits,
qualities you look for, what would be your number 1?
4 Comments,
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QUALITIES OF A SUB FROM A DOMINANTS VIEW 4/21/2010
When choosing a sub, what would be your wish list, if you
had a top ten of qualities, traits which would endear a sub
to you, what would you choose, what do you look for, is it
personality, lack of perhaps, inteligence, looks?
What is the number 1 thing you look for?
4 Comments,
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Beginning A New Relationship 10/5/2009
Gosh, it doesn't get more unstable than this. You feel
sick, you can't eat, you don't know what you are
thinking and feeling, but you are thinking excessively.
You feel happy, you feel sad, you feel unsettled, you worry,
you are ecstatic. You want to panic and wish you had said
no. What's happening to you? You are in your first four
weeks of dating someone.
The first thing that can ...
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Dating Etiquette and Rules to Follow 10/5/2009
* Dating should always be fun, and it's as much your
responsibility as it is your partner's to ensure that
it is. When you're dating, make sure you do everything
you can to make the time you spend together enjoyable.
* Eye contact is crucial, and it's good etiquette to
give your date as much of your attention as possible. They
should feel like they are the only person in the room. ...
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The most important quality.. 7/12/2009
As I have come to realize, there is one quality out there
that is more important than all the other ones.. ESPECIALLY
in this lifestyle..
I would suggest everyone try and get up to speed with this,
as it will create a more comfortable, trusting, and exciting
dynamic!
NEVER JUDGE!
Also, make it clear from the start that you don't judge
people, and you'll be surprised ...
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Learning to serve: the real life slave 6/15/2009
Having experienced serving many Mistresses over the last
5 years, a yearning grew in me to be a real life slave to a Mistress.
I would think about this constantly, and the more a fantasized
about the prospect, the more profound my yearning became.
In fact, it became an obsession. The thought or being truly
owned, both body and mind, the idea of giving total and absolute
obedience in total ...
3 Comments,
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Getting your wife to lead 4/17/2009
Many times my wife and I have tried and failed to initiate
a D/s relationship. I always knew she was capable of being
a female dominant, based on the early years of our relationship,
but only now do I realized where I made errors.
I should never have written contracts with so many rules
and details. It's like starting at 60 mph. Even though
we both signed each time we tried, the ...
1 Comments,
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Married & D/s 3/1/2009
Reading many clips on
lifestyle relationships during my journey, it never came
across O/our thoughts that it would have a negative impact
on the relationship. Majority of the posting based marriage
& D/s together as negative. In that it would have a negative
affect or effect on the relationship. Feelings of such
would hinder O/ones role and performance.
...
5 Comments,
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How I view Serious M/s Relationships 10/20/2008
You will also find this on my profile as it would help a perspective
slave gain an understanding of my views of the M/s relationship.
I have had a couple FTPE (full time power exchange) relationships
that were really more my thing although I enjoy a "bedroom
only" M/s relationship too, I like the structure
it provides... What turns me on about it is: the total power
over someone else, ...
0 Comments,
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Twisted banter.. 9/30/2008
We A/all know communication is the key to any type of relationship.
So here's an example of how it works within a humiliation
one, for those of you who don't already know..
Communicating with worthless pigs. As we all know, stupid
slut females love to talk but are often very poor listeners.
Teaching the cunts effective and respectful communication
techniques should be the cornerstone of ...
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A day in the life of a 24/7 slave 8/7/2008
It is rarely the big events that make a relationship, it
is a million small touches, a million small submissions,
a constantly evovling gift between two people that for
me looks like this.
i am often asked by friends, both lifestyle and vanilla,
what being a slave means, or what it looks like in the day
to day. So here it is.
5:45 am...yes way before the sun comes up my day ...
9 Comments,
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Is it me? 6/21/2008
Every where I read are success stories but when I try to contact
some one I do not get a response ? How do you get someone to
notice you...How ever I was not interested in , i send out
a one liner polite answer. Is it not the write thing to be
honest or what ???
5 Comments,
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Building a Relationship through Humiliation 6/15/2008
Humiliation has many purposes in the training of a slave.
One of the major reasons for using humiliation is to force
the slave to push the "choice decision" she
has made to obey her Master/Mistress and be subject to his/her
will. It forces her to realize how deeply this decision
is and how obedience is not always easy. This provides positive
reinforcement.
Humiliation can have a positive ...
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Slavery and Servitude 6/3/2008
Can a slave say no, it's a question to which I believe
there is no definitive answer, but to Me the answer is simply
no. Grins at this point the submissives go running to the door
screaming red light and calling 911. Simply put slavery is putting the life in the hands of their
Master and after that the slave should have two choices
obey or leave, but rationally at times a third exists beg,
and ...
2 Comments,
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3 Simple Things that Men Wished All Women Knew 4/9/2008
1. Men are more sensitive than many people realize.
What most people don’t believe is that men are indeed more
sensitive; they have harder time coping with break-ups
than women do. Men are not biologically designed to have
the full capacity of processing feelings like their female
counterpart. Being this is the case, men tend to have a hard
shell around their heart that keeps them from ...
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new to this 3/31/2008
hi i am francesca i am 25 yrs old my fella is 21 , hes very intrested
in a 3sum or 4sum altho no full swap being a nice gf and intrested
in this anyway i said sure lets join up here and see how it
goes so here is my 1st article and i will post more as it progresses
salisburycpl2...
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On relationships... 3/19/2008
Its been said that the biggest mistake men make going into
a relationship is to believe that the gal will stay the same,
and that the biggest mistake women make going into a relationship
is to believe that the guy will change (in the way they want
him to). Both are wrong, indeed somewhat happily so. To
remain the same would be to become stagnant, and to change
completely means that at some inner ...
1 Comments,
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Why dominants need welts, too! 3/19/2008
I recently read about a dominant
who switches being tut-tutted by submissives who insist
that they are not a "Real Dominant."
*shudder*
I also have heard dominants assert that they refuse
to bottom.
Should someone who is not self-identified as a top or dominant
ever switch?
In a ...
3 Comments,
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Finding "The One" 3/16/2008
I'd like to discuss a long time frustration of mine-
women only interested in finding "The One".
Seems like a whole lot of women, submiisve or otherwise,
won't have even a conversation with a guy if he can't
be deemed immediately "The One".
Now I realize that nobody wants to be used or have their little
heart broken, but really ladies, you need to lighten up.
Finding ...
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getting back with an ex 2/11/2008
i was wondering wat are some ways to show or prove to ya ex
that u fucked up and want to get back together. the fact is
my ex says that i will always be in her heart damn i fucked
up when i told her it might not work cause she moved so far.
i need help. any suggestions
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The corner stones. 2/9/2008
I know that W/we A/all want to put the most wanted things
out there to make U/us more wanted.But the first corner
stone is to be honest.If that does not seem to be the best
light to be seen in, readjust your focus.If you find the
O/one you want and T/they find you, then T/they find it
is a lie, Y/you will loose T/them!Another corner stone
is dedication.To get what Y/you want may be easy, but ...
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Tall Ships, Shinning Stars, Brass Rings and Water Meter Covers 1/29/2008
Tall Ships, Brass Rings, Shinning Stars and Water Meter
Covers.....
We all think that we know just what we want; just what we’d
wish for if given a chance, but in actuality, how many of
us get the opportunity to reach for that star shinning so
brightly in the night sky or the magical carousel’s brass
ring? How many get to board that tall ship and sail into our
destiny?
...
3 Comments,
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8 Votes
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Out With Old In With New??? 1/28/2008
I have recently started dating a guy who I like very much.
He likes me too but we seem to have a situation that is causing
us problems. He has a woman he's known awhile and she
has an 18 year old , they (the mom & him) were
bed buddies before we hooked up, I found out he has been texting
& calling both mom & & not telling
me so I didn't get upset, I am uncomfortable with this,
but is it right ...
2 Comments,
118 Views,
2 Votes
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First Contact Advice to a submissive man 10/23/2007
I just answered an alt message/email from someone who was
attracted to me. Perhaps some of what I said will be helpful
to other submissive men who are facing the enormous hurdle
of getting a dominant lady to notice them.
Of course, a big MUST, is to read the Lady's profile
carefully , and Her blogs or posts in the "Groups"
on alt so that you know how to write something that might
be ...
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Lay down Ground Rules 10/17/2007
You have met Mr/Ms Right or Sub/Slave perfect...Now the
work begins for both sides. If you are master/mistress...lay
down the ground rules for the relationship....be it short
term...long term...causal...24/7 etc. Don't assume
someone knows something ...but it in black and white and
you have no problems...You choose the path that needs to
be taken for the situation but never leave out some form ...
6 Comments,
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11 Votes
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Online Relationships 10/13/2007
Do online relationship really progress to reality?
In all the years I have been online seeking a partner in BDSM
and D.s play I have yet to have longivity from being online.
Of course, I have to say that I have met many good men and women,
but no man has captured my time and attention enough for
me to even remotely want to take it to the next level.
Do you think its because once ...
4 Comments,
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8 Votes
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Understanding 7/6/2007
While building up a relationship it's
very important to take two features into consideration.
1. Priorities are no the same, for man and woman, hence interest
tend to vary, besides most man are not multitasking. While
a woman can watch a movie and talk with a friend, if a woman
approaches a man who is looking into a football game, he
tends to either ignore the woman, or ...
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Belated Birthday Surprise 6/29/2007
Where is She? Where can She be? I just keep wondering. It
has been almost 45 minutes now since She called saying She
was leaving and headed my way. I have had time to check into
the Ramington Inn, get maintenance to come get the door
open for me when the key wouldn’t work, get undressed, put
the chain leashes on the bed in case She wants to spreadeagle
me on it and now it seems I have been ...
1 Comments,
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Aftercare...Why is it so important? 6/27/2007
zennflowerAftercare
is the time taken after the scene that brings the sub back
to the top out of sub space. It's where bonding between
the Dominant and sub takes place or perhaps a better way
of putting it is the re-enforcing of the bond between the
two. Aftercare lets both know that for the two of them it's
more than just play, more than just scening that the ...
13 Comments,
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On Trust & Faith 6/14/2007
As those of you who have been checking in know, I have been
giving this quite some thought and have come to quite the
unexpected conclusion. You can also read this on my blog
On Trust Faith. Read on!
I have written in the past on Trust and have penned highly
raved essays that sounded great with all the right words
and phrases. We all hear that trust is one of cornerstones
of this ...
1 Comments,
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11 Votes
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How Well Do You Listen To You? 6/14/2007
How well do you listen to yourself? How closely do you pay
attention to your "gut instincts"? How well
do you take action based on this information?
These gut instincts were originally named as the information
comes from our "gut" or power center. The seat
of our life force, what in the East is called Chi.
We'd like to believe that what someone tells about
themselves to be true. ...
1 Comments,
52 Views,
7 Votes
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Knowing more about BDSM than your partner 4/14/2007
I have trained women who are experienced in BDSM, and on'e
who are just learning about it, and what they want to gain
from the experience. I tend to take it slower with newbies so as not to make it too
intense to start. I like to feel out whether they are just
looking to be tied up and f*cked, or if they are truly looking
to give up control at a greater level...more of a Master/slave
situation. ...
2 Comments,
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Gentleman Dom..Not just a myth 3/31/2007
Why is it that everyone seems to think Dom/me equals asshole?
From what I have seen it is because of "Master/Doms"
thinking that the role they take gives them the right to
abuse those they have pledged to love, honor and protect.
I my self am a Gentleman Dom as are many of my Friends. I have
the Utmost respect for all pets/slaves/subs and mates
of any flavor.
I have learned in my ...
1 Comments,
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FUN AND FUCK 3/28/2007
HAAI..I AM A 29 YEARS GIRL ..ONE DAY ONE OF MY FRIEND CAME
TO MY HOME WITH HER HUSBOND..ACTULLY THE MISSED THIER BUS
AND CAME TO OUR HOME FOR NIGHT STAY..WE TOOK THE DINNER TOGHETER
AND THEY INCIST ME TO JOIN THEM FOR FUN I WAS THINKING BUT
SLOWELY HE STARTED TO TOUCH MY BODY..FIRST HE STARTED TO
RUB MY SHOULDER AND OPINCH MY BOOBS WHEN HE IS PLAYING WITH
MY BODY MY FRIEND STARTED TO LIFT MY ...
4 Comments,
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26 Votes
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what do you think about...? 3/1/2007
When you are on this website, do you think it is a good way
to know people and exchange with, anything you want to exchange?
Do you think it's the same way in all countries, or do
you think there is some differences according with cultures
and way of life in specific countries? Finally do you succeed to have good relationships, virtual
or real, even shorts but good, or would you say about it ...
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my take on building a relationship 2/16/2007
be 100 percent you want to start it before you begin it as
the are full time work at the start so you dont have time to
think about if there the perfect one because you need all
the time you can get making it the perfect one
1 Comments,
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I don't understand... 2/1/2007
Hi,
I'm a newbie submissive, stepping out on the road to
learning about becoming a good sub for a potential dom.
A long time ago I meet a fantastic dom, who I liked very much
and felt liked me. Everything was going really well, and
we talked about meeting up. I cannot stress how much I wanted
him, and to meet him. Yet at the same time I was going through
an extremely ...
2 Comments,
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7 Votes
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Building a relationship 1/27/2007
When you want to build a relationship, first off, make sure
you are truly in love with the person. Don't confuse
love with a passing, temporary infatuation. Spend some
good, quality time with that person. Notice how often you
two have sex with each other. If after a year or two, the sex
is still great, then go for it. If not, then it's time
to call it quits before someone's feelings get ...
0 Comments,
96 Views,
4 Votes
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You Cant Go Home Again -- Or Can you? 1/13/2007
Thomas Wolfe’s critically acclaimed novel, You Can’t
Go Home Again, was published in 1940. The novel chronicles
a man’s search for himself and centers on the theme that
you cannot recover the past. This novel came to my mind when
I began reading a book entitled Finding Meaning in the Second
Half of Life: How to Finally Really Grow Up by James Hollis
(2005).
Wolfe’s novel ...
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6 Votes
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How Can I Tell IF It Is Abuse? (for the newbie) 12/22/2006
Simply said. . .
If It Is Not CONSENSUAL it is NOT BDSM
---------------------------------------------
Here is a short checklist that can help you determine if
you or someone is being abused.
Is it Consensual?
Is your partner in CONTROL of hirself?
Does your partner REFRAIN from Hitting you in anger?
...
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Master and slave 12/20/2006
I was after her beauty, and she conceived beauty in pretty
romantic terms.We might be inclined to laugh at the extravagance
of his beauty worship if there were not something almost
magnificent in his single minded dedication to it.
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5 Votes
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Proper Speech Equitete 12/13/2006
When courting a Domme, how should a new submissive act?
I was wondering, is there a proper speech etiquette when
talking when a Submissive is talking to a Domme? I'm
a little new, and I don't want to put anyone off. Are
there any words I should not say, or be hesitant in saying?
Also, when meeting in public, is there a proper way I should
act? Or should I just be ...
0 Comments,
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7 Votes
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Bonding and Spirituality in D/s 12/12/2006
Service is an essential part in many D/s relationships
and it provides a natural way to bond between Master and
slave (or dominant and submissive -- throughout this essay
for simplicity, we will refer to the dominant as Master
and the submissive as slave). However, most service is
task and goal oriented. In other words, the slave is given
orders to complete a set of assignments. It is ...
2 Comments,
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11 Votes
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The Only True Aphrodisiac 12/9/2006
We humans like the idea of spontaneity in our romantic relationships,
we look for drugs and other agents that may help stimulate
sexual desire, but love is a rebel bird that nobody can ever
tame and lust is a fickle mistress not well understood.
We have seen considerable interest in using chemical communication
based on human pheromones to help stimulate sexual desire,
just like ...
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Meeting that first one... 12/6/2006
Sometimes when you least expect it, someone new comes in
to your life and introduces things you had never dreamed
of.
For me that was BDSM. It was the start of a new year and he was
someone I would not have looked at twice. It started with
100 texts a day but then when I tried to sustain that a few
months later, I was "clingy!" ... so I moved
on. But somehow it changed me. It ...
0 Comments,
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6 Votes
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No toes left 11/29/2006
Think i keep shooting myself in the foot by being to open
and honest about what i want as most "doms" just
read the profile of a sub and say "hay guess what i like
what you like".I am so sick of the fakes on here, you
can talk to a sub for a month but when you come to meet up there
always a problem!(i hear its just as bad for subs looking
for doms, they get told they are going to get used ...
0 Comments,
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9 Votes
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Gaining the trust of first timer submissives 11/27/2006
I sincerely think that there are a number of so called Doms
that never listen to a submissives needs. No joking, to
build up trust is the first priority, then you can extend
limits, introduce new ideas. Whenever I have a newbie submissive
I explain what I intend to do and ask if there is anything
that they are unhappy about. If there is we discuss it, if
necessary modify the idea. ...
1 Comments,
378 Views,
17 Votes
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What it Means to be a slave 11/14/2006
I may have a different definition of a slave than most so
I will explain that first. For Me, a slave is not someone
who gives up their rights as human beings. A slave is someone
that in many ways must be just as strong as their Dominant.
Case in point. At a run, a Dominant may want to stay out late
and play and may not have eaten. The slave must be the one
who makes sure the Dominant ...
0 Comments,
419 Views,
25 Votes
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What it Means to be a Ma'am 11/14/2006
"Ma'am, all I want to do is be of service to You."
Sounds familiar, doesn't it? But the real surprise
to most people is that, in many ways, the Ma'am is in
service to Her property. This contradiction in terms is
the cornerstone of being a Dominant. I will be discussing
Lifestyle, 24/7 Dominance and submission. These concepts
don't necessarily apply to all situations or relationships, ...
3 Comments,
336 Views,
28 Votes
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trust 11/14/2006
i have given this some thought, and still havent come up
with the right answer. Is there an right answer?? How do
you let your gaurd down to trust someone? You hear of bad
things happening all the time and that scares me, we play
in a world that can be scary, but i think thats the fun of it.
But can it be taken too far?
3 Comments,
125 Views,
6 Votes
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How soon is too soon? 10/21/2006
Do you think that you should give up everything all at once
or space it over a period of time? I've thought about
this from time to time. I'm an honest person really
so I dont lie all you have to do is ask? So not letting someone
know something about you seems decietfully almost. Not
that you should give complete strangers your whole life
story, but if you really think that this person is ...
5 Comments,
209 Views,
11 Votes
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Are Harems Okay 10/17/2006
Ive been wondering if people think that having many subs
is okay? My Master has his little harem, I call them since
I dont include myself personally in with them. Is that wrong...?
im the jealous type so it took some getting used to. But I
finally gave over control of those issues to him and asked
what I needed and now I feel better....
6 Comments,
237 Views,
7 Votes
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Sub Drop-a very real phenomena 10/13/2006
"Sub-Drop"
Over my experiences in the lifestyle it has never ceased
to amaze and frustrate me how many people understand what
'sub-space' is, but have no idea what 'sub-drop'
is. The truth of the matter is I discovered what it was by
experiencing it, and asking for help. I was asked if I was
experiencing 'sub-drop' and after a long discussion
I was both relieved and worried, to admit ...
18 Comments,
953 Views,
68 Votes
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Sleep Deprivation training , a view on the STORY OF " O" 9/29/2006
this is a pat 2 of an explroration of "o"
Well how do you do it and why , depriving someone of sleep
REMEMBER THIS IS A CONSENTING ACTIVITY .... NEXT I do not
recomend doing this , i am fiction writer .. so do not fucking
sue me ..you stupid motherfuckers!
If done totally for like 4 days a person enters a pyshcoes
, so do not fucking do that .. this shit ...
0 Comments,
136 Views,
4 Votes
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Looking For Info 9/22/2006
I am looking for consent forms, or anything of the sort.
Trying to find forms and documents to havemy sub complete
to see what she is willing to submit too and what she isn't.
Still new at this and I haven't built up my library of
knowledge yet. If you have any please help me.
0 Comments,
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Trust and Safety 9/21/2006
Knowledge and safety in all areas cannot be emphasized
enough.
Knowing yourself, both as a top/dom and as a sub/bottom
is so important, as is learning about knowing and understanding
your partner.
I feel that one of the best ways to learn and teach is by open
communication, offering examples and sharing experiences.
Here is an experience I had.
An example of ...
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Mind Over Matter 9/18/2006
SO YOU'RE LOOKING ..... Aren't we all and do we
ever stop looking???? Ya right, lie to yourself if ya want
but we all know the search never ends. We look because we
can and we always carry that curiosity itch. Primary to
our search is to find that person or people that blend into
what satisfies us, our needs, our desires. Some times that's
found in pleasing them or pleasing you or pleasing ...
0 Comments,
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My last business trip 9/12/2006
I checked into a hotel on a business trip and was a bit lonely
so I thought I'd get me one of those girls you see advertised
in phone booths when your calling for a cab.
I grabbed a card on my way in. It was an ad for a girl calling
herself Erogonique, a lovely girl, bending over in the
photo.
She had all the right ...
0 Comments,
963 Views,
11 Votes
,5.60 Score
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going nowhere 9/9/2006
Hello .Iam finding it very difficult to get any response
from any of the women on this site.Its very frustrating.Im
a very shy type of person and find it difficult to express
my sexual fantasies.I know im anonymous, which makes
it easier.I want to explore and have fun but im just a loser.I
obviously am ugly or unsuitable for some reason.Being
a loner isnt easy for me.
I want to be ruled ...
3 Comments,
174 Views,
1 Votes
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She is MY cunt !! 8/30/2006
She is my cunt
Look at the animal world , males battle each other to insure
their sperm lives ! now females go to be protected by a strong
male that has more than one female , in fact the scent of woman
attracts females .
I had divorce court today , first time I have really seen
my adorable lil 25 year old future ex wife in a year ..( dam
this case ...
2 Comments,
256 Views,
7 Votes
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What do you think? 8/29/2006
To what I beleive about relationships I consider the experimentation
to be an excitement, part of the entire me and you forever
thing. But many guys as well as girls are affraid to let go
even in a safe secure environment. Some guys are affraid
to be called freaks, weird, homo(nothing personal), and
every other word that might hurt their manhoods. Women
in the other hand the only hting ...
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216 Views,
0 Votes
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tough someitmes in london 8/23/2006
I have of late why i know not lost all my mirth and indeed it
goes so heavily with my disposition why those who desire
a certain aspect of life suddenly forget that desire when
faced with the possibility of fufilling it.
It apparently becomes too much of a risk to their cosy life
to extend beyond the boundries of what they have been used
to and are content to continue in their normal ...
0 Comments,
84 Views,
2 Votes
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How can you build a succesfull relationship starting with a computer? 7/24/2006
Is it even possible? How can you get away with it when some
of the people you meet are married and want a discreet relationship?
Sex only is good if you know that going in but not if you don't
and are expecting something else entirely. I guess I'm
just not good at weeding out what I don't want yet.
6 Comments,
169 Views,
6 Votes
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TRUST, HONEST and INTEGRITY.... 7/15/2006
Since I have been active in this lifestyle (8yrs) I have
learned 3 important lessons in this wonderful lifestyle
of BDSM and D.s; they are TRUST, HONESTY and INTEGRITY.
I want to share this with anyone who will take the time to
read what I have myself learned.
TRUST is an essential requirement in establishing a BDSM
and ...
5 Comments,
336 Views,
24 Votes
,6.99 Score
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“Life as a bottoms’ top” 7/13/2006
Hello thank you for taking the time to read this rambling.
I was married to a Male Marine for over twenty years and after
all that time of (if I may modestly say) perfecting my talents
as a bottom – I find my preferences to be more toward get some
hunger hole (mouth or ass) and mercifully cramming it full
to my satisfaction with my fat dick. This is not to say I do
not enjoy the same at ...
1 Comments,
117 Views,
1 Votes
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Lying submissives 6/23/2006
Submissive men sometimes lie to Mistress. This happens
when they want to present themselves as more submissive
than they are. Should a Mistress dismiss a liar? I think,
she could give him a chance to prove himself prior to dismissal.
Set him a difficult task, do not forgive a liar easily.
1 Comments,
139 Views,
4 Votes
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Being a Mistress 6/23/2006
A Mistress should understand that the submissive will
try to "test" her, like a would do to a master.
Be firm, and use the "hot stove" principle:
every time the hot stove is touched, it burns the hand that
touched it (ie every time a submissive is out of line, Mistress
punishes him). Of course, the punishments should match
the crime
0 Comments,
128 Views,
2 Votes
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Too much information too soon? 6/16/2006
Is it possible to reveal too much about one's self too
soon in a relationship?
I'm the kind of guy that will answer you truthfully
about anything you ask with little to no forethought about
the repercussions my answer may cause. Despite my usual
quietness, I'm not afraid to tell you what I think.
But, there are times when I feel that I have said a little
too much when it comes to ...
4 Comments,
238 Views,
3 Votes
,4.41 Score
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How can you be sure about the other? 5/22/2006
I am wondering who else has been in this situation? You are
with a dom/sub they are already in a full relationship that
is not dealing with bdsm/alt, their other half does not
know anything about what they are into. So here is my question;
If they are not being true to the other half and telling them
nothing or lieing to them, how can you completely trust
what they are saying to you as ...
1 Comments,
192 Views,
0 Votes
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How does a Dom decide when it is time to collar a sub? 5/22/2006
I am new more to the Dom side I have been chatting and getting
to know a sub very well....I want to approach and collar
her. My question is how do you know when the time is right?
How do I know she is ready to be collared by me and that is what
she is looking for?
0 Comments,
149 Views,
1 Votes
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please help... any counsellors (a women's reply would help me more) 5/19/2006
I've got a very strange problem with my girlfriend...
what do i do... please help...
i have a girl friend and she's really sweet and we both
are in love for about a year now... we both get along very
well and we understand each other perfectly... And most
of all we both respect each other very much...
But my girlfriend is having some health problems... VERY
COMPLICATED ...
4 Comments,
164 Views,
2 Votes
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T-Girls 5/5/2006
Hello to all...
Im in search of sexy T-Girls that looking to be with one guy.
My past experiences with them have be so -so. I guess because
they get so much attention...it's hard for them to
be with one guy. But, you know what? I'm not going to
sterotype all of them...so this is my message to the world.
If there is a sexy T-Girl out there who wants a ...
0 Comments,
148 Views,
2 Votes
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Collars and Getting Over 5/5/2006
As I cruise thru this li'l playpen
that is My life, every now and then, I find myself reevaluating,
and sometimes even second guessing, my views about the
most fundamental of my beliefs. Examining what my feelings
were, are, and what, in fact, is still changing..
I had the opportunity of chatting with a lovely submissive
the other night, and thought that the overall ...
0 Comments,
93 Views,
1 Votes
,5.00 Score
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Master Takes Me to Santuary 4/29/2006
My Master has taken me to Sanctuary in Dallas and I enjoyed
my self emensely.But boo hoo I was only there to observe
others and didn't get a chance to receive my proper
spankings or get tied up.Well he did make up for it when he
brought me home and showed me how wicked and good he could
be.The ideas I got from visiting Sanctuary were numerous, Someone
took a lot of spankings and Yes the ...
0 Comments,
116 Views,
1 Votes
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Hard to find someone serious.... 4/28/2006
Me and Mt pet has been looking for a possable live in. We have
joined many of the groups for our location, have tried talking
with many possabilities. We keep running into the same
problem, someone says they are involved and or looking
to learn. Then we start talking and thats all it is is talk,
We havent found to many people actually aactive or serious
in the kind of commitment We are ...
3 Comments,
97 Views,
5 Votes
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Help needed... 3/30/2006
Hi everyone, I'm a newbie sub who is trying to set out
on the BDSM journey. So far its going ok, but I now think I've
meet that 'dom guy' the one your warned about.
So I'm looking for some advice and any suggestions
from both subs and dom's.
Firstly we had chatted briefly, he knew I was a newbie and
looking for a dom guy to train me, it was one conversation
and with that came the ...
7 Comments,
798 Views,
29 Votes
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COMPATIBILITY 3/29/2006
The Ultimate Union cannot be achieved without two compatible
souls - one dominant by his nature and his desire and one
submissive by his nature and his desire. These two people
will have a powerful motivator that sends them, from different
directions, toward the same goal. That goal is to find a
person who will love them more than any other could or would.
Love? Yeah, love! It is the cement ...
0 Comments,
128 Views,
7 Votes
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alternative lifestyle relationship 3/29/2006
Stable alternative relationship starts with understanding
the needs/desires of each other, and no… this is never easy…
There are several aspects that need to be discussed, you
have to allow for the real world and others who are in that
world who are not giving their consent… for example if you
are going to the supermarket most do not want to see Master
and slave, they want to ...
0 Comments,
157 Views,
10 Votes
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First Kinky Experience with some one new 3/19/2006
The best thing for this is to both get drunk and say listen
i like .... and not be shy...
0 Comments,
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6 Votes
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Finally Getting A Spanking 3/17/2006
Dear Diary,
Today was the day I met my dom. I had been wondering a long
time what it would be like, and here I am going to find out.
I am Chris Columbus on his way to a new world.
He seems kind of stern. I was told how to dress, and especially
on my underwear. Nothing grown up, you spoiled, willful
brat, he said. So here I am in a knit shirt that barely goes
below my navel, ...
0 Comments,
204 Views,
4 Votes
,2.47 Score
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How to make your gf into a Dominatrix :) 3/5/2006
Hi
What was the best way to gradually transform your gf from
a normal girl to a fun domme? Any ideas on the matter, please
share.
1 Comments,
149 Views,
4 Votes
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North Coast CA Masters & slaves 2/3/2006
People living the Master/slave lifestyle benefit greatly
by communication with others in the same lifestyle. The
needs and concerns are quite different than those in the
D/s or M/s lifestyle, although there is definitely some
overlap.
<br>
There is a National Organization called MAST--Masters
And slaves Together--that seeks to facilitate this communication.
There is a chapter in ...
0 Comments,
57 Views,
3 Votes
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Guide to Establishing Dominance Over a Male 1/31/2006
Guide to Establishing Dominance Over a Male
1/29/06
<br>
This is intended to provide a guide in establishing and
maintaining dominance over a male which can lead to development
of a modern day slave. It is a process that can be used to develop
dominance over a natural submissive applying to be a slave
or an unaware, vanilla, non-submissive. How long it may
take and ...
3 Comments,
910 Views,
16 Votes
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A girl told me 1/29/2006
Sucking her finger as told she just pulled from her asshole
means, so your into me we will continue on.
0 Comments,
227 Views,
1 Votes
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Relationships 1/27/2006
99% of relationships are based on lies
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11 Votes
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Training and developing subs tips 1/20/2006
Most people consider others in a cookie cutter fashion,
however in a Dom/Sub relationship there are a lot of areas
that need to be identified.
<br>
1. Does your Sub want to be obedient all the time, in the bedroom
or just from time to time.
<br>
Example. I have had subs who want to be in it all the time at
first, then only when we are together, then finally only
in the ...
0 Comments,
458 Views,
15 Votes
,5.73 Score
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nice and slow 1/10/2006
Was wondering if anyone else has experienced this. My first
marraige was kind of one of those love at first site things.
Now divorced I find myself extremely picky. That typical
anyone?
0 Comments,
132 Views,
8 Votes
,1.16 Score
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DOMCOUPLE 1/8/2006
YOU SCREEN MY PLEASURE  )!
0 Comments,
198 Views,
14 Votes
,3.14 Score
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nice 1/8/2006
Nice nad beauty!
1 Comments,
157 Views,
9 Votes
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Butt Play? What's That? 1/4/2006
I met my husband five years ago. The first time I laid eyes
on him, I knew I wanted him. The night I first went to his house,
my intention (and I'm pretty sure his) was merely a
one-night stand. Or maybe friends with benefits.
<br>
The first night was filled with fireworks. The moment he
touched me, I felt electricity run through my veins. It
was the best sex I had ever had.
...
0 Comments,
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12 Votes
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The first step is completey up front and clear on your wish. 12/30/2005
A femdom private life relationship is what most seek.and
at extreme femdom level top dollar, at firt but regulars
should get discont.On line or in person if she is very willing
to take you as descibed, start a new relatioship.
0 Comments,
186 Views,
2 Votes
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New Group - Naughty Schoolgirl Memories 12/2/2005
come by and visit
1 Comments,
132 Views,
2 Votes
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A healthy relationship= change 11/7/2005
A relationship is two people eliciting responses from
each other. If you want a change in response, then you must
change your own actions.
0 Comments,
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6 Votes
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My first meeting with Master 10/23/2005
My first meeting with Master was a meeting I will never forget.
I was excited that he would meet with me and nervous as to
what to excpect. I am very new to this and wasn't quite
sure what I wanted. I did know that I couldn't wait to
meet him. We met at a public place and talked for what seemed
like hours. I felt comfortable but yet knew I was being inspected
to see if I was worthy of his ...
0 Comments,
544 Views,
24 Votes
,2.79 Score
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False Starts 9/28/2005
I am wondering if many people on Alt experience frustration.
I sent a message to a couple that lives close by and explained
it was always my dream to interact with a male/female couple.
That very same day I recevied a message back from them. It
was very inviting. They wanted to establish friendship
first, which I always like to do before plunging into more
physical events. In my first ...
1 Comments,
300 Views,
10 Votes
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Guide to Establishing Dominance 9/10/2005
Guide to Establishing Dominance
9/10/05
To be an Owner, you have to establish and maintain your authority
or dominance as the Owner and the slave's recognition
that they are a slave to you, their Owner. Rarely are you
in a committed Owner/slave relationship at the beginning
of the relationship with your desired slave. And, you will
probably never get your slave without ...
4 Comments,
2659 Views,
122 Votes
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ASS TRAINING (part 2) 9/10/2005
HIGH HEEL's
<br>
High Heel shoes are a must for anal devotees on special occassions.......because
they speak of anal servitude and being a butt themselves.
They increase the erotic nature of the femine submissive
form- and arouse in male'es feelings of favor and admiration.
Like chiderall'es slipper- once a women puts on high
-heels she feels like a queen-----a queen of sexual ...
0 Comments,
378 Views,
9 Votes
,0.86 Score
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What i have always known and yet it still got to me becareful 9/1/2005
My goodness you would think by looking at my profile and
as long as i have been a slave if anyone in this world would
know better it would be me. Yet here i am being a dummy and
telling anyone who reads this becareful as you can get sucked
in and not realize it and all of the sudden you end up with
being in a very bad spot in your life.
i can't memtion any names but some of the people ...
3 Comments,
1085 Views,
36 Votes
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Quiet vs talkative 8/23/2005
I have notice that most girls that stay to themselves are
more active, when i say more active i mean when they find
a man they can trust and feel comfortable around, she would
show you a side of her that will outstand most forward girl!!
think about it, just say you met this girl and shes real conservative
and shy, you might start thinking that she might be boring
in the bedroom!!! trust me ...
4 Comments,
171 Views,
8 Votes
,3.71 Score
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Size matter for women too!!! 8/23/2005
Each woman has a position and a angle which penetration
would drive her crazy, but i have also learned that depending
on the size and height of a woman that a certain position
would make her climax even faster and you know the rest.....this
is a FACT
0 Comments,
171 Views,
7 Votes
,2.28 Score
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I got tricked, how??? i don't know 8/23/2005
I known i haven't known you for a very long time, and
i shouldn't be asking you for this so soon, but i need
it badly, I haven't had it for a long time. I can already
feel it going in good and hardanad coming out nice and soft,
If you would do this for me no one would ever know. I am sure
you can satisfy my needs, and i'd be very grateful if
you would. I am very desperateand i need you ...
0 Comments,
148 Views,
2 Votes
,1.73 Score
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Don't put all your eggs in one BASKET!!!!! 8/23/2005
I learned that if your starting a relatinship with a woman,
that its best not to give her all your attention or go out
your way 100% for her. Woman have a way that at first they
will appreciate all the sweet things you say to her and do
for her, then later on when the relationship go on for a while,
all the same sweet things you say and do for her would somehow
make her feel suffocated ...
1 Comments,
128 Views,
5 Votes
,4.12 Score
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stranger??? 8/23/2005
I know that sex with a stranger is risky, but is it better
because you don't need to wrry about your performance???
or that you can go all out and do everthing you want to do without
being jugde??
0 Comments,
41 Views,
2 Votes
,1.73 Score
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The right path 8/23/2005
Trust, faith, honesty, I think those are the main three
things to help keep a relationship alive. Once you have
those three main things thats when you move on to doing things
that bout you and your partner like doing to keep the relationship
interesting and exciting, I think the main problem is ppl
forget how simple it is to connect to someone, that they
overlook doing small things ...
0 Comments,
76 Views,
2 Votes
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What in Earth is a Pure Trust slave Realtionship w/his(er)Owner 8/21/2005
i never heard of no limits until maybe 10 or 12 years aod to
be honest.
i have found (3) different Dominate Females and all True
Dominats's those i think who where born with an extra
gene as i was and is why i am as submissive as i am although
i am afriad they did not realize at the time i was who i am and
they where who they are.So even though i begged all of them
to come and claim me ...
1 Comments,
124 Views,
6 Votes
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PREPARATION FOR THE SLAVE ASS 8/19/2005
To trian a slave ass takes a lot. First one must be willing
to do the job.............every ass starts out-- OK- "I, m
a ass"....but to be prefected each ass must undergo-
specialized training.
In order to accomplish slave training the master must be
prepared to take the steps, bare the expense and work diligently
to accomplish his or her goals.
2 Comments,
323 Views,
10 Votes
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This is Part II of my life Story with how i became a slave 8/17/2005
First i send the warmest of my hug's to males or females
Dominate or submissive with the hope it light your path
and help you find not only what you search for but what your
heart searchs for as well to those who where kind enough
to take the time and read part one of how i became a slave.
i would really like to thank those of you who took the time
to vote as it is only because of this i am ...
0 Comments,
257 Views,
3 Votes
,0.98 Score
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how do you do it? 8/14/2005
i need to find out how to build up a sucsessful sub/dom relationship!
its so annoying all i want to do it to b abused and used in so
many ways and its justnot happening:'( how do you do
it? please tell me........:'(
0 Comments,
227 Views,
0 Votes
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For me it started Very Early in my life with a childhood friend 8/10/2005
i guess all relationships start at some point or another
but mine started if i am really to think about it around 9
or 10 years old with my childhood playmate who late became
my girl friend and then my Mistress and then my Wife.
So i guess we will start at the beginning and if you folks
want to hear more let me know and i will continue (but understand
i have changed names and places as ...
1 Comments,
186 Views,
8 Votes
,5.33 Score
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what is happening ? 8/9/2005
As I am very new at the internet and new to Alt, I am having
trouble understanding my feelings..I have been single
no sex for a while, I am finding myself really caught up
in this life.thats what I am here for, but really talking
deep.its all I think about..since I joined, just a question
I would like others thoughts on is it easy to get caught up
in the new excietment of this life style ...
2 Comments,
332 Views,
9 Votes
,4.49 Score
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Finding the right one, but they leave you just before!!! 8/6/2005
I have noticed a lot on these websites that a person can find
a good match, but when it comes time to meet, they lose all
confidence and leave without a word or tell you that you
are unworthy of their time. I'm extremely careful
with what I show and do online, and also really look into
a person to make sure they are safe as well. But you get past
this point and however long it had taken ...
1 Comments,
285 Views,
0 Votes
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what to do 8/4/2005
i found someone who lives far away. Should I move away?
0 Comments,
53 Views,
0 Votes
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Big surprise 7/29/2005
It all started at this party. We were all playing truth or
dare; we were all having the time of our life. Now my friends
all new that I’m straight and I have never backed down from
a dare before. Any ways I was dared to suck on this girl’s
breast and of course I did. After that I was a little hard
then the girl I had just been sucking on dared the man right
next to me to give the guy ...
0 Comments,
305 Views,
5 Votes
,5.10 Score
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The New Variety of Love and Relationship 7/11/2005
From ‘bed buddies’ to ‘polyamory’ I takes a look at the changing
face of relationship in the 21st century.
The rules of attraction have always been very simple; there
are no rules. You can look for sex through love, love through
sex, neither, either/or – and still end up miserable, frustrated
or heartbroken. So, in fact it wasn’t surprising to find
that ‘Where is the ...
0 Comments,
462 Views,
18 Votes
,3.94 Score
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across the ocean 7/8/2005
I've made a rather special friend who wants me to vist
her in the philipines some day. Nothing abnormal about
it, but she wants to do that. What's your take on it?
Is it a bad idea to go to a country on vacation as a request?
I think it'd be nice to go and all, but it seems like a
lot to do for a friend.
0 Comments,
130 Views,
3 Votes
,2.45 Score
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Looking for a good relationship 7/1/2005
Forgive my insertion of opinion here but, .... so many people
here have voiced disappointment with the failings of a
relationship and maintaing it... so .. here's what
i think.
What many seek is M/s (Master/slave or Master/submissive)
not D/s as strictly defined.Yes, sadly it is true. Most
toppy type dominants are just bossy people who get off getting
their own way in what is typically a ...
4 Comments,
673 Views,
44 Votes
,5.24 Score
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truth and nothing but the truth 6/23/2005
From life experience I can tell you that lies breed hate
and mistrust so if anyone wants a relationship or marriage
to last truth and nothing but the truth no matter what lie
to me good-bye, tell me the truth and we will get by
1 Comments,
185 Views,
6 Votes
,4.79 Score
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Training by Rob Hart 6/22/2005
"I want to be trained."
<br>
These are delightful words to hear. They show desire; they
promise fun; and they speak of trust. But what does it mean
to train a submissive? It is far more than instructing a
submissive on the expectations of a particular Dominant,
or making her a good "generic slave" (there
being no such thing). It is also never a one-way flow of information
or ...
3 Comments,
894 Views,
43 Votes
,8.83 Score
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Long Distance Relationships 5/31/2005
Being in a long distance relationship, takes two people
that believe in trust. When I speak of trust, it must engulf
your entire relationship. Every day I send an email and
talk on the phone with my loved one. Sometimes I feel so good
after hearing him and other times my heart aches more not
having him with me. We never take our love for granted each
time we spend together we jam a month ...
7 Comments,
1070 Views,
69 Votes
,7.23 Score
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Several signs of poor doming 5/22/2005
So, I am a sub and proud of that. I have several tips for other
subs in separating the real Dom from the posers.
<br>
<br>
1. The Dom meets and greets you one time with no intention
of playing.
<br>
<br>
2. You agree to safe sane limits
<br>
<br>
3. You understand and agree to what you can provide from
the ...
3 Comments,
1602 Views,
122 Votes
,5.12 Score
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Friend wants bi...... 5/14/2005
I know this 24 year old girl who has some very strong bi-sexual
pull. She luvs to masterbate watching girls go down on each
other. Needs guidance but motivated. I would like to surprise
her as a gift. I am not involved with her (5 yrs ago)- so you
believe me when I would listen to her talk about girls and
going down fantasies. I have some vid of her getting off
to femonfem porn--HOT! ...
2 Comments,
219 Views,
6 Votes
,3.37 Score
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Problems with Mom..getting better 4/28/2005
When I met my bodyfiend It was the first time I had met someone
from ALT. I told my parents I was going out to a friends for
a couple of hours. I wasnt sure how they would react to my
telling them "Hey MOM! Going to met some strange guy
and have sex! Be home by 12! Bye!" I was only 19 and new
to the world of BDSM. I figured my parents would rant and
rave and call the police. But My ...
0 Comments,
1301 Views,
61 Votes
,3.38 Score
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How to explain subspace to another? 4/22/2005
In the begining the concept of subspace bewildered me,
indeed verbally defining the concept was near impossible.
It was almost like some secret club, everyone but me "got
it". Books talked of it, but were vague in ways that
books for a thirteen year old are when talking about kissing.
People spoke of it as if they were all speaking of going someplace
that all subs get to go... a sub heaven ...
3 Comments,
912 Views,
54 Votes
,6.74 Score
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I'm not an expert ... 4/2/2005
I don't really have a good track record ... it seems
I trust those whom I shouldn't trust. I am very dominant,
but I'm also sensitive and romantic. I have few limits
sexually, but the ones I do have are very hard limits. One
is trust. And in expecting trustworthiness, I also give
it. I didn't come to BDSM, M/s, and D/s to see how many
women I can conquer. One woman ... the right woman ...
0 Comments,
316 Views,
13 Votes
,5.66 Score
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Are feelings ruled by "old genes" ? 3/29/2005
Is the fact that humans, genetically, are animals...
- still causing troubles for us, in building a relationship,
in modern times ?
<br>
Is it so that many of the reactions we have, comes from an
almost pre-historic instinct, and/or are genetically
“decided” or “programmed”
within us...
- often without any of us understanding that this is what
causes our ...
2 Comments,
393 Views,
14 Votes
,5.06 Score
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When feelings does not grow at same speed... 3/28/2005
Is it unusual that feelings does not come/grow at same speed
in a BDSM-relationship ?
<br>
And is it so that it maybe comes faster/stronger from the
submissive part, because of the need to involve feelings
to be able to give him/her self to a dominant ?
<br>
I have experienced this some times during my life; as submissive,
I NEED to have feelings for the one I do give ...
3 Comments,
474 Views,
11 Votes
,2.61 Score
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It takes time 3/28/2005
To build a relationship takes time in a "vanilla"
relationship...
- and maybe even more time in a BDSM-relationship, because
there is even more elements that shall "fit".
<br>
I think it is importante to get to know (im my situation)
the man, before I get to know the Master.
No matter how strict you are planning to live the relationship,
you are both humans, both peoples, ...
1 Comments,
778 Views,
37 Votes
,5.01 Score
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The Bee Versus The Flower 3/24/2005
Still new to being a submissive, I am always looking for
ways to understand my relationship to my Dom. While He is
completely in charge outwardly, I feel at sometimes I am
in charge inwardly. Not a powerful 'in charge, '
just a knowing within that I do have somewhat control of
what I do and do not give. He knows that to receive unwillingly
is both a waste of time and energy.
My Dom, ...
0 Comments,
670 Views,
20 Votes
,4.91 Score
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Thank You Alt.com, For The Love Of My Life!! 3/23/2005
Greetings, My name is Ginger And I am 20 years old. For the
last two years I have been waiting with fingers crossed
for "Mr. Right." Well on the night of May 23rd
2004 I got a loving letter from a strange man. The title,
"You could have it all, My Empire of Dirt." Being
a strong fan of Music by Nine Inch Nails this gave me pause.
I opened the letter and It was from a man I would learn to ...
1 Comments,
412 Views,
11 Votes
,3.35 Score
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Body, Mind and Soul ... are you really out there? 3/21/2005
It is interesting to me that though we are all here on Alt.com
to seek that which is beyond what most in general society
call "the Norm", in many ways, we seek what our
vanilla friends seek, as well. We just choose to look for
the edges and in some cases the extremes in expressing our
feelings with one another. Most vanilla people want someone
who cares about them; they want someone with ...
3 Comments,
630 Views,
20 Votes
,6.70 Score
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IS THERE ANYTHING WORSE THAN NO SHOWS? 3/19/2005
Hi friends, I'm back and want to address this issue..NO
SHOWS. Is there anything worse? I suppose there is, I've
just found that every member I ever met personallly, was
at the least, part of who they said they were..lol/
<br>
But no shows, that is the bottom of the food chain, utter
disrespect and real callousness that enflames a person's
emotions and hurts frankly.
<br> ...
5 Comments,
1000 Views,
58 Votes
,5.05 Score
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Usually the next day 3/13/2005
I will never forget my first real girlfriend in high school,
after
I spent most of the night thinking she was asleep with my
face in her panty covered ass, and sucking her asshole.The
next morning forever changed me, I realized I do have a
female counterpart, that is a girl who is into recieving
oral sex only and lots of assworship.U see she woke me up
by sitting on my face, telling ...
0 Comments,
2241 Views,
80 Votes
,0.07 Score
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Adult Nursing 3/10/2005
My very first experience with adult nursing happpened
quite by mistake. I had, had a miscarriage so my breast were
leaking. the person I was dating came over to see how I was
feeling. I mentioned to him that my breast were milking
and he said that he had always wanted to try that. I removed
one of my breast and allowed him to suckle ( I've always
had a thing for having them sucked). It ...
2 Comments,
2473 Views,
139 Votes
,5.64 Score
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What about smokers? 3/7/2005
Why is it that the everyday smoker does not have his/her
option of discretely acknowledging that they have a hidden
pleasure that is a lifestyle in it self? I have not heard
a valid reason why it should not be considered a lifestyle
choice and given the ability to know whether or not someone
will match them more completely. Is there any hope of change?......
0 Comments,
374 Views,
10 Votes
,1.19 Score
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The Prime Directive 3/6/2005
In my trainings, I was given several unshakable rules.
The first was the “Prime Directive”. (Yes, I suppose it
is an amusing co-incidence that it is a phrase akin to the
Starfleet core value, but as we know, so many perverts are
geeks…!)
<br>
The prime directive in my D/s relationships is this:
<br>
“The (submissive / slave) has the duty to protect the (dominant ...
3 Comments,
2856 Views,
201 Votes
,6.81 Score
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Baby Do you have A Hard Limit? 3/1/2005
Ok Ok, so it's a bad start to an important subject but
hey, I'm a lecturer and a Dom. What do you expect? lol
<br>
Seriously though, you need to have thought out a "Hard
Limit" list, i.e. a list of things that you simply
do not wish to participate in. It's not all that difficult
to write, and for your own sake and the sake of your Dom/me
you should have it. Remember - anything ...
1 Comments,
370 Views,
13 Votes
,4.82 Score
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knowing is not to abuse 2/27/2005
I was going to post a comment to the “Diff. between S/D relationship
& mentally abusive one? “
And then thought better of it…. Safe Sane & consensual…
yes.
The problem arises from the age old candy store syndrome
I am in the candy store and I want…
<br>
I have heard and seen Dominants and submissive who jump
in and commit to a D/s or M/s relationship from the ...
2 Comments,
269 Views,
9 Votes
,5.99 Score
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does it work.. of course 2/17/2005
Jim (Dominant, melj)
Wow
It is the first time i have looked at the Mag section and I
was shocked...
<br>
I can see so many lost soul's who for whatever reason
seem to be in a pickle... negativity and lots of it...
<br>
RELATIONSHIPS
There are many types of relationships in the alternative
scene, none are wrong or right they are only what we need,
if you want ...
3 Comments,
231 Views,
9 Votes
,4.71 Score
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Being in love and having slaves 2/15/2005
Is it possible for this to be mutually exclusive?
<br>
<br>
I have a very dominant side, but I don't tend to express
is to partners, as I feel it is seperate from the relationship.
I'm happy with it being this way.
<br>
<br>
Is it really possible to have the Mistress/Slave relationship
intertwined and in a 'normal' partnership, and
is it necessary, in ...
5 Comments,
444 Views,
13 Votes
,5.32 Score
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Thoughts of a sub, the response from the Dominant 2/6/2005
When I first saw you weeks back. I knew then I had to have you.
The want and desire was strong. But not until I was within
inches of you, feeling your heat radiating out, smelling
the faint and underlying aroma of lust and need from you,
was my control sorely tested as it has not been in so many
years. While sitting talking to the people last night you
passed and grazed your nails across my ...
0 Comments,
349 Views,
13 Votes
,6.00 Score
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Thoughts of a sub 2/6/2005
I sat here last night, thinking, always thinking, about
what would happen if you, or I lost control and started to
explore... Being that I crave your touch so badly, and you
crave touching me so badly, beyond, for both of us, the comfortable
yet tragically torturous yet.... So much needed caresses,
mostly in passing or out of the habit of just what felt right
at the time...But I so ...
0 Comments,
198 Views,
9 Votes
,5.14 Score
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question 2/1/2005
is it alright not to want any thing like for example i was
laying in bed naked and my gf( at the time ) came over got naked
to but we didnt do any thing i mean i didnt mind cause i have
always thought as long as i get time with her im happy well
im not so sure now she said thats what she wanted and stuff
and she liked doing that well i found out that she started
to get it some where else so ...
0 Comments,
134 Views,
2 Votes
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"SANTA!^^I'M PREGNANT^^!" 1/25/2005
SANTA{DATELINE]PREGNANT?Dont.blameMe SNOW-WHITE;SANTA
I'm still 5'-8" I was.118#(size 3 or 5)andwore, tight
fitting jeans and.miniskirts. Now I weigh 163#(size 12
or 14), I've accepted my new figure but, my husband, Prince
Charming hasn't. He continues to buy me expemive clothes
(size 5), telling me to set them aside untl I can fit in them
agan. Can I get my husband and ...
0 Comments,
144 Views,
3 Votes
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SANTA;#1-LOOKOUT^SLAYAGE.TV(BuffyVamp.Slayerwebsite) 1/24/2005
SANTA[DEADLINE]Stake^TheUndead"Buffy SECRETSANTA;Rhonda
Wilcoxis.finding out what is behind Buffy's Vampire'
Sayer's Punch! "I was there from the first season
, the name was goofy, it had to be really good or horrible, "said
Rhonda , a professor of English at Gordon college in Geeorgia.
The show.was.created.by.JossWhedon, and began ...
0 Comments,
39 Views,
2 Votes
,2.42 Score
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"SANTA'S.HIDEAWAY.USE.TO.BE.CASTLEDRACULA?" 1/23/2005
SANTA[DEADLINE]FORRENT.DRAC.HIDEAWAY Nestled deep
in the scenic heartof a Transylvania setting. All rooms
have CountDrac.-sized beds. Room service is an extra monthly
charge, with hot and cold maidenhead service at no extra
charge if you choose to change the blood, semen streaked
bed linen nightly. nurafora9cent ourly fee. Stay inour.moseleum
like luxury suites, guaanteed vermin and ...
0 Comments,
42 Views,
0 Votes
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"SANTA,What's.Grandpa.doing.in Iraq[War?]" 1/20/2005
SANTA[Deadline]Mosul, iraq, BaseCamp: SECRETSANATA
was not aware that the government had resorted to pull-
out all the stops and, recalling 50yr and older ex-GIs, such
as Major John Nelson for duty in Iraq. He says he doesn't
mind the troops under him calling him "Grandpa"
and "Dad", and after all they are"whipper-snappers"
in their 20's and he's 51. SANTA; has learned the ...
0 Comments,
61 Views,
1 Votes
,2.40 Score
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"SANTA IF I WAS PRESIDENT I'D..."(AconcernedTeen) 1/19/2005
SANTA[DEADLINE]Freedoms.answer.ATeen SECRETSANTA.asked.severalteen-agers
before and after the lastRe-election of The"PREZ", a
simple questsion, what they'd do if they were President?
Emily N., 18, of Tampa, Florida said- "When I am
President I will remember several thing like;Reember
what it was like to live with 2 hard working parents.eking
out a living day by day, Remember In ...
0 Comments,
67 Views,
2 Votes
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SANTA;"PREZ"^GEO.W.BUSH^AGENDA.2005: 1/17/2005
SANTA[DEADLINE]WASH, D.C."PREZ": SECRETSANTA;Both
Federal and Local Govermnts will get tougher agressing
individual rights, (that's.unprovok- ed). The
machinery to implement exe- cutive Order Woman 490 which
gives the President power to do any thing he deems neccessary
for the welfare of the nation, which includes the destruction
of all currency in the United States, and probably ...
0 Comments,
78 Views,
1 Votes
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Poly relationships 1/9/2005
Do poly relationships EVER work? Is there a formula to make
it work? Or is it something that others can grow into? Are
certain people cut out for poly lifestyles?
4 Comments,
316 Views,
9 Votes
,1.93 Score
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heyyyyyyyyyy 1/4/2005
to paintbrushAdrift:you r so sexy and attractive, i like
<br>
u.
0 Comments,
105 Views,
8 Votes
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Need a woman.s advice 12/30/2004
First,
Do women like men who are hairy or shaved?
During the seventies and early eighties, it was "macho"
if you were hairy, now I hear women say they like a man who
is smooth. I see this often when gay guys are looking, but
what about women? I was hairy (being Italian), but I have
since shaved smooth, except the hair on my head)(the big
one).Second, does size matter? I hear conflicting ...
5 Comments,
253 Views,
7 Votes
,2.28 Score
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Finding a Dom or Sub 12/30/2004
A place where you can have fun and possibly find what you
are looking for, is at the New York Renisance Faire.There
is the dramatic and romantic side to be satisfied here,
as well as a hugh collection of people in leather and spandex,
as well as women laced up in corsets.
I am sure amongst some of those in costume are those living
in the "alternate" lifestyle.
If you have never been ...
1 Comments,
131 Views,
7 Votes
,2.02 Score
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In The Beginning 12/23/2004
Many people have 2 lives. In the real world, they may be straight
ordinary people and go about their straight ordinary day.
Maybe even I am one of those people. who knows.
<br>
In here, we can be want we want to be. When we meet others,
they only know the us that is here in this online family.
<br>
So when and how would one incorporate the two lives without
disrupting ...
3 Comments,
276 Views,
28 Votes
,2.01 Score
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R diamonds a girls best friend 12/21/2004
Can wealth and diamonds realy fill the void in someones
(a dommes) soul. i think NOT! i think the jewels will keep
the domme entertained for a while, not very long though...it
cant compare the true power exchange...in my life, i believe
in the power exchange, i have lived it. can anything else
even compare? how long will it take her to venture out and
find the one thing that does make her ...
1 Comments,
240 Views,
32 Votes
,1.74 Score
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If you really want to WOW your girl.... 12/19/2004
I swear if you do this you will have her (or him) forever!!!
<br>
Purchase a dozen roses, go to your local arts and crafts
store and purchase one silk rose. (You can get them looking
so real!) Take one of the real roses out of the vase and place
on her pillow. Add the silk rose into the middle of the 11
remaining roses. (Cut silk stem down if rose doesnt completely
match, that way ...
3 Comments,
493 Views,
53 Votes
,5.59 Score
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The Perfect Master - Misconception and Resolution 12/16/2004
Hello,
<br>
We thought that you might enjoy a short essay that we recently
wrote. Any comments are welcome!
<br>
Happy holidays!
Sir Eric
<br>
<br>
The Perfect Master – Misconception and Resolution*
<br>
"You, the Master, are in charge and in control. You
own the responsibility of your property - whether it is
real estate, slaves or your ...
4 Comments,
411 Views,
32 Votes
,4.27 Score
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Co-dependancy and slave owning 12/15/2004
Many dream of the perfect slave/owner relationship...one
of devotion,
disciple, function and feeling owned body mind and soul...
This is a beautiful fantasy, but the reality can easily
become
unhealthy co-dependancy. In a safe, sane, and consensual
ideal this
isn't exactly sane.
<br>
Where is this line? Can one have a relationship that fulfills
the
fantasy and definition of ...
3 Comments,
364 Views,
34 Votes
,5.31 Score
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Exploring a bi relationship 12/14/2004
How does one who has been straight all of their life, initiate
a bi relationship? It seems like all of the stuff that you
learn with guys goes out the window with woman. Perhaps
i am too nieve, it is so new, and almost scary to me. Does anyone
have any hints on how a woman can connect with another woman?
5 Comments,
264 Views,
9 Votes
,4.07 Score
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What is the role of symbolism? 12/12/2004
Talk about leashes, collars and other BDSM "accessories"
has got me thinking...
<br>
The very first time I was exposed to this concept was late
into the relationship with my first dom. I started with
an off hand comment that wearing shirt collars or necklaces
always makes me very aware of my neck. He very much liked
what he called my adventurous spirit and fiestiness. He ...
1 Comments,
188 Views,
19 Votes
,3.52 Score
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Begining...need advice 12/11/2004
I have been living with a man for almost 2 months now and care
for him very much. I am quite submissive by nature and I am
starting to see that he is a natural Dom type. We have great
sex, stimulating conversation, and generally get along
well with each other. My problem is that i do not know how
to start a discussion about the Dominant and submissive
rolls we are each already playing ...
9 Comments,
268 Views,
30 Votes
,4.02 Score
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"Power Corrupts" but what about the Power Exchange? 12/11/2004
The idea that power corrupts, does it apply in D/s?
<br>
The first thing that comes to my mind is that it shouldn't
be applicable in a D/s environment. While the quote (i believe)
refers to general power, it's usually applied in political
fields. So i was tempted to just deny it out of hand.
<br>
But that doesn't really make sense. After all, power
is power, in ...
2 Comments,
129 Views,
18 Votes
,3.81 Score
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Introducing the "Lifestyle" 12/7/2004
How does one go and introduce the "lifestyle"
to a new partner? W/o scaring them off. Or does "planting
a seed work within reason.?
5 Comments,
268 Views,
17 Votes
,2.70 Score
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Question 12/5/2004
Ok, I met these girls who were working at a bondage booth
at this local sex toy convention thing, and I asked one out.
She said she'd like to go for drinks after the convention,
and even said "sure we'll go for drinks"
after I asked her later on that night "so you were jokin'
about the drinks right?". Problem is, we had to go
(the guys) towards the end of the show and she disappeared,
so ...
6 Comments,
150 Views,
14 Votes
,2.50 Score
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how to tell one your a tg 12/4/2004
Hi Im a transvestite and live as one ! I have recently met
someone and things are going well thing is this person knows
nothing about my sexuality and i dont know how to approach
this subject without hurting this person or making them
think there is something wrong with them or with me ! i am
at a loss as how to approach this anyhelp would be appreciated
!
5 Comments,
153 Views,
15 Votes
,2.21 Score
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David, Will You Hurry Up And Please Me? 11/28/2004
He was just as needy as I and things seemed okay because we
had stayed in touch and at least we had an understanding.
Trust was there, on both side, to do the right thing. That
is what is so magnificent about him, his sense of right and
wrong plus a sensitive side, and the pure strength of his
convictions. I enjoyed him sharing his sensitivity, which
I am sure he sees as a weakness. On the ...
0 Comments,
259 Views,
44 Votes
,8.06 Score
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Novice Dom 11/24/2004
So you're a novice Dom? Congratulations and welcome
aboard! It is always nice to greet a fellow Dom. But before
you get out them whips and start addressing every sub by
"On your knees slut!" there are a few things
I'd like to say. You may be nervous or scared. I know
it took me a couple of years before I gathered up my courage
and joined the local scene. I'd had fantasies of tying
up and ...
2 Comments,
1061 Views,
113 Votes
,8.48 Score
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HI 11/19/2004
I just create a new group at egypt area and i invite you all
to join it.
0 Comments,
34 Views,
7 Votes
,3.80 Score
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wen love play 11/19/2004
and want to hear from thers who didg this
1 Comments,
139 Views,
22 Votes
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"a soulmate" 11/18/2004
a soul-mate is someone who has the unique ability to bring
out the best in us....with a heart full of love, you will
express your highest potential, while also fulfilling
your soul's deepest purpose:to love n be loved !!
2 Comments,
76 Views,
20 Votes
,5.93 Score
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***a woman needs*** 11/18/2004
someone who cares about her well-being...n understand
what she's going through...recognise n value her
feelings....
someone to love freely n trust..that she will be loved in
return...
someone to notice her...love her n adore her...
someone she can confide in..trustworthy n will not turn
on her n break her confidence....
1 Comments,
70 Views,
29 Votes
,7.25 Score
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"a man needs" 11/18/2004
a woman to accept him just the way he is....trust him n be
his friend....admire him for what he has done or tried to
do....give him the opportunity to fulfil your needs.....surprise
him n keep him on the boiling point when it comes to sex...share
the fantasies...most of all nag him NOT....coz he will
run n scare him not...coz men r also very sensitive n fragile....
2 Comments,
171 Views,
51 Votes
,6.72 Score
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"practice make perfect" 11/17/2004
the art of communication is the key to a healthy relationship...n
for most women, being in a healthy, intimate relationship
is the foundation to great SEX....
2 Comments,
116 Views,
26 Votes
,5.18 Score
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us 11/16/2004
ok i first met the other half in alt 14 months ago a mate of
mine said why not try it out so i did ta alt for bringing foxxy
to me the worst part of our relationship is she lives 2000
k away from me so it makes lif hard at the moment but on the
27 of dec that will all change as we are finaly moving intogether
ok most know who i am by now and i would like to take this opertunity
to say ...
0 Comments,
43 Views,
8 Votes
,3.01 Score
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From first chat to collaring 11/15/2004
Dear men,
<br>
Dominant or submissive, Master or slave, I believe there
are a few things you need to know if you haven't figured
them out all ready.
<br>
Level 1: If you are trying to start a relationship on Alt.com
or any other BDSM site, firstly knock it off with the cock
shots! Do you seriously think this is what is going to turn
a Woman on (I'm sorry, but I ...
9 Comments,
443 Views,
182 Votes
,7.92 Score
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Collaring 11/12/2004
I have a question for doms or masters regarding collaring.
What is the average amount of time it takes including training
and consideration that is used for a master or dom to collar
a sub?
<br>
Are there any specific levels of collaring? I am just curious.
4 Comments,
241 Views,
26 Votes
,4.21 Score
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being schooled in submission...(truth from a.s.s. re: CMM) 11/11/2004
i am personally, by 'el naturale' extremely Dominant.
Streets and my 'history' has formed this dominant
aura around me, keeping me safe yet bound to a Dominant existance.
Until CMM came along, that is.
<br>
The hardest thing in the world for me to really do, is to be
submissive, yet in meeting CMM - it has been the most exciting
and educational experience to date...and this is ...
0 Comments,
87 Views,
14 Votes
,6.18 Score
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Older Women and Younger Men 11/8/2004
I see that Alt are running a Poll and the question is directed
at men. Perhaps it would interst people to know that a large
majority of Fem Domme/submissive relationships are where
the woman is older and the submissive is younger.
<br>
I am currently in such a relationship and the submissive
is 13 years my junior. I originally had a lot of misgivings
about just such a ...
2 Comments,
172 Views,
43 Votes
,7.70 Score
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To Be Or Not To Be 10/30/2004
While I am fairly new to this lifestyle and to this site,
I have been approached by numerous Doms who write they can
"train me in one night."
I find this hard to believe, but then there may be some supermen
out there just waiting to train this submissive to be all
she can be.
I have a tendency to believe (and want) a more stable relationship,
starting off with a friendship, chatting, ...
3 Comments,
95 Views,
32 Votes
,8.21 Score
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How can I get my husband to be turned on by being dominant? 10/22/2004
I'm looking for advice on how to turn a vanilla into
a dominant. Any ideas? He will do a light hand spanking,
go from behind and make me go down on him and talk a little
dirty. However, it is rare and takes a little prodding from
me. I've tried watching porn with him and movies and
telling him what I like. I guess I feel like it sort of ruins
the scene when the submissive is trying to ...
4 Comments,
112 Views,
22 Votes
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new to this lifestyle 10/17/2004
I was wondering if anyone did training on the web first with
their dom. How did it work out this dom I am working with seems
a nice guy, and says we will meet in about a month. We talk
on the phone and we talk by web too. It is hard for me to be totally
submissive to him without challenging him because know
there are no consequences yet for it. Do really want to do
this, have discovered ...
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96 Views,
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new to this 10/9/2004
Does anyone know where I can find out information or help
on being a good Domme?
3 Comments,
65 Views,
6 Votes
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love letter to my girlfriend 10/9/2004
Copy love letter to bambi Baby ive missed you so much ! its
been so long since ive held you in my arms, I m looking forward
to hold to you again, ,I remember our first kiss so soft
and sensous and after I kissed your mouth was still opan
ready for more so I kissed you again and you made sweet sound, so
I tongue kissed you but you weren’t ready for that , just
sweet sensous kiss, ,, mm it ...
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82 Views,
9 Votes
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Any ideas? 10/7/2004
I recently met a vanilla girl but I soon realised that she
was naturally very submissive. I have introduced the idea
of BDSM & D/s to her & shes quite into it. My question
is; does anyone have any ideas for how I should take things
further?
1 Comments,
63 Views,
8 Votes
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New to this lifestyle need help in becoming a good slave. 10/6/2004
I have been with my Master for 6 months now, I love him to death. I am not yet the person slave I now i could be to him. I am looking to be his best and closes slave that he has, But i have a problem I can't yet give my whole self over to My master, I guess you would say that i am hardhead in some ways but i am in need of some advices from you. How should I correct the problem?
Worried ...
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What a lucky guy I was 10/5/2004
I have been in a long term relationship and regretfully my partner died on June 2nd 2002. I met him when I was 15 and he was 40 and we had the most wonderful life together in a totally monogamous relationship for 40 years. When I was 20 I came to live with him and we had lived together in true harmony and love for those 35 years. We did not have much to do with the gay scene and we hated gay bars ...
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7 Votes
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Fasination also a basic of a relationship 10/3/2004
As I said in a privious articial that connection is the basis for a relationship, I also believe that there has to be an element of fasination,as well. When you think about your perfect master, me I know this, that unless there is something that truly leads you to this special one then they will not fulfill those basic needs that must be met, in order for you to, feel that fasination, with me, I ...
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Oh, Just Spank me Already! 10/3/2004
I'm a frustrated subby just getting involved in the lifestyle and find, like many of us, when I'm really stressed or upset, I NEED a good spanking! So Why is so hard to get my partner (a stated dom) to understand this? I explained, it's a great stress reducer for BOTH of us, he won't harm me if he stays focused on the sit spot and uses his hand or "gentle" implements, it allows me to release my ...
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13 Votes
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What ever sub wants 10/3/2004
He led her By the collar, he led her by her hair.
And she responded …love you dear,
And he responded ….bitch I’m here.
And late at nigh, after passion was done
Home he went, for he was a solitary one
But, she laid there, deep within the night,
Alone and confused, which was her right.
For she served him with no thought of herself.
And gloried in her pain,
But with the first ...
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How do I learn to trust again? 9/30/2004
I am a lifetime submissive. I currently am in a 24/7 with my Master. My problem is trust. Because of past issues with Doms not being honest and faithful, I am having a hard time trusting my Master.
We met a yr ago and I knew he had other slaves. He knew I was not poly and gave up his slaves and his life in CA to come live with me in a small town. However he keeps his slaves online and keeps in ...
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2 Votes
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Bisexual wifes how many husbands have no problem with it. 9/29/2004
I have no problem with my wife being bi-sexual but I have noticed at swingers parties and even in some couples me and the wife I have met. So husbands and boyfriends have a real problem couping with the fact there wife is indeed bi-sexual. I have no problem with the fact as I knew from the day we started dateing she was bi-sexual and it was part of her I accepted.
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Keep Looking... 9/23/2004
Maybe there really is not perfection to attain out there in the vast smallness we like to call our planet. But don't just give up deeply felt core things about who you are deep inside in order to accomodate someone who says they love you. Love you? Can you truly love someone and ignore the things they feel and need in their life? I don't think so but that is just me. There are things far worse ...
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Connection the basis for a great relationship 9/18/2004
Some call it connection others call it chemistry, but what
ever you call it it is the foundation for and great relationship,
without it the relationship just will not work, and that
holds true no matter what kind of relationship you are in,
it could be D/s a gay, or a straight relationship.
With me now when you make that connection, its like you can
feel, as if there is and energy ...
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18 Votes
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Idaho Summer- She cuffed and spanked me 9/18/2004
I was at a party at a friends house when I met the most perfect
girl ever. It was a dry point in life and I was really looking
for something different. The way she casually talked about
S&M was inviting. It all started so innocently, with me
being in total control of the relationship. When she would
give me head, I would face fuck her hard. It was awesome,
but the relationship slowly ...
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13 Votes
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youngman/olderwoman 9/15/2004
I am a youngman and I am interested to date older women. Call
it a fetish, but I really think that older women has a lot
to offer compare to younger women. Here's a few : 1.
OLDER WOMEN MORE CONFIDENT - THEY KNOW WHAT THEY WANT, WHETHER
IT'S SEX OR COMPANIONSHIP.
<br>
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2. OLDER WOMEN ARE FINANCIALLY STABLE - THEY DON'T
DEPEND ON A MAN TO PAY FOR THEM, THAT MEANS ...
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Repy to Protocals 9/14/2004
Dearest Untamedspirit
<br>
Men will be men, however maybe the Dom/Master's you
are finding yourself getting involved with are more of
a polyarmorous mindset. If so, I suggest you have them read
"Polyamory, The New Love Without Limits" book
so they understand that it works both ways.
<br>
Nothing wrong with experiementing, as long is one is doing
so safely and ...
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Relationships without sex? 9/3/2004
HI there. I saw a lot of people, who looking for special kind
of oral sex, bondage sex, anal sex and and and.
Is it possible, to built a relationship without all that
physical things. I mean sex could be nice, but is it all?
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19 Votes
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RE: The importance of sex in a relationship 8/27/2004
Sex is not the primary reason or motivation for a relationship,
but within this lifestyle, sex does play an important part
alongside the psychological and emotional well-being.
Not all sex is intercourse/copulation!
<br>
Sex takes many forms from self and mutual stimulation to
masturbation onto play and onwards. Many people are sexually
fulfilled without intercourse and the sex ...
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Starting Over W/New Dom 8/26/2004
I've been "off the market" for awhile,
and am in the process of looking for a new D/s relationship.
I've read all kinds of tips for subs looking to establish
relationships and contracts here on alt.com, but those
were geared more towards female subs, male Dom's.
<br>
I'm a male sub, however. I've filled out a profile
here (and been completely honest to my likes/dislikes)
and ...
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28 Votes
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Just a little not from a friend 8/25/2004
On Monday she gave each student his or her list.
Before long, the entire
class was smiling. "Really?" she heard whispered.
"I
never knew that I
meant anything to anyone!" and, "I didn't
know others
liked me so much."
were most of the comments.
<br>
No one ever mentioned those papers in class again. She
never knew if
they discussed them after class or with their ...
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re:how long is a peice of rope 8/5/2004
get a life, yes weve all been through it you meet someone
you think their the one and it doesnt work, move on do other
shit to get her of your mind, and when your ready youll be
back there ! rock on Dude
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How long is a peice of rope? 8/3/2004
It seems to me that everyone is rushing aboput in their daily
lives. Is speed the essence of living? I believe that when
entering into a bdsm relationship, that he time taklen
to get to know yourself and that of your partner is crucial.
If not enough time is taken to self acknowledge your feelings
emotions, fantasies, etc then how can you be truthful and
open with your partner? My ...
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22 Votes
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Stay on your toes. 8/3/2004
Relationships are in our hard-wired nature. Fourtunatly
or unfourtunatly, however you care to see it. I am a young
writter, but I have learned my fare share already. I also
relize there is much still left to learn. Being the kind
person I am I am going to share one of my harder learned lessons
in relationship construction.
Trust is something we all know we need in a relationship, ...
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17 Votes
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SERVITUDE 7/25/2004
To my mind, domination over another is won by fulfilling
the dersires of another....not your own. To read another's
desires and draw out thier passion is the most rewarding
thing we can experiance. Servitude is freely given at that
point and becomes real and meaningful, no longer a simple
game.
> No two women are ever the same and should be respected
and treated as individuals. ...
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105 Votes
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Building is a construction to be worked on 7/23/2004
Building a relationship's key word is "building"
as in building the foundation of a house. Bricks by bricks
and put down so that they stay on top of one an other with future
plans of what will go on top shall not collapse, then it should
be, that foundation that is, built solid and with some "thoughts"
!
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19 Votes
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The importance of sex in a relationship 7/16/2004
Is sex really that important in a relationship. I know that
we That way the realtionship leave you nothing to desire.
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Tribute to my Master Richard (punter11) 7/15/2004
SIR, YOU FIRST CAME INTO MY LIFE AS WORDS ON A SCREEN, NEVER
REALISED THEN YOUR WORDS WERE MORE THEN THEY SEEMED. LITTLE
DID I KNOW AT THE TIME IT WOULD BE YOU WHO WOULD CAPTURE MY
HEART, MIND, BODY AND SOUL. MY LIFE WAS TROUBLED, I WAS SAD
AND FEELING EMPTY. BUT ALL THAT CHANGED WHEN YOU CAME ALONG
MY SWEET MASTER RICHARD.I DISCOVERED MY OWN PEICE OF HEAVEN.
I AM BLESSED WITH YOUR KIND ...
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race is an issue 7/13/2004
I am a young white woman who recently started seeing a black
man and I am shocked by the reactions I have gotten from some
people. He treats me very well and I enjoy being with him
so why do some of my "friends" have a problem
with him? I have heard enough nigger jokes in the last couple
weeks to make me puke, and often they are from people who
claim not to be racist. I know some people ...
2 Comments,
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28 Votes
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how to build a successful relationship 7/12/2004
a good relationship is built slowly no rushing , taking
life as it comes listening and accepting each others limits
and do and donts without bieng pushy if you follow those
few points you shouldnt go far wrong meet youre partner
half way and respect there wishes and get them to meet you
half way it should start moving alongjust nicely this should
avoid arguments and diputes if advice is ...
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Response to Girlfriend from Hell 7/11/2004
Just read your article about your 16 year old "bitchy"
girlfriend. Although 6 years is not a big year difference,
your maturity levels are. Maybe it's time to move on
to someone a little closer to your own age. 16 year old girls
are known for their "bitchiness", you didn't
know that?
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13 Votes
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Relationship Preventive Maintenance 7/9/2004
My hope is this text of information will aid people in their
communications with other’s be it vanilla or in the D/s
bdsm lifestyle to prevent needless and unneccessary hardships
from interfering with their relationships.
<br>
I am speaking from personal observation and experience.
<br>
Integrity, in my opinion, is a key to life without regrets.
Trust, is the ...
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11 Votes
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"THE OTHER SIDE" 7/7/2004
To start with, I am going to tackle some thoughts on the various
components of BDSM. I won't talk much about the acronym,
but do want to discuss what they are and how they relate to
each other. This may seem like beginner stuff, but you'd
be surprised at how many long time scene players don't
really understand how it all fits together - this can and
does lead to some skewed expectations.
...
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36 Votes
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reply to: how to say she's beautiful 7/5/2004
If it please you Sir. To tell a woman she is beautiful is nothing.
But to show it, that is what matters. Hear it frim a woman.
When you tell awoman she is beautiful and that you like to
sleep on her boobs she talkes it at face value. When you take
a nice long look at another woman passing by on the street
you just erased your past 5 compliments. You must let it
show that she is hot. If you ...
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97 Votes
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From Russia With Love 7/5/2004
I've met a woman from Russia on a European website.
She is 29 and I am 36. We've been writing emails back
and forth and the relationship appears to be growing into
a long distance one. She does not speak English very well
and uses a translator program to read my emails. Out of respect
I send her and email in English and another of the same content
in Russian using a free online ...
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Relationships can happen here 7/3/2004
Relationships can and do happen here. For the past (almost)
year, with a few ups and downs, a beautiful thing was created
between two consenting-married to vanilla spouses-adults.
Like any relationship, you have to build, learn, and create.
The thing I love about this man, is I, as his subby, can tell
him anything, and while he is my dominant, he lets me be myself.
He knows how to punish me ...
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49 Votes
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B honest 6/26/2004
PLease when u meet someone new just b urself and honest.
If u want to build its best way to start.
Dont b something ur not........
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re: Wondering what to do 6/26/2004
I guess it all depends on where Y/you live, and how outgoing
Y/you are. How about a visit to a club? Let Him watch what
O/others do...maybe give a few pointers about what you
would like. Failing that, how about a Munch? General discussion
can help O/one to relax more regarding their feelings.
If circumstances do not allow for these activities, why
not suggest that He looks for an ...
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6 Votes
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Feeling stalked 6/20/2004
Have you ever felt like you were being stalked? I started
talking to a nice Dom or so I thought. Not in that mindset
right now, though.
<br>
I cannot sign onto the computer without him messaging me.
I have tried to tell him politely that I do other things on
the computer besides chat. He doesn't seem to get it.
Should I tell him point blank to leave me alone. I cannot ...
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RE: First Meets 6/10/2004
In this modern world of uncertainty, no one can be too cautous.
Yes, even Doms/Masters have a need for safety from explortation,
blackmail, etc. The internet offers numerous opportunities
to meet new people. How wonderful and exciting it can be.
However, it can also be devasting and deadly if you should
fall prey to the wrong person. During my voyage through
the Alt. lifestyle (very short ...
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28 Votes
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A Man Lost to Sensitivity? 6/2/2004
I have had many different relationships in my life. The
"innocent" times in high school, where I became
known to a small group of girls for my ability to give good
spankings and wonderfully secure bondage. The woman who
possessed me for a year and made me feel things that a dozen
years later I now find myself craving for again. The intense
sadism and emotion that I shared with my wife ...
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17 Votes
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How to say she's beautiful 6/1/2004
To whomever can help me out on this one:
Why is it that every time a guy compliments a women by saying
she's beautiful, 90% of the time the response is bad!
They say "whatever" or "no I'm not"
or "thanks, if only it were true". Barely ever
do you hear a thank you. I do know not to use "pretty"
because that sounds average.
<br>
This probably goes on the same subject, but it's ...
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RE:Long Distance. 5/31/2004
Of course ...anything you want to make work, will work.
I have been in a relationship with a sub that lives 2 1/2 hours
from Me. We get together several weekends a month. (usually)
and vacation together. Is it easy? No, it would be a lot easier
if we could live together, but for now, we can't. When
it is meant to be ...it will be and trust Me, worth every
hour on the road.
Enjoy ...
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18 Votes
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How to built a relationship for Standard Member 5/26/2004
At this time I haven't seen any member, but only very
few profiles without photo.
The only one thing that I can do is to receive winks (none
for now) or see the album of my friend.
<br>
I seems a little few after severla days of navigation on
this site.
I think that should be better to adopt the method of FriendFinder,
where is possible to see all people, but contact only the ...
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31 Votes
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Anyone Want a Threesum With a Bi couple ? 5/24/2004
Hi everyone, Our names are Michelle & Chris were 21/F
& 28/M from kent england. Were looking for anyone who
would be up for a threesum with us ?
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20 Votes
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Hardest Relationship of all?? 5/23/2004
I am wondering if the crossdressing lifestyle is one of
the hardest of relationships to begin?? I know there are
women out there who have special interests in the TG an crossdressing
lifestyle, but it seems for the avgerage Transgender
and/or Crossdresser, its difficult to meet such a woman...
Alt.com is one of the few sites that I know of, that offer
a chance to meet someone but yet it ...
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15 Votes
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Relationship with someone much younger. 5/20/2004
I've been talking to a girl online...but she's
15 years younger than me (I'm 36 and she's 21).
Does anyone have any advise, good or bad experiences...etc.
Any advise would be appreciated. Also, she is the one who
contacted me first...so she must like older men.
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25 Votes
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Long Distance. 5/20/2004
Do long distance relationships work? I talking with someone
who lives an hour away...who also has small and
cannot travel.
A few of my past relationships were "weekend only"
types. We would talk 3 or 4 times a week and spend weekends
together...it lasted you 6 years.
Does anyone have any ideas on how to make long distance work?
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28 Votes
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