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When your Sub chooses to take off her collar 10/12/2004
Hmm, should I not be phased, or be emotionally hurt by my
sub walking away? I was, and am. but why, this deeply? I think
it is because in any solid relationship. Well let's
break it down. Why? Hm I was told I was not consistant, I was
not strict enough, and hard enough to truely break her down
to the level of submission she felt she needed. Hmm and yet
she asked to be collared, not ...
2 Comments,
160 Views,
16 Votes
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So bad yet so good! 10/11/2004
In answer to redass1979 which said:
Why in the hell do people keep their significant others
around when you come in here and get all this great stuff.
I dont care how bad you treat one another. . There is no reason
to be with someone in a so called "real" relationship
if you are on here doing this shit.
<br>
Well you're here aren't you? doesn't that
put you in the same ...
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4 Votes
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Getting Over the Pain (trying to be friends after a breakup) 10/11/2004
Human emotions are not always your friend!
It is only when people learn that nothing in life is worth
an emotional distress to yourself, that they will begin
to live life to the fullest.
People come and go, relationships come and go. sure there
are good times and bad times, but remembering the good times
and moving on is better than remembering the bad times and
wallowing in your own ...
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75 Views,
6 Votes
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Why won't he say its over?? 10/11/2004
To CowboyAngel
He's playing you like a chump that's why he won't
say it's over!
Keep ya hanging around just in case his other ventures don't
work out!
Be strong and tell him goodbye, you don't deserve what
he is putting you through. Unless of course you just like
being a puppet on a string!!
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6 Votes
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breaking up 10/11/2004
Well then desiredelf, if your sub has realized what she
truly wants and is trying to come back, and you did say you
love her, then why still carry the grief?
Just consider yourself the winner of the tug-o-war and
maybe in time she will explain to you why she handled things
the way she did before she left.
The ball is in your court now, I hope you handle it well.
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4 Votes
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response to: My last boyfriend 10/11/2004
Well mahalcock what did you really expect?
People more so than not, seem like a dream come true when
you first meet them, but can turn into a nightmare soon afterwords.
People so often get boared with their other half and think
the grass is greaner on the other side. Even quicksand doesn't
look like quicksand until you step in it!
Ever heard of spice? You should have tried to put some ...
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7 Votes
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Response to: nude college 10/11/2004
ok veevij, and screwing the mentor is bad how?
If it gets them good grades, I say go for it!!!
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7 Votes
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Still Longing For Her ..... 10/11/2004
It's not so much what you did to deserve what happened
to you, but be thankful you have fond memories, and move
on!
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7 Votes
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There is no reason to be in a real relationship with someone if you are on here 10/6/2004
Why in the hell do people keep their significant others around when you come in here and get all this great stuff. I dont care how bad you treat one another.. There is no reason to be with someone in a so called "real" relationship if you are on here doing this shit. I dont care how bad someone treats you...its nothing but complete death for your partner...finding out that no matter what you do ...
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15 Votes
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Re: break clean or not 10/4/2004
A clean break is the best thing for everyone. Lingering feelings will only make a sad situation worse, so moving on with your life would be better in the long run.
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10 Votes
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RE: Getting over the pain 9/30/2004
Been where you are....This is just advise take it or leave it...Shrugs...
As hard as the break up was bet. the 2 of Yyou it is now time to sit back, review things for awhile, discover for yourself what went right or wrong, store it in the back of your head, and then pick yourself up & move on...
Yeah, Easier said than done...Probably the biggest change you can make for yourself is get in ...
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4 Votes
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getting over the pain 9/12/2004
I have recently broken up with someone who was very dear
to me, for reasons that I won't mention..I find it very
difficult to make the transition from being this beautiful
"couple" to now being just "friends"..I
am at my wits end, trying to find the happy medium in which
to conduct this relationship..I miss him terribly, but,
can't continue either..the relationship has not
beneficial to ...
1 Comments,
81 Views,
19 Votes
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Still Longing For Her ..... 8/28/2004
I hate to admit it, but I still miss her. I long for her. My
heart aches for the sight, the touch, the feel, the passion
of her.
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My spirit which once soared like an eagle in anticipation
of serving and has crashed to the ground. Ipleasing her t
lays on the side of life's highway, crushed by the daily
grind of having to go on without her.
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At night I yearn ...
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21 Votes
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Re: What Happens When Honesty Fails 8/6/2004
Alan340....Let her be, if she is in the hospital for attempting
her life, she will get the help she needs. Any contact from
you at this point will send her back to the place she was prior
to entering the hospital. At this point you just need to
distance yourself from her. Based on what you say, it can't
get better, it can only get worse. She is not balanced and
may need medication to ...
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49 Votes
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What happens when honesty fails? 8/3/2004
I was with a woman for years, at first everything was great.
After a couple of months in r/l things started to fall apart.
When we were fighting it was always my fault, a few hours
later it was all her fault. I was honest with my intentions
and what I was looking for from the start. I never hid my dark
side and in some ways she enjoyed that part of me. She used
to tell me it was my fault ...
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34 Votes
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when a relationships end. 7/18/2004
when two people part life can be very truamtic you feel unloved
uncared for that no one wants you.depression can set it
, work performance goes down hill and boredom takes over
diet goes up the creek and life doesnt feel worth carryon.but
why has it ended is it due to one person not fufilling the
needs of the other or has one strayed or is the biggest cause
of the lot money problems or ...
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60 Votes
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response to ex-husband missed out... 7/13/2004
So why were you such a prude? It is funny all the sex people
talk about sex and the reason for infidelity but hardly
ever the solution to it or preventing it. You are a good example,
had you not been such a prude and been sexually active with
your husband, worked at sex with him, being interested
in it, being creative, playing, and having fun with it,
you could have notonly saved a ...
1 Comments,
98 Views,
58 Votes
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Tears without trust? 7/7/2004
There were tears upon my leathers,
Tears upon her face
Tears of anger and denial
Of shame and loss and disgrace
The lie in which I had caught her
She knew would cost her dear
She knew what I now had to do
The words even I could not bear to hear.
The collar, worn around her neck
She wore with joy so well
She knew her neck would soon be bare
By my eyes alone, could ...
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45 Votes
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When is a slave not a slave? 6/28/2004
I recently had what i thoght was a male slave who's only
wish was to serve the master. Our agreement was that if I
could not look after my slave for any length of time or the
slave proved unreliable then I would release him to find
a new master. Owing to a sudden unexpected change of job
i was placed in a position that my free time no longer was
compatable with that of my slave. Doing the ...
0 Comments,
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47 Votes
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Re: Do We Really Deal With Lies In A Breakup 6/24/2004
Having our trust violated is always painful but having
it violated within the lifestyle is more so due to the very
nature of a bdsm relationship. While closure acts as a catalyst
for moving on it's isn't always attainable when
dealing with someone who has been less than truthful with
us. Sometimes we simply need to accept that we will never
know what motivated someone who we trusted to ...
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50 Votes
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ex girlfriend 6/14/2004
me an my ex are friend i got mad at her and left her house a while
later she called me crying because i left she said i was teh
only shure thing in her life shes driving me nuts
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33 Votes
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Re: Limbo 6/1/2004
I agree with you totally that it is hard. I had a similar situation
where it was more her fault but I moved out, and then told
her I still cared about her. I gave her a month to decide how
she wanted to go about things. Well, in all honesty I got
off the phone about an hour ago, and I had to tell her. She
tried telling me that she loved me and gave "kiss"
sounds, but yet she couldn't ...
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13 Votes
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reply to I Love her but 5/7/2004
Ever see the Seinfeld episode where they discuss the "pre-emptive"
breakup? Might be the case here. Ask yourself - Do you really
love her? You say you were thinking of breaking up with her.
Did she simply beat you to the punch?
Just a thought or two
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33 Votes
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Limbo 5/5/2004
I have recently come out of an ltr. Things were wonderful
until I had to deal with some difficult personal stuff in
my head. Then, I began to withdraw a little, I guess a little
down. During this period, my girlfriend, who I truly loved, decided
to end things as I wasn't giving her the attention she
wanted. She did this on the telephone, (shitty but true),
but gave me a month in case I ...
2 Comments,
71 Views,
26 Votes
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How to break up with out hurting someone 4/28/2004
I am in a serious relationship but I have found I want to do
so much more sexually and explore more and the girl I am with
is so sweet and innocent that I really care for but I am ready
to move on and explore. How do I break it off with her and remain
friends and not hurt her.
0 Comments,
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41 Votes
,4.73 Score
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Sir William.........Thank you 4/26/2004
"Breaking Up"
Two of the harshest, words a person faces.Especially
so,
in this "lifestyle", where one's mind
, body and soul belongs to another.
To be embraced, physically and mentally by your Master's
words, His touch, His actions, His whole being alone.
Although i heard those words, and felt the stinging pain
and cried for what seemed an eternity...
i also grew within that time, ...
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32 Votes
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Reply To: I'm Stupid 4/14/2004
Stupidity doesn't factor in here. It sounds as though
you are having great difficulty in accepting the fact that
your relationship with this man is over. You stated that
during the relationship he criticized you repeatedly
and wasn't a supportive and caring element in your
life. Sometimes in situations such as this it's helpful
to take stock and to access and define the relationship
the ...
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13 Votes
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Reply To "Why?" 4/14/2004
People who spilt up only to return to a past partner repeatedly
are engaged in perpetuating a pattern. This is typically
due to a lack of any real closure or an unwillingness on the
part of one or both partners (typically both) to realize
that they have long-term issues that may or may not be something
they can resolve. We see this in abusive relationships.
People will frequently wonder ...
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9 Votes
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HOW DO I BREAK IT OFF 4/14/2004
I've had an off and on relationship for the past couple
years and now she wants to take it to the next step and get
engauged. i do love her and i told her that i wanted to also,
even though i decided later that i didn't I'm just
not ready for that big of a step. i want to get out in the world
and explore more before i settle down later in life. i really
have no idea how to go about letting ...
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12 Votes
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A Lack Of Closure 4/13/2004
While I am very much aware that life is a classroom, some
lessons aren't pleasant and are in fact painful. Knew
there were risks when I got involved with my first real time
D/s relationship. Thought I had covered the bases but didn't
bank on being outright lied to about his marital status.
I am processing what happened but am having some difficulty
in that I am challenged in gaining any ...
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34 Votes
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