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Addicted to love 4/28/2004
So how many of you know what I am about to speak of before I
even start? I am in addict. There I've said it. I have
this problem with love you see, I love to fall in love. Most
of you would say there's no problem there who doesn't.
my problem is that I don't stay that way for long. I like
the newness of the feeling. I will swear up and down over
and over again, "This is it! I have found ...
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I need help 4/28/2004
I am a novice and in need of help. I want to get into the scene
but don't know where to start. I have been curious for
over 5 years now and I am ready to learn. Can anyone help me
out. I live in central Indiana
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RE: Homemade Toy Ideals 4/27/2004
Well fc, many toys can be made out of common household items.
Well, common to my household and sources but I don't
know your country, background or handyman skill level.
RESTRAINTS: Soft pliable leather restraints can be made
out of old work boots, riding boots, etc. (Source: thrift
store, yard sale, flea market): Cut off the top of the
boots, keeping all the leather from the foot part up ...
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Re: 24/7 - Why are there so many different view points? 4/26/2004
The Reason there are so many definitions to what a 24/7 involves
is because your talking to so many individuals. 24/7 is
what a couple makes it. What does 24/7 mean.. All it means
is your living w/ your other 1/2 24 hrs a day 7 days a week.
No One can tell you what 24/7 is for you. Only for them. There
are alot of people that like to say.. You have to Live by a
certain code otherwise ...
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Reply to: Any homemade toy ideas? 4/23/2004
I have lots of homemade toys in my bag. Go to http://alt.com
and check out their very easy instructions on how to create
toys. I've made floggers, paddles are simple (you
just gotta *look* when you go to a store... look at things
through kinky eyes  . Paddleball paddles are good &
stingy. Wide hairbrushes, pet brushes... home depot is
a dominant's best friend!
<br>
Good luck ...
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Reply to: Where do I go from here? 4/23/2004
Well, the fact that you're looking to your wife first
for what you're looking for is a definite plus! I would
start by showing her some websites that might interest
you, showing female dominants and male submissives. Hopefully,
you've got enough communication with your wife to
simply say 'This really turns me on and I'd like
us to try it'.
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She may just surprise the hell ...
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My Dildo Inventory 4/23/2004
If you like it naked - if you like to be seen naked - look at
mine and tell me what you thing--be honest and let me know
<br>
<br>
here something to get naked with-
<br>
My Dildo Inventory
>>One of my favorites cause it is so flexible, but
large ..
>>A 10-Inch Long latex smooth textured cock. It
has a fat head, fatter than
>>the shaft, ...
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Re: Can you understand I am not a switch, in the traditonal sense? 4/22/2004
I am not a switch by traditional Standards. I only Sub to
my Sir and bottom to him as well, but I will also bottom in
scening to those He & I trust. However he does bottom
to me on occaison but is never submissive to me. I only control
the scene.. NOT HIM.
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It sounds to me You like to TOP and Dominate your girl.. But
only like to Bottom in scening together w/ a good ...
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Men! Looking for a Domme? 4/20/2004
A few simple suggestions:
<br>
1) Learn how to write & spell properly. There's
nothing more annoying than to read an email that you have
to GUESS what they're saying because it's so badly
written.
<br>
2) Don't beg and don't insist that you're
the only true submissive. You're really not.
<br>
3) Before you offer your services, be sure they're
worth ...
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Strap On with A Man 4/20/2004
I am in a lesbian relationship and my partner is a dom. She
enjoys using her strap on with males. MY question is..Can
a man enjoy anal and still be straight? Whats your opinion?
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Easy Wax Removal from a Body 4/19/2004
Hi Everyone,
<br>
I thought i would pass this friendly advice along.
<br>
For those that are entering wax play are looking for a easier
way to remove wax from the body parts that are difficult
to remove wax from.. Try this: Apply a Lanolin Based Lotion(
any kind will do) and Generously apply to body parts that
will be waxed.. After wax is applied the wax will come ...
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Trading subs 4/19/2004
I've heard of Dom/mes trading or loaning out their
subs for an evening or weekend, and I was wondering how this
works. Is it necessary for both masters to have subs? Can
one master loan his sub, while the other master never shares?
I'd like to learn about this for scenes with my own sub.
Thanks for any advice.
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24/7 - Why are there so many different view points? 4/19/2004
Why do so many have altering view points about a 24/7 relationship?
Some believe that one has to be in Dominant mode and Submissve
mode all the time and if they don't, feel that that are
not part of the lifestyle. Yet others feel that it is not
necessary to feel this way all time as we are human and cannot
always be in this mode.
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I am finding that alot of people believe ...
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Female Doms for younger guys 4/17/2004
I was wondering if there were any female Dommes out there,
of all ages, that are interested in training a new young
(1 sub?? It seems like no one is interested in a younger
guy for some reason.
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Can you understand I am not a switch, in the traditonal sense? 4/16/2004
I am seeking a new term for myself, as we all try to find a catch
phrase to put us in a category that would help others understand
with minimal words who we are and what it is we want.
I came into this lifestyle many moons ago, and it was in a
non sexual role. My Master taught me about my mind, my body,
my thoughts and feelings, wants and desires, but he and
I never had sexual ...
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London Scene 4/13/2004
Where are places in London where S&M and bondage etc go on?
Preferably places with a younger crowd, and hetrosexual.
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Is it normal or am I too selfish ? 4/12/2004
Just want objective third party opinions on this.
I have a relationship. He is dominant in a very sexual way,
but he won't dominate me mentally. He sais he COULD
do that, but he won't because he has seen it with other
couples. It gets too intensive, they can't talk with
each other as equals anymore, etc etc.. Besides, he thinks
it is not normal anymore to get into 24/7.
<br>
...
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Looking for sources of blank leather and patterns for making restraint devices and toys. 4/11/2004
I am looking for sources to buy blank leather and patterns
for making restraint devices and toys. Any suggestions?
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Doing Your Homework 4/9/2004
First off, let me acknowledge that lightening does strike
and people do win the lotto. In this time of instant gratification
(or at least wanting it) computers that can automate the
most menial of tasks and at the same time open the whole world
to us, we have forgotten to do our homework. (Yeah, I know
I’m swearing.) Doing this is an investment. Informed investments
yield returns. ...
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I like pain,but I am scaired 4/9/2004
I have a chance to serve very nice, dominant girl!She is
sadistic mistress and she wants me to be her victim!I like
it, but I am not brave enough for the genital torture!She
has a strong wish to spank and strapon my dick and bals!Is
this so danegerous, as I think, or I can be a good slave
for my mistress!
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How can you finish a relationship, who is finished for more than 3 years? 4/8/2004
I have had a boyfriend for more than 2 years. That relationship
was ok, not the deepest i had.
But i still have a problem with this.......
We finished the relationship almost 4 years ago now, but
i still want sex with him, not love, i guess. He is often in
my mind and i imaging, how sex could be, with him.
I dont understand that. He wasn't my biggest love,
but i have no idea, why i ...
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Full cavity Search 4/7/2004
Dear friends,
I want to perform a full cavity search on an interested submissive.
I would like advice on how to to this correctly. Since I have
been a good lawbidding citizen, I am unfamiliar with this
procedure. Any books or magazines that would explain this?
Lance Ironhand
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"Annoyed No More!" 4/6/2004
Life is too precious to spend it being annoyed. The sooner
you move past being annoyed, the better each moment will
be.
If you find something annoying and it's something
you can change, then quickly take the necessary steps to
make it better. Redirect the negative energy of your annoyance
into making a useful and positive contribution to life.
<br>
When something annoys you that ...
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RE. Squirting and Gushing. 4/5/2004
I don't understand why other men would feel like that.
For me personally it is a huge turn on to know that my partner
is feeling good, by squirting/gushing. Don't feel
intimidated by this ignorant response by some men.
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Tutoring, Dominant-style! 4/4/2004
Tutoring, Dominant-style
by Demspotis
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This is an idea I've been working on for a while. While
many people may enjoy role-
playing teacher-pupil discipline "scenes",
what I'm talking about is a serious, some would
say "lifestyle", affair with real educational
intent, but with the added intensity and enjoyment
available to those who accept dominance and submission
in ...
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Honesty and All that Goes With This... 4/4/2004
To A/all who are asking the questions of "Why?"
"Why me?" and "Why can't I/i find
S/someone?" all can be answered with two eternal
factors. These are Truth and Honesty.
Most people really can't handle the truth. This is
why so M/many have disastrous encounters and/or relationships.
W/we can't seem to be honest with O/ourselves for whatever
reason. This *MUST* end.
Lack of Truth and ...
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Re: Sexless 4/4/2004
No sex in four 4 years? Hmmm. Ok, if you choose to have an affair,
only you can know how devastated your husband would be if
he found out about it ... But my immediate response to this
was to think, of course it's ok, after 4 years and counselling,
to look elsewhere for sex.
<br>
You have an alternative, of a kind, which is to introduce
your BDSM interests to your husband as ...
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"Letting Go" 4/2/2004
Letting go of discouragement is no more difficult than
holding on to it. And letting go is so much more empowering.
It takes an enormous amount of time, energy and attention
to remain bitter or angry or disillusioned. Let it go and
move on ahead. Whatever has happened is a matter of history.
Whatever is to come is a matter of choice.
<br>
Now is when you make that choice. Now is ...
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Today's Lesson (True Story) 3/29/2004
Today’s Lesson
A True Story by Lady Lee
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Today I learned something about myself. The one who refers
to herself as LadyLee. I met a couple that I have been talking
to for a while online, and who reside in Southern California.
They are Dom and Slave as a couple. I felt very comfortable
with him, as he was my main contact of the two. He ...
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Response to: selling my body 3/28/2004
I think it's more important to ask yourself if YOU have
a problem with what you did, and if you can continue to do
it. You are the only one who has to live with yourself and
your memories, so if others don't have a problem with
what you're doing, maybe that is because they are not
judging you. Or maybe they just aren't willing to tell
you what they really think because it may upset you. ...
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