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Anyone there! 5/10/2024
So out of date it’s not worth posting anything. Need to have a complete rethink on the whole Magazine.
1 Comments,
36 Views,
19 Votes
,0.88 Score
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my asshole 5/5/2024
After haveing a look at my asshole, do you think you would
fuck it?
1 Comments,
97 Views,
8 Votes
,3.94 Score
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What to do about the fakers? 12/4/2023
I am wondering how many others here find that there are oh
so many time wasting fakes around. The number of times I
engage with a woman for the first time, for the chat to become
quite deep, apparently building rapport. Then, 'pop'
she disappears never to respond again. The process can
take a few hours or days but my estimate is 95% of chats end
this way yet the 'person' behind ...
4 Comments,
32 Views,
6 Votes
,1.94 Score
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Meh 10/10/2023
When did the messenger stop letting new members message
people using points?
1 Comments,
30 Views,
26 Votes
,0.98 Score
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the nature of this site 2/10/2023
Members make this site. The behavior of members either
attract more members or offend people until they lose interest
and move to another site. Most people want to be honest and seek to find others who
are like minded. Some become members to purposely create
chaos, confusion, and enmity among site users. I encourage you to be honest. When you feel you are scammed,
spammed, misled, to report to ...
5 Comments,
59 Views,
25 Votes
,3.46 Score
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Site dead 12/6/2022
Why is the most recent post here over 2 weeks old?? That's
pathetic
1 Comments,
53 Views,
46 Votes
,1.01 Score
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How Do You Tell Someone Your Kinks? 11/20/2022
Say you're in a new relationship. How do you let the
other person know about your kinks?
2 Comments,
60 Views,
39 Votes
,1.12 Score
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I revisit the Naughty 90's (Keep rocking!!) 8/17/2022
Lollapalooza. <br><br>
<br><br>
<br><br>
I can hardly remember many things I did during my time attending
concerts, but some were more delicious than others. <br><br>
<br><br>
<br><br>
For a time, in the early 90's; I followed the Grateful
Dead (gratefully before the passing of Jerry Garcia).
During those shows the ...
0 Comments,
42 Views,
28 Votes
,1.39 Score
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Always 7/14/2022
Is it me or does some other men are always hard most of the
day. Sometimes i feel I cant control this beast!
1 Comments,
51 Views,
34 Votes
,1.26 Score
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Help 4 Helps Sake 5/13/2022
My name is sara brown and i class
myself as a trained House Slave, trained by Don Brown, a
member of Alt for decades but now rarely appears but still
has the Domestic Discipline UK room. <br><br>
He trained me for almost 18 months and i learnt and recorded
lots. Any newbie girl sub/slave needing help or advice, please
do not hesitate to ask, its what i am on ...
8 Comments,
200 Views,
43 Votes
,3.01 Score
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Needing advice 4/13/2022
A few years ago, I was messaging a guy on site, he asked for
my number and not understanding what can be discovered
through a cell number, I gave him mine. He wanted to meet,
and I was amenable, I made arrangements to meet, and we were
texting when he suddenly called me a liar, I had not lied,
then up pops my full name and address? I was scared, I don't
know if his photo or anything he had ...
4 Comments,
103 Views,
24 Votes
,1.88 Score
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Words have meaning: Shibari is not Sadistic Rope 3/2/2022
I suppose all things are relative; if you allow them to be.
<br><br>
I have a new slave that wrote down that she is curious about
being a bottom to a rigger. She used terms found online or
in some , but had never been a model nor had she seen a
rigger work. So, it was left to to be a teacher for a few
moments and I don't like teaching anything to anyone
anymore. ...
0 Comments,
54 Views,
28 Votes
,1.29 Score
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Followed members 2/19/2022
Does anyone know how to delete guys you started following
but find they are no longer of interest or have left the site.
2 Comments,
47 Views,
26 Votes
,1.52 Score
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most dangerous enemies 1/8/2022
Good evening everyone, and I hope those who read my blog
will be admired. Today we are talking about the transformations
of the Corona Virus, Covid-, the disease that has baffled
the world and scientists. The mystery of the mutant has
become. The emerging corona virus disease has become every
year a new mutant with different names. Mutate and does
a new mutant appear every year with a new name? ...
1 Comments,
26 Views,
19 Votes
,1.94 Score
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most dangerous enemies 1/8/2022
Good evening everyone, and I hope those who read my blog
will be admired. Today we are talking about the transformations
of the Corona Virus, Covid-, the disease that has baffled
the world and scientists. The mystery of the mutant has
become. The emerging corona virus disease has become every
year a new mutant with different names. Mutate and does
a new mutant appear every year with a new name? ...
0 Comments,
26 Views,
20 Votes
,1.98 Score
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Calling out false profiles 11/27/2021
Everyone here knows that alt is overrun both by people using
photographs that are not of them, and by people running
scams. Often both at the same time. Alerting other members
that a profile seems questionable isn't a bad thing-
I have done it myself. What's troublesome is a few people
that seem to spend hours a day launching constant attacks
on just about every new profile that shows . I ...
5 Comments,
81 Views,
28 Votes
,2.52 Score
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With the cold season, Corona waves began to increase in numbers 11/22/2021
My dear friends, thank you all to everyone who read my blog.
I have been away from you for a long time and came back today
to write again about the topic of the virus that has baffled
the world, the Corona virus and its developments. The world
is around from morning experiences. Disease is a reality
and will not disappear. It will exist like any disease such
as heart, diabetes, etc. etc. I wrote ...
2 Comments,
30 Views,
18 Votes
,1.21 Score
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what do you do? 9/8/2021
what do you do to get around the crappy messenger and the
lack of assistance on this website?
1 Comments,
38 Views,
17 Votes
,1.99 Score
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How do you deal? 8/12/2021
How do you deal with this website being as insufferable
as its been?
5 Comments,
41 Views,
20 Votes
,1.21 Score
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What to do? 7/26/2021
What do people usually do on here when the messenger tends
to act dumb and not messages?
0 Comments,
23 Views,
15 Votes
,0.83 Score
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Can a sadist and a masacist change roles 7/4/2021
I ran into a sub on this site who started
to tell me how a play session with him would go. I am wondering
if it 's possible that a top can be a masacist and a bottom
a sadist. Could the top then dominate the bottom to fulfill
his need to be hurt and if a sub would be able to fulfill his
duties as a slave / submissive. <br><br>
[/SIZE]...
1 Comments,
53 Views,
21 Votes
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sugar daddy ??? help ! 5/12/2021
please help me someone <br><br>
I need some advice. I have a man wanting to be my .
I have to admit the idea is just a little more than intriguing.
<br><br>
what he wants from me is unlimited sex, I mean any hole he
wants, two or three times a month and he said he will be very
generous. <br><br>
well I have not said no yet. we have had lunch twice and talked ...
4 Comments,
118 Views,
24 Votes
,1.20 Score
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Should or Not 4/7/2021
Should I hooked up with a neighbor is married and
been giving me hints?
3 Comments,
32 Views,
12 Votes
,0.15 Score
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Old photos and videos 2/10/2021
My wife died a few years ago now. I have watched the videos
we made together many times since and looked at the photographs.
Now, what to do with them, I have copied some onto an encrypted
memory stick, and edited the videos down to just a few seconds
of the best bits and put them on the stick as well. I have destroyed
the originals, the photos were prints, the videos were
VHS. I felt sad doing ...
0 Comments,
57 Views,
20 Votes
,0.32 Score
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Favourite sex toy 1/30/2021
What's your favourite sex toy? Either for yourself
or for using on others.
0 Comments,
21 Views,
11 Votes
,1.67 Score
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Alternative payment methods 11/21/2020
I and considering returning to paying status after a long
time without, but I have a question-if anyone has an answer
it would be appreciated. I don't use plastic and refuse
to give any corporate entity open access to my accounts
since almost everyone has the clause stating they will
auto renew you unless you remember the date to cancel a year
from now. Does anyone know if a prepaid credit ...
5 Comments,
70 Views,
19 Votes
,1.28 Score
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social distance 6/22/2020
It is getting harder for people to hold to the social distancing,
the longer this goes.
1 Comments,
17 Views,
10 Votes
,1.39 Score
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thongs 6/6/2020
i don/t know why but i was given a pink thong to wear today, this
has been most uncomfortable feeling like a strin g in my
crack all day while working.any ideas about getting used
to it or is this always going to feel like this.now i have
to go put on the dress that i've been given, hope it
fits
9 Comments,
123 Views,
44 Votes
,0.04 Score
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God, remove the calamity and the epidemic 5/8/2020
The third chapter is one of the most dangerous enemies of
humankind, because of the danger of disease for humanity.
Can we help answer the basic questions that will come to
mind? Is this virus from human makers? As for the creator,
there are many questions. What is a biological war? We see
some accusations between some countries that I see as a
seasonal disease. Like the flu, it appears in the ...
1 Comments,
29 Views,
19 Votes
,0.88 Score
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New normal 4/25/2020
What do you think the new normal will be once this settles
down? Will it be anything close to the way it used to be?
0 Comments,
7 Views,
6 Votes
,0.80 Score
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Free Gold 4/6/2020
Wouldn't it be nice if ALT gave everyone a free one-month
gold membership to encourage us all to stay home right now
and talk online? Or maybe to just drop for a month?
0 Comments,
10 Views,
6 Votes
,0.80 Score
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Writing on a Sub's Body 2/11/2020
Supplies You In order to write words on your slave, all you are
markers, an eyeliner pencil, lipstick, or any other
writing tool. These tools will allow for writing on the
skin, and they can then be washed off after a scene. In
cases, you might ask the slave not wash the words off,
and to ensure this to be the case, you might use permanent
markers, which will wash off, but not immediately. ...
8 Comments,
150 Views,
67 Votes
,1.75 Score
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The working Class. 1/27/2020
Has anyone worked for an employer that constantly abuse
their power? If you have, how did you over come it, and what
was your end result?
5 Comments,
58 Views,
31 Votes
,0.94 Score
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Spot the fake Dommes... 1/4/2020
Any members were around a few years ago might remember
how badly the IM was plagued with fake profiles. By fake
profiles, I mean ones where the member is using a fake alias
to get your personal information and/or . While the plague has relatively subsided, here are some
signs that your chatty new friend might be a scammer, specifically
dominant female profiles that target the male subs that
make ...
8 Comments,
147 Views,
44 Votes
,1.01 Score
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Happy Submissive Saturday 12/7/2019
To all the kittens, brats littles, subs & slaves, make
a subtle effort, be a beacon by gracefully catching the
attention of your prospective Doms/Dommes. The World
of the Contemporary Populous/Vanilla can be murky at best
most of the time, polluted with dime-store-Doms/Dommes,
self perceived intrinsic submissives and a whole lot of
ethnocentric hypocrisy & scrutiny. Because of this,
it ...
1 Comments,
26 Views,
17 Votes
,2.56 Score
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Request of all ALT users, Boycott further payments to ALT until site is fixed. 11/1/2019
A growing number of ALT users have a request of everybody
who uses this website. <br><br>
The request is to All ALT users, to Boycott further payments
to ALT until site is fixed. <br><br>
Here is a Poll where 19 people have voted in favor of the boycott.
<br><br>
Do you agree that all Gold and Silver members should cancel any further payments? Do you agree that all Gold and Silver
members should cancel any further ...
9 Comments,
141 Views,
51 Votes
,2.90 Score
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Cheating 11/1/2019
Is anyone else there actively pursing this life style
while cheating on their spouse? Was just looking
with others are in that situation and how they deal with
it.
15 Comments,
198 Views,
71 Votes
,3.68 Score
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looking for new site 10/20/2019
this has gone over the top we need to find something new this
site keeping charging everyone points for just chatting
8 Comments,
91 Views,
32 Votes
,3.15 Score
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Points 10/5/2019
I need points
0 Comments,
3 Views,
2 Votes
,4.50 Score
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Points 9/26/2019
Just posting for points
1 Comments,
4 Views,
2 Votes
,3.12 Score
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Points 9/26/2019
Just posting for points
0 Comments,
7 Views,
3 Votes
,3.92 Score
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Points 9/26/2019
Just posting for points
0 Comments,
1 Views,
1 Votes
,5.00 Score
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ALL ALT USERS BE AWARE OF CURRENT SITE FAULTS. 9/24/2019
ALL ALT USERS BE AWARE OF CURRENT SITE FAULTS. <br><br>
Here are a list of Polls you can find in the community section,
that clearly show there are many serious issues with the
site. <br><br>
Not only are services failing but over charging on credit
cards is occurring for users who pay for gold or silver membership.
<br><br>
False advertising is occurring on ...
20 Comments,
288 Views,
91 Votes
,2.46 Score
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when 9/2/2019
i been looking for someone to meet. a woman that is into the
most dirty kinky stuff you can find.... its good to bring
your kinky side so you can share with other and get to
meet new people that are into new thing there alot of other
woman there that are into very nasty kinky stuff but
too shy to speak .....
2 Comments,
24 Views,
13 Votes
,3.14 Score
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The Biggest Mistake a Kinkster Can Make 8/9/2019
One mistake many people make when first experimenting
with BDSM is relying on one person to show them the way. Even
if they do have your best interest at heart (and they might
not), it can be limiting to only have one perspective on
something that is so multidimensional, says Thorn. Instead,
seek out books, workshops, meet-ups, mentors, friends,
message boards, and more to find a safe ...
7 Comments,
225 Views,
44 Votes
,3.60 Score
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THE REAL 7/7/2019
A REAL Master will not boast about his "greatness"
but will show you. A REAL Master has no need to shout, scream, or yell but can
command attention with a whisper. A REAL Master has character and by His actions shows He is
worthy regardless of whether or not He is in BDSM. A REAL Master abides by a code of Honor. A REAL Master understands He is not perfect and will
make ...
7 Comments,
83 Views,
21 Votes
,4.24 Score
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I need a sex Patnar 6/5/2019
Same routine is over I’m getting sick and tired of the same bullshit routine
with my husband every . I need a different cock to pound my ass all night long because this same shit every
is literally killing . I’m so stressed that my love life is this messed up.Contact Here:http://alt.com
1 Comments,
9 Views,
1 Votes
,3.70 Score
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OK, So now what? 4/21/2019
Say you find someone on here you have a connection with,
"seem" legit and all. Anyone who has been successful
in meeting someone on here, what was the first step for you
to move things to the next level?
0 Comments,
3 Views,
0 Votes
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Fakes 2/14/2019
Seems like there should be a helpful list of finding fake
accounts since there are a lot on here. Or least tips on
how to notice one. <br><br>
There are a lot of signs. 1. If they are from Aldershot, United Kingdom <br><br>
2. If they don't know how you use the word "I"
as in "I am a fake" and put "Am a fake"
2 Comments,
13 Views,
3 Votes
,3.92 Score
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Positive words to describe yourself: 12/26/2018
Positive words to describe yourself: 1. Able <br><br>
I am able to handle multiple tasks on a daily basis. <br><br>
2. Creative I use a creative approach to problem solve. <br><br>
3. Dependable I am a dependable person who is great at time management.
<br><br>
4. Energetic I am always energetic and eager to learn new skills. <br><br>
5. ...
1 Comments,
6 Views,
1 Votes
,3.70 Score
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How To Be Successful With Chat 11/4/2018
Has anyone had much success with chat? I currently don't
have gold, and probably won't until I relocate to a
bigger city, so in the mean time chat is really the only way
to communicate. However, most messages never get read,
and if they do people usually don't reply. When you
can't read the person's profile it is hard to be
unique since you don't really have anything to ...
4 Comments,
55 Views,
25 Votes
,3.91 Score
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Q&A to a Dom 8/11/2018
I will try and take your questions one at a time: <br><br>
What do you want from your submissive? Well the want is where
we meet in the middle. What I seek from my submissive is movement
through reflection and action. We move together. I have
found some who do not truly have a submissive nature or soul
do not move, they are stuck in a stereotype, or just want
a certain sex act. A ...
0 Comments,
6 Views,
1 Votes
,2.40 Score
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What is the secret to finding a good Mistress on this site that is not looking for your money 4/7/2018
I was wondering what everyone's experience is on this
site finding a dom. On here that didn't want i-tunes cards upfront as a
form of a tribute
3 Comments,
32 Views,
2 Votes
,2.42 Score
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CUT AND PASTE FOR SCAMMERS 3/22/2018
EVERY DAY on ALT.COM several million scammers are seeking
YOU out.! <br><br>
Does YOUR profile make you seem NEEDY ? <br><br>
<br><br>
As a PRO DOM who YES. makes a financial living from this lifestyle.
let me explain what I mean .. <br><br>
LOOK AT YOUR PROFILE , And I mean REALLY LOOK at it .. ...
4 Comments,
55 Views,
13 Votes
,4.82 Score
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When you look good enough to eat 6/27/2017
Having just read a profile that was "Looking for a
Funyuns single guy to join us", I realised it was time
to check my own profile for obvious mistakes like missing
the opportunity to point out that I too can be a razor sharp
yet tasty snack that cosmetically resembles unfried onion
rings.
Let me know if you fancy a nibble?
3 Comments,
40 Views,
8 Votes
,3.71 Score
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? GH 5/24/2017
is the gloryhole I place to hide and release without knowing
for real what to evpect
2 Comments,
38 Views,
6 Votes
,3.93 Score
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scammers 4/22/2017
again , GHANA chicks get off of here , we dont want to be scammed
6 Comments,
41 Views,
11 Votes
,4.29 Score
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scammers 4/22/2017
again , GHANA chicks get off of here , we dont want to be scammed
4 Comments,
17 Views,
3 Votes
,5.39 Score
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hello 4/20/2017
whats up all, i got rid of the scammers from me, i hope they
stay away
0 Comments,
8 Views,
5 Votes
,2.82 Score
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hey all 4/20/2017
please report any girls from ghana there trying to scam
u
3 Comments,
19 Views,
8 Votes
,3.71 Score
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hey all 4/19/2017
lvesslve 33F New York, NY 231 mile
This girl says she from new york, suprise suprise, she is
in ghana looking for hand outs
2 Comments,
14 Views,
3 Votes
,0.98 Score
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alt.com peeps, 4/18/2017
i figured out, who the scammers, are, there the girls, that
always ask u to email them , and when u do, ... i havent eaten
in a week, ... wow , really, then u would be dead if that was
the case, but you have the money to have gold membership
on here.
GRRRR this pisses me off
2 Comments,
23 Views,
5 Votes
,4.45 Score
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alt.com peeps, 4/17/2017
Is anyone else , have to keep hitting the refresh button,
for this site? i have had to do it, 20 times already?
1 Comments,
10 Views,
4 Votes
,3.25 Score
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instant messages 4/16/2017
When you are talking to someone, and the bottom of the im
box says this personn your talking to is typing back to you,
but nothing comes through, ? what does this mean?
3 Comments,
26 Views,
3 Votes
,4.41 Score
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BuY ME PHONE PLEASE 4/12/2017
alt.com peeps, we are not here to buy you phones, , we are
here for the world, of love, and fantasy...
The next one of you hit me up and ask me for a new cell phone,
i will send hounds of hell after you, ....Well ifi knew where
they were.
Please respect people
0 Comments,
10 Views,
2 Votes
,3.12 Score
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Tips for sub males seeking a FLR 3/8/2017
Compared to how it was for us pre-Internet folks, today’s
scene is an embarrassment of riches.
Even so, due to the fact that sub men outnumber Dominant
Women probably 10:1 (if not 50:1), finding a Female Led
Relationship can be difficult. So men, like anything else
in life, you need to “sell” yourself.
How do you do this?
First make sure you have a kickass profile ...
1 Comments,
67 Views,
7 Votes
,5.08 Score
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just something everyone should know 1/24/2017
'Revenge porn' i*****l under new UK law 13 October 2014 From the section Technology Revenge porn concept imageImage copyrightPA Image caption The distribution of images and videos can be reported directly
to the police People who post so-called "revenge porn" pictures
and videos on the internet could face two years in jail under
a new law. The new Criminal Justice and Courts Bill will have an ...
0 Comments,
13 Views,
3 Votes
,4.41 Score
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Introducing FLR 12/28/2016
When my boyfriend first brought up the subject of Female
Led Relationships or FLR for short, I was very put off by
it. But then as time went by, I slowly became more open to
the idea and now nearly two years later, I've come to
like this. We met on a site very similar to this one, we talked for about
6 months and then in April of 2015 we met for the first time.
A few weeks after our first date, ...
6 Comments,
89 Views,
12 Votes
,4.04 Score
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Older guys beware 10/24/2016
There is a scam going on here on this site! It's mostly younger women looking for older men. Have as much fun as
you want chatting with them, but do NOT give any personally
identifiable info. They will want you to chat with them
on Yahoo Messenger--DO NOT DO THAT!!! it is has to do with
the Yahoo security breach ! There is IM on this website,
and also messaging, keep to that. DO NOT GO TO Yahoo ...
4 Comments,
64 Views,
11 Votes
,6.16 Score
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Masturbation & Edging. 6/28/2016
I really love to masturbate, the release is very nice i
always fall asleep afterwards, buit what is edging and
how do i incorporate it into my masturbation session, any
help would be appriciated.Thanks.
2 Comments,
77 Views,
10 Votes
,5.38 Score
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Slave training. The beginning! 4/13/2016
I'm order to fully control a slave both in mind, spirit
and body you must first break there need for sexual gratification
in other words you must restrict their need to masturbate.
The best method for this in a female slave is by a leather
chastity belt and very close monitoring (a slave will always
try to outwit her owner but gyratiory movements aimed at
self stimulation) and by harsh ...
3 Comments,
116 Views,
8 Votes
,4.41 Score
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I have decided I'm little now what. 3/29/2016
I Irecently decided I'm "little" Any books
, sites, people to talk to about this will be greatly appreciated Anything hat will help me on my journey Thanks
for listening.
5 Comments,
70 Views,
5 Votes
,3.80 Score
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How Do I Become an "Experienced" Dom 2/4/2016
I originally posted this in a group, but maybe it's
better as an article.
I built a profile on this site because I have realized, based
on past relationships, that I need a submissive woman who
wants a man to take control. However, I've seen a lot
of interesting sub profiles that are looking only for an
"experienced" Dom. How does one go about getting
experience? I'm not looking for a ...
0 Comments,
71 Views,
2 Votes
,3.81 Score
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Importance of checklists 12/14/2015
Found in my years in the D/s realm that BDSM checklists are
more than a conversation starter and have been a great help.
Some subs claim they are well versed in this lifestyle (yes,
some Doms as well) and through open conversation that checklists
provide, some awkward moments have been squashed leading
to more enjoyment which is something we all should craving.
0 Comments,
77 Views,
7 Votes
,4.57 Score
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how to be prepared to be sodomized 11/21/2015
I would like to be sodomized by a woman with a strapon, but
i've never been sodomized before
I would like to have some advices about how to be prepared.
Or do Mistressess usually prefer sodomizing a "virgin"
man ?
than you
4 Comments,
156 Views,
7 Votes
,3.80 Score
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Ever Since my flu. 7/25/2015
A few weeks ago I got a summer flu that was going around the
office. I felt like a train ran over me. But ever since I have
gotten over it I just don't feel as horny as I do almost
every day. Has anyone else felt this way before after being
sick with the flu? Most times i just bounce right back and
feel horny.
3 Comments,
38 Views,
3 Votes
,0.98 Score
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petite women 7/15/2015
What is it about petite women that is so enticing. I have
been into them since grade school. I think its the femininity
of them. They are like forbidden fruit. I humor some men
when I tell them I prefer women who are 4-11 to 5-2. Some say
they prefer tall women. For me tall women are not as feminine.
They are not as cuddly and they are huge in bed. Its just a
preference. I just wonder if other ...
5 Comments,
61 Views,
9 Votes
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mistress for you 5/28/2015
if you want to explore bdsm world with the best mistress,
contact me and lets get things started.
4 Comments,
110 Views,
6 Votes
,3.08 Score
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Finding a 24/7/365 TPE Mistress 10/20/2014
Why is it so hard to find a mistress that believes you really
want to leave your vanilla life and live the rest of it in
total servitude as a submissive slave, sex slave, slut, sissy
whatever she wants to turn you into and live the rest of your
life worshiping her and trying to make her proud and happy
with you is there any Dom's out there really looking
for a slave of there own to keep as a pet ...
0 Comments,
43 Views,
1 Votes
,1.10 Score
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Satin lingerie fettish 7/31/2014
Hi all am a single straight male who is totally obsessed
with satin lingerie all I think of is dressing up in satin
247 seven days a week I even go to work in satin under my work
gear .ever chance I can am wearing women's lingerie
hi heels silk or satin Dresses satin night were . Ave more
women's clothes then men's. Ever time I go shopping
I always come home with stockings. Ave bin this way 30+ ...
0 Comments,
94 Views,
3 Votes
,2.45 Score
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Not Another Primary Photo Dick Pic 6/28/2014
(PreScript: This advice is intended for submissive males
seeking to serve a truly Dominant woman. Ladies: I love
your pussies, all of them, but the advice below can really
be applied to them as well. If you're only looking to
hook up, to fuck, to hit-and-run. . . by all means, parade
your parts.) -----------------
You've listed yourself as a male on your profile. I
assume that if you ...
3 Comments,
118 Views,
12 Votes
,5.63 Score
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This lifestyle 6/8/2014
I have been in this lifestyle for 30 years. To those experienced
this wont be new to you but to the newbies here goes. This
is a wonderful lifestyle it is based on trust and honesty.
One has to be very careful in this in that some people who
are fake hide behind it in order to hurt people. Its who they
are . They figure they can do what they want to who they want
because someone in this lifestyle ...
0 Comments,
80 Views,
2 Votes
,3.81 Score
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Adding a new profile photo 5/31/2014
I've been trying to add a new profile photo for days
now. Every time I try it goes into a new folder called other
photos. If I move it, it appears to move, but says pending
approval and ends up back in other photos.
Any ideas?
cheers' Quill
0 Comments,
15 Views,
1 Votes
,2.40 Score
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Bee stings 2/8/2014
Last night i had a dream of having my Milky udders tied up
and a dom/mistress using bee's to sting my nipples.
I woke up very very wet from that dream. I was wondering if
anyone has used bee's in real life to do that
5 Comments,
77 Views,
6 Votes
,2.80 Score
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SCAMMERS 10/5/2012
I hate them, they usually appear as blondes, from russia,
they shit me.
1 Comments,
77 Views,
15 Votes
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Getting points back 10/5/2012
I wanted to know what people thought about receiving spam?
I believe that if we have spent time accumulating points
and then using the points to contact someone who turns out
to be a spammer that alt should return those points, do you
agree?
3 Comments,
25 Views,
10 Votes
,1.39 Score
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scammers 10/3/2012
Im sick of people caliming to be from a country like Autralia
and then when you spend all the time contacting them they
end up comming from Russia or someother fucking country.
I believe that if this happens ALT should return our sacrificed
points for the fuck around, what do you think?
0 Comments,
26 Views,
8 Votes
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Last Online Status! 10/1/2012
I'm new, but my general advice article would be that
we all get together and advocate this site to show, and sort
by, "last time online" status in search results.
Especially since you gotta be paid member to even look at
a full profile and see it. I noticed lotsa short profile for descriptions where person
said "I'm 22" or whatever, but their age
is now 29, and who knows how long since they ...
1 Comments,
22 Views,
0 Votes
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watersports 8/16/2012
I have never tried the whole area of watersports before.
It has always intrigued me quite a bit but not sure if its
exactly up my alley or not. Is there anything I can do to know
if I would like it before I just jump in to a stream of it
2 Comments,
106 Views,
3 Votes
,3.43 Score
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working up 7/12/2012
I don't get fucked all that much and so really like it
when I do. My problem is that I can't take a huge cock
up my ass when I'm "out of practice". It
takes some time with dildoes, etc. to stretch me out before
I'm ready. Would prestretching my ass before meeting
help? Has anyone tried that? Or shopuld I just explain to
the top how tight I am?
Thanks!
2 Comments,
65 Views,
1 Votes
,1.10 Score
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Professional D/s photo's 6/9/2012
Ok...the word PROFFESIONAL in the article is the clue here
and NO owning a camera with a fancy flash doesn't qualify...lmao
I've been trying to find a great professional photographer
to get some good quality shots done...Google hits return
porn...all very lovely BUT lol...would appriciate any
advice/links for reputable photographers with a proven
track record and good recommendations, ...
3 Comments,
62 Views,
6 Votes
,3.08 Score
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The Mental Aspects of Submission 5/18/2012
The Mental Aspect of Submission By MJ Reldan TheSmartDom
Much time and space is spent on the discussion of the physical
aspects of a potential BDSM connection. Yet NOTHING happens
without the mind's full-hearted consent. It’s
important that you know that I know this.
Conventional vanilla sex is usually understood to require
the mind's participation. It is commonly recognized ...
2 Comments,
138 Views,
10 Votes
,4.78 Score
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Looking for help 9/13/2011
Hello, Here is my question, does anyone know where I can find a place
to meet people in the lifestyle, that my wife would not really
get the impression right off the bat that, that is where
we were. I've brought up the idea of checking out a local
munch or going to some of the industrial themed night clubs
in the city, but she is uninterested in large crowds. She
has told me she would be more ...
0 Comments,
32 Views,
0 Votes
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Training a new sub 7/30/2011
I am about to start a relationship with a new sub. I wondered
if anyone had ever bothered to document a structured training
regime to lead her through her training? I know the instant
answer is that everyone is different so please let’s
not get sidetracked on that. Many of the things I want to
introduce her to are repeatable in any relationship, from
light bondage and spanking onwards. I want ...
1 Comments,
270 Views,
10 Votes
,2.19 Score
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Should i just walk away? 7/18/2011
Ok so lately ive been doing alot of thinking. I love the thought
of the BDSM life style, its on my mind all the time. I get turned
on by the thought of being tied-up, wearing sexy outfits,
serving a mistress etc. My biggest fantasy is being sissified
by a mistress. But im now in a 2 year relationship which is
going really well, im crazy about the girl but she doesn't
share my interest in BDSM. ...
1 Comments,
215 Views,
3 Votes
,3.43 Score
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So What Kind of Sub Are You? The Elements of Submission 6/14/2011
The BDSM community seems to know what it means when it says
Dom and sub to each other. Yet a look at the forums and groups
on line show how much those definitions are really up for
discussion. It is important for you as a sub to know how you
feel and more importantly what about the way you feel should
and can be communicated to a potential play mate. Very important.
What goes into the makeup of a ...
0 Comments,
243 Views,
22 Votes
,2.65 Score
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How do you carry on...? 5/23/2011
Greetings boys and Girls...perhaps you can help me...?
I am in a relationship and we very much enjoy playing Dom/sub
games. When I dominate my little sub male I can keep him on
edge for hours at a time while I tease, torture, humiliate
and degrade him in the most imaginative ways possible...but
I'm having a little problem with the scene endings,
and not in the usual way.
...
1 Comments,
134 Views,
7 Votes
,2.28 Score
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Boom 2/18/2011
Whitehouse Hotline This is the Whitehouse Hot Line please enter one for English
or two for Spanish. Thank you! Please for World Affairs press one! For World Economics’ press two For Civil Rights press three For Veteran Affairs press four For all other problems press “O” Your call is important to us, your call will be answered
in the order it was received, please stay on the line, while
you ...
1 Comments,
20 Views,
2 Votes
,1.73 Score
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Power Shifting --- using anal sex 2/1/2011
This is a borderline sex story, but hopefully I will illustrate
how I came to be Dominant after being the 'lesser'
(albeit marginally) for the first time sexually.
It was unintentional Power Shifting to be sure, but a good
lesson learned.
...and a lifestyle created, hopefully I can help others.
It was 2000 or so, late twenties for me. New area, new job
etc.
Met ...
2 Comments,
231 Views,
5 Votes
,5.75 Score
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Pleasing My Asshole/Anal Flower 1/16/2011
My anal flower needs some TLC for 10-15 minutes. Finger
the crevise of my ass, brush more than one finger over opening.
A partner can stretch open my asshole and see what can be
put inside.
0 Comments,
18 Views,
0 Votes
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- Gained a Sub, Lost a Sub - 12/12/2010
Hello,
I met someone on alt, and they were good.
I got frustrated with the way things were going and did something
stupid.
I believe part of the issue is they were under stress for
various reasons, were going from sub to switch mode, were
topping from the bottom - maintaining they were sub, but
actually wanted to be in control.
They have broken off ...
1 Comments,
167 Views,
1 Votes
,2.40 Score
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man wanting 2 suck cock and swallow cum, but no takers. 11/6/2010
i have been trying 4 a long time to fall on my knees and take
a big cock in my mouth and suck it til it shoots a big load down
my throat. i cant get anyone to take advantage of me, why??
i am willing to do anything for someone to please them. i
just want to know what it feels like to be one of those girls
in the pornos. i always want to be them when i watch and i get
the most turned on when i see ...
3 Comments,
218 Views,
7 Votes
,3.55 Score
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Panty Sniffing/Face Sitting/Smothering Advice 9/13/2010
Ahhhh, the sweet smell of pussy and ass. I absolutely love the smell of a hot pussy and ass right above
my face. When you spend a lot of time sniffing panties or
being facesat you really start to fall in love with the smells
that come with it. Facesitting means your face is generally
buried in pussy and ass, so you get a taste and a smell of that
and you are instantly in the pleasure zone. ...
2 Comments,
187 Views,
10 Votes
,5.77 Score
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Dom/Slave relationship 5/21/2010
What happens when the relationship changes? When love
enters the scene? The entire dynamic of the relationship
is thrown out the window? I love the new attention but miss
much of what I came into this relationship for. Darned if
I do and ..... private responses are welcome, thanks
0 Comments,
121 Views,
0 Votes
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Threat of STDs in the bi community. 3/24/2010
I am new to the scene and can't help but wonder what the
situation, STD wise, is like. Is it a problem or is it uncommon?
0 Comments,
31 Views,
1 Votes
,2.40 Score
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looking for advice on meeting ppl online 3/16/2010
Okay so im only 21, ive had this profile for a few months now,
but i havent gotten any progress can anyone please help
me meet some people on here in my area... maybe give me some
pointers on things to say or do and such?
1 Comments,
99 Views,
1 Votes
,2.40 Score
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HOT GAY MEN SEX WITH HOT TIPS ESPECIALLY A UNDERWEAR FETISH 3/15/2010
1) Speak with your partner about each other's fantasies.
Yes! If you know what your partner likes, then you will know
how to exactly satify him in the sack. Don't try guessing
as this may lead to aggravation on both sides. If he has an
underwear fetish. Get home from work, surprise him by stripping
down on your finest pair of briefs, flip him over your knee
and spank him as he admires the buldge ...
1 Comments,
59 Views,
4 Votes
,2.86 Score
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SUBMISSIVE VERSUS SLAVE 3/9/2010
When does a submissive become a slave? I mean at what point?
Is it based on the time they spend submitting, that is to
say if they are submissive 24/7 are you therefore a slave?
Is it based on the level of submission, if you have limits
can you ever be a slave?
If you are submissive with no limits are you automatically
a slave?
I am interested in the definative answer ...
3 Comments,
213 Views,
6 Votes
,5.07 Score
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want to write better? 2/26/2010
I write a lot here and i have found that a new writing site
has helped me get better with my writing. It nationalwriter.org.
You can post articals and and get advice on writing. As we all know the more you writer here the more you earn points
to get stuff but if you are not writing well no one wants to
read your stuff. take a look at nationalwriter.org i hope
i spelt it right
1 Comments,
59 Views,
4 Votes
,2.47 Score
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New To LifeStyle Question 2/22/2010
I have decided to step into the lifestyle and have a submissive
side. In my vanilla world I am in management and have seen
a bit of life. I have been approched by a Domme who after a
few emails, no real contact yet, and she is requesting that
I show my devotion by sending her cash. I have yet to see a
picture and have no doubt that if I were under the control
of a Domme I would seek financially ...
2 Comments,
47 Views,
3 Votes
,2.45 Score
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quick ? 1/29/2010
ok so me and a couple of people i know were debating if sex
helps u stay in shape. Some say yes some say no.
I say yes because sex provides good cardio and if u have the
right stamina can work up a sweat and burn calories whats
ur opinion people?
0 Comments,
19 Views,
0 Votes
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NO DRAMA ! 11/16/2009
What dose it mean when some-one
say's NO DRAMA!" To mo me it states that
you should not have any emotional issues. Maybe
I am Wrong, but can you tell me of any-one who doesn't
have any emotions! I feel that the statement "NO
Drama", is used by people who them-selves
'can not' deal with their own issues,
let alone someone Else's. I ...
1 Comments,
59 Views,
3 Votes
,1.96 Score
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New York Dominatrix 10/23/2009
I'm currently in NYC and would love any info on a good
dominatrix in the area. Has anyone on here had any good experiences.
Any names you can throw at me would be greatly appreciated.
0 Comments,
47 Views,
0 Votes
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Can you answer this? 10/16/2009
Its just a question, a discussion... Thats all.
Why is it that in the last 60 to 80 years, it is unacceptable
and there are laws against marriage to a girl, when
all through history it was normal, and acceptable. Thats
how life has been for thousands of years, but just in recent
history has that became not acceptable. Like some idlest
is pushing off there beliefs on the rest of the ...
2 Comments,
116 Views,
9 Votes
,0.43 Score
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Thoughts on the DD/g dynamic 9/20/2009
There is a misunderstanding about submissives that is
very apparent here on alt. Now that I can see profiles, I
have read about those wishing to "train" and
"be trained".
The actual fact of the matter is that a submissive is a submissive.
The role of the Dominant is simply one of a catalyst. His
presence sparks the flame, but He is only the outward encouragement
of her journey to her ...
0 Comments,
159 Views,
13 Votes
,4.99 Score
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Am I living in reality with my ideas? 7/12/2009
Hi and thanks for taking the time to read this and maybe respond.
I've put up an ad seeking "employment"
as a housekeeper with benefits. I'm sure that's
far from being strange on this website but I do have a question,
whether or not I'm living in reality here or chasing
whatever.
I'm not in the BDSM scene nor anywhere around it. I grew
up in a Christian home. I've had my sexual ...
3 Comments,
107 Views,
3 Votes
,1.96 Score
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cock size 6/14/2009
guys, stop stop stop lying about your cock size. i am sick
of chatting with someone that swears they are uncut, nice
cock and it gets hard. well it might be uncut and it might
get hard but its only 4 inches when its stiff. what the hell
can i do with a 4 inch cock. absolutely nothing. nothing.
i have had it with guys that i have hooked up with that swear
they have a nice cock when its time to ...
0 Comments,
85 Views,
2 Votes
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how do i find a Mistress 6/1/2009
ive been on alt for 7 months . i used to get alot of contacts
but now i dont. is there a FEMDOM out there who would guide
and train me?
0 Comments,
52 Views,
0 Votes
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Outside of the box 5/16/2009
There is no such thing as a bad suggestion if the intent of
the suggestion is honorable; only a closed mind that is
wrapped up within itself would waste time in flaming another
that is acting in integrity and honor. It is the acceptance
of difference that allows us to to think outside of the norm
which is where we will find creative answers. What we are
now doing is not working, therefore we ...
0 Comments,
22 Views,
2 Votes
,2.42 Score
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Why training is more than behavior 5/2/2009
Within the time through my mid-30s I found that two prominent
parts of my life had always been in conflict. That was sexuality
and spirituality. Of course a large part of that was because
of the dogma of organized religion, which I have since thrown
off the yolk of repression.
Then in my 40s these two areas began merging into one and
continues to do so as time progresses. I believe it ...
0 Comments,
62 Views,
2 Votes
,1.04 Score
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Whats the best way 3/8/2009
What is the best way to tell someone your not interested,
without seeming like an asshole or a hypocrite?
6 Comments,
102 Views,
4 Votes
,2.86 Score
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A Easter Saga! 3/7/2009
Healed! A Revised Saga of He Is Risen! The Saga Continues…A Revision He Is Risen! By Nevin Jefferson
News item on the Internet: “Dozens of Greek and Armenian
priests and worshipers exchanged blows at one of Christianity's
holiest shrines on Orthodox Palm Sunday and used palm fronds
to pummel police who tried to break up the brawl”. So much for Easter cheer here gang! In light of ...
0 Comments,
10 Views,
0 Votes
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Is it probably a Fake Profile? 1/9/2009
These are personal observations from actual responses.
I guess any of them could be real so I’ll protect the innocent
by saying “probably a fake.”
It is probably a fake profile if you sent an introductory
e-mail and you get back a “slave contract” and a request
that if you help relocate the sender from some place totally
unrelated to the location shown on the profile, they ...
0 Comments,
210 Views,
15 Votes
,5.73 Score
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work place relationship 1/8/2009
OK...I have grown to respect and appreciate a woman that
I ahve worked with for years . Recently I reached out to her
and told her I wanted to get to know her better. She's
amazing. Since I reached out to her we have been talking
and e-mailing regularly about a wide range of topics. The
more I learn the more I like about her. We're both married
so going further would be dangerous and right now I ...
2 Comments,
135 Views,
5 Votes
,0.86 Score
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First time for cock in ass 1/7/2009
I've had dildos, even some pretty good size ones. What
should I be prepared for if I'm going to take a real cock?
2 Comments,
299 Views,
11 Votes
,2.61 Score
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Burlesque Male Clothes 12/4/2008
Do any members have information or contact addresses for
'Burlesque Clothes' for men. My BDSM club have
a strict dress code and I don't want to be following
a dress code for the theme night and end up wearing a 'vanilla'
attrie.
0 Comments,
39 Views,
0 Votes
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Flight DelayHelp 11/1/2008
vacuumed wetness. His fingers stroked her thigh ever so gently; neither he nor she could feel the
touch, but sensed it. His sensual fingerprints glided
over her skin, sending a chill down her spine, which raised
goose bumps on her arms.
She smoothed her fingertips over his shoulders and down
his biceps that caused a tiny tingle at the base of his ...
0 Comments,
52 Views,
0 Votes
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When Do Newcomers Become Isolated?" 10/24/2008
Thesaurus: isolate
verb
To set apart from a group: close off, cut off, insulate,
seclude, segregate, separate, sequester. See include/exclude.
adjective
Set away from all others: alone, apart, detached, isolated,
lone, removed, solitary. See include/exclude.
(Definition obtained from "Answers (.) c o m)"
...
0 Comments,
44 Views,
8 Votes
,3.25 Score
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Punishment For Slaves 9/28/2008
I'm currently training some sissy maids online, &
having trouble thinking of new punishments. Obviously a lot of the punishments I'd normally do
are impossible, since they live too far away from me.
Does anyone have any suggestions for punishments that
I can make them do to themselves?
5 Comments,
351 Views,
9 Votes
,4.28 Score
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Profile Photo 9/21/2008
Choosing a photo to go with your profile can be difficult
and sometimes daunting.
I feel that you probably get more responses with a photo.
Just for the reason that your willing to show yourself!
Photo's dont have to of your face necessarily, even
though "breast" photo's of women or "cock"
photo's of men can be boring , I think .
If you feel confident of your body, you ...
9 Comments,
184 Views,
13 Votes
,3.65 Score
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Finding a dom HELP!! 9/16/2008
I am a submissive man who sometimes dresses as a woman. I
need a dominate man to take charge and i need him to be part
nympho. I am submissive but 100% bottom too. I love to serve
a master sexually with my body. I not only need to serve but
need the sex of service as well. I use to have a master but
he died years ago now i need another. Sometime when being
analy used i can cum. it is a total turn ...
0 Comments,
97 Views,
4 Votes
,1.69 Score
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chastity 8/28/2008
definatly chastity is enhanced when done with someone
who has control over the key. brings a new dimension to it
3 Comments,
114 Views,
6 Votes
,3.37 Score
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Satisfying that bi-curiosity? 8/17/2008
I've always...for as long as I can remember...been
a little bi-curious. Has anyone got any advice on how best
to satisfy that curiosity??
5 Comments,
306 Views,
1 Votes
,2.40 Score
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HELP, in need of advice 8/16/2008
I really don't know what to do so any advice would be
welcome. A year ago this September my wife and I were invited
to a reunion. A group of about 15 couples that have summer
houses on a small northern lake. The party was great, lots
of booze and great food. Nobody was feeling any pain if you
know what I mean. I was outside talking with a few of the guys
when I excused myself to use the bathroom. ...
2 Comments,
180 Views,
2 Votes
,0.34 Score
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Pain Without Marks 8/10/2008
I need advice about how to inflict pain without leaving
marks that would have to be explained.
2 Comments,
285 Views,
4 Votes
,4.80 Score
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New to the lifestyle please read me. 8/7/2008
Hi everybody. Through different lifestyle groups i belong
to i've made my current mission to become as entrenched
in the lifestyle as possible as well as going on a crusade
to prevent the destruction and abuse of newbies who jump
in with both feet, in a frenzied state of mind with little
thought to their own safety leaving it all in the hands of
the Dom. Which, if he is the one you need to be ...
2 Comments,
172 Views,
13 Votes
,5.66 Score
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Grooming the Moderately Chastised Male 8/6/2008
Grooming the Moderately Chastised Male (or The Silky Smooth New You)
We've all read about Her, the relentless, omniscient,
large breasted Dominatrice who controls every aspect
of your sissified, chastised life including your appearance.
She forces you to get pedicures, manicures, and sends you
in for regular waxings or perhaps even laser hair removal
so that you are always smooth ...
0 Comments,
106 Views,
2 Votes
,3.12 Score
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Permanent Hair Removal 7/16/2008
Is it better to have a female slave's pubic hair permanently
removed if you intend to have her cunt pierced and tattooed?
Which method is better Laser or Electrolysis?
1 Comments,
146 Views,
2 Votes
,5.20 Score
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Jist lookin' 4 sum advice or tips for Daddy Dom/ role play? 5/26/2008
So me and my wife hav bn wantin' 2 do sum expermentin'
and we both mentioned the Daddy Dom/ role play
and decided 2 try it. We hav bn emailin' each other back
and forth, playin' our parts in the emails. And we were
just lookin' for sum advice or tips on how 2 move it from
email 2 the bed.
She feels a little silly, yet aroused, by callin' me
Daddy. She wants 2 do a good ...
1 Comments,
149 Views,
6 Votes
,3.37 Score
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Question about latex 5/17/2008
I am completely new to the conept of latex, and have a general
idea of how to put it on, though have not practiced yet. My
question is, once it's on, how do you get it off? Peel
it off? Is there a special substance to remove it? Is it painful?
I haven't done any of this yet and figured it'd
be best to do my homework on the subject before encountering
any unexpected surprises. All advice will ...
0 Comments,
92 Views,
7 Votes
,4.31 Score
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sex change 5/15/2008
im kellyg3 i need advice on where to get a sex change i want
a pussy but cant find a number so i can be seen. i live in CA
2 Comments,
102 Views,
4 Votes
,1.30 Score
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WHATS HAPPENED TO THE CAMS! 4/5/2008
Hi, Ive been on here for 3 years, the first year as a gold member
and for the last two years as a standard member. Recently
I have found that when ever I click on a cam on instant messenger
the window dissappears without letting me view. The only
cams that seem available are the ones that are in private
and so I can see them, obviously! What is going on? Is this
the normal level of service for ...
1 Comments,
132 Views,
3 Votes
,2.94 Score
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What do women prefer? 3/29/2008
Hi ladies... my wife's birthday is approaching in
April.
We've been together approximately 10 years and exchanged
many-a-gifts.
She doesn't like wearing bootyshorts (not too comfortable)...
she only has 3 pairs out dozens of panties and thongs. I would
enjoy seeing her butt in a bootyshort...
My question... should I purchase a variety of ...
4 Comments,
131 Views,
6 Votes
,0.80 Score
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On teaching in the lisfestyle 3/19/2008
I’ve written before on my predilections towards public
play. However, that runs a distinct second to my favorite
activity, teaching (unless, of course, the two are combined
– but that’s for a different day). I’ve been asked before
what it is that I get out of teaching, principally by my sassy
but by others that I have taught as well. Many have felt that
it is a one-way transfer, that the ...
0 Comments,
57 Views,
3 Votes
,2.45 Score
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Compromise 3/11/2008
I thought I'd pass along a couple of things I find make
life a lot easier. These are two things most people don't
seem to want to hear about: compromise and having realistic
expectations.
If you have a need for something and can't seem to attain
it, try to compromise. Maybe it won't be what you would
call perfect, but it will be close enough for you to experience
something similiar. Sure ...
2 Comments,
49 Views,
2 Votes
,3.12 Score
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The Experienced Dom 3/8/2008
Okay , today's rant is - "I'll only play
with you if you are experienced."
Which is very smart and very good. But...
The next thing they want to know is who you've had this
experience with! And why aren't you still with them?
And if they were so great, why are you still looking? And
200 more questions along those lines...
A very wise Dom once told me, "Hey Breeze, the ...
0 Comments,
86 Views,
1 Votes
,2.40 Score
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Converting Your Vanilla Lover 3/7/2008
True story, this is really how it went.
My significant other and I have been together for 5 years
now. We have a great vanilla relationship, but me being
stubborn, I always gotta push for more.
Like most couples our age, sex is pretty much a "date
night once a week" thing. Always the same, but always
pretty damn good, too.
The S.O. has known ...
0 Comments,
205 Views,
4 Votes
,4.80 Score
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Training 3/5/2008
Training of a Master
After reading several articles about the lifestyle, occasionally
the subject of training is targeted. No, not the training
of submissives, but the training of Masters.
I will knowingly get negative feedback that a Master doesn't
need training. From what I read on here, it would be a smart
thing to invest in...if a Master is serious about the lifestyle. ...
0 Comments,
235 Views,
14 Votes
,5.22 Score
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Diving In 1/31/2008
Like a lot of members here at Alt, this website has been my
first foray into this lifestyle. I know there are a lot of
seasoned pros here, but a search of profiles shows me that
a lot of us came to this site as newcomers.
When I joined, I tried to express my desires and fantasies
as best I could articulate them in my profile. In an attempt
to offer as much about myself as I could, I ...
0 Comments,
77 Views,
8 Votes
,4.17 Score
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Strap-on 1/31/2008
I'd like to hear peoples views thoughts about mf strap-on
sex. pros cons likes dislikes or anything else that comes to
mind
4 Comments,
162 Views,
6 Votes
,1.66 Score
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When you know, what you are? 1/28/2008
What you should do, when you know what you are?? well I'll say if you know wht you are then you should
come out with it.. stayin hidden doesn't help anyone
in the relationship..
1 Comments,
38 Views,
4 Votes
,2.08 Score
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Is strapon gay? 1/22/2008
I've had a very difficult time ever bringing up the
subject of f2m strapon play with anyone I'm seeing
who isn't into "kink". It seems like people
think that any guy who likes his ass played with is gay. Is
that true? I thought that if if having my ass filled made
me feel good, it made all men feel good, so it couldn't
be gay. But women don't seem to see it that way. Any help?
Do most women think ...
9 Comments,
301 Views,
11 Votes
,3.35 Score
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Domming 1/13/2008
Switch by nature. I say so because I feel so Dominant sometimes
I just want to be in control, and the rest of the time, you
know it
Thing is, I would like to know where I could learn and get
more information on becoming a better Dom. Are there any
websites or books that teach you to become a perfect Dom?
All suggestions would help! Thanks, Kama...
1 Comments,
70 Views,
5 Votes
,2.49 Score
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sexy music 1/9/2008
Any ideas for what type of music would be good while topping
a sub?? would like music without lyrics
4 Comments,
86 Views,
7 Votes
,2.02 Score
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Flogging 1/9/2008
Flogging
The most important part of a flogger are the falls also called
lashes, thongs, tresses, strands, etc. These falls are
made of different materials, in different styles and with
different ends or tips. Handle and knob designs are mostly
a matter of personal taste as well as the maker's signature
(especially in the knobs). But the falls make a very real
difference in the sensation ...
1 Comments,
63 Views,
2 Votes
,5.20 Score
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Want to Learn 12/18/2007
I am young and wanting to learn from a experinced Master.
If anyone has some help for me to get in this lifestyle as
a Master i would love to hear from anyone. Thanks
0 Comments,
98 Views,
3 Votes
,0.98 Score
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"Fat" sex.... 11/24/2007
Me again I'm a "BBW" and have only cum
one time {with a man} in 25yrs. I know pathetic My question is: What are the best positions to both of us
to use for incredible sex? I am submissive so I want what's
best for "my potential Man" as well as myself
Thanks again..
Christine
3 Comments,
207 Views,
5 Votes
,3.47 Score
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Deep throating.... 11/24/2007
Hi..This is my first post. I've deep throated a few
men and they seemed to really love it BUT I have on occasion
scraped my teeth against their cock or their cock is thick
so my back teeth actually cut him. My question is...What's
the best position to be in so I can give "him"
the best blow job of "his" life?
Thank you..
Christine
2 Comments,
218 Views,
5 Votes
,3.47 Score
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Advice needed... roleplay scenarios 11/23/2007
so... I am meeting with a young lady (yes, she's over the age
of consent, thanks for asking) and we are playing daddy/ - teacher/ schoolgirl
- daddy/babygirl games
basically I start off with a little plan to start the rolepaly
going and then after a while, we just let it all go from there.
Has anyone got any new ideas for scenarios - or enjopyable
scenarios that they use themselves
1 Comments,
226 Views,
3 Votes
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I Desp neeed some advice or guidance can you help ? 9/28/2007
I've always been Top mostly due i suppose to my ex husband
and personality type but I am now at a place in my life where
I am free to explore My desires My wants My fantasies and
I have realised that I would very much love to switch roles
that the thoughts of it really turns me on. To the point where
I am thinking about it a lot but I am unsure of how to go about
it or even it I would be able to. ...
5 Comments,
105 Views,
6 Votes
,3.93 Score
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Pvc - what do you use to give that wet look? 9/7/2007
I just got a new pvc catsuit and was wondering what do i use
to protect it & give it that wet look shine? Can anyone
give me some help? thanks rata
1 Comments,
62 Views,
2 Votes
,1.73 Score
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My 2 Cents for submissives 9/1/2007
Many of you have asked that I write a little something for
the subs out there. I hope this helps..
M/many involved in the BDSM lifestyle have been introduced
to it through the Internet and online chat rooms. Online
can be very intense and very special. It can also lead to
great harm to many, just as realtime relationships can
be quite intense and special and for others just as harmful. ...
1 Comments,
171 Views,
11 Votes
,4.29 Score
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Newbie Advice and Info 8/8/2007
Following, in no particular order, are a few points of advice
and general interest for those new to the swing scene in
general and the Alt scene in particular. It is blunt, frank
and un-PC article. The opinions expressed are those of
the authors and are largely based on our own anecdotal evidence.
We are confident these will hold up to objective scrutiny
or we wouldn't bother posting the article: ...
3 Comments,
282 Views,
11 Votes
,5.60 Score
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What happens when a bottom discovers She loves to Top 7/16/2007
Well surly nothing new to this group - nor to the lifestyle
but defiantly a revelation to myself. Well perhaps not
such a revelation, I have always suspected I would like
to dominate men but had never been afforded the opportunity.
Well that is all in the past now. Last night the one man who has been able to control my bratty
spoiled self let in on a secret. He enjoys being controlled
and ...
6 Comments,
250 Views,
12 Votes
,4.39 Score
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How do I introduce the "lifestyle" to my fiance? 7/15/2007
I'm newly engaged and have told my fiance about having
strap-on experiences with other men before him. But my
question is, how do I open the door for him about the lifestyle
and possibly playing with him? He tells me that he will do
anything to satisfy me..... Advice please
8 Comments,
288 Views,
9 Votes
,3.21 Score
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surface piercing 7/3/2007
Can anyone tell me how long a corset piercing can remain
in? i really am interested in getting one. Thanks for any
information anyone can provide.
3 Comments,
119 Views,
2 Votes
,2.42 Score
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Heartbreak and Trust ; Cyber Style 7/2/2007
I am wondering about the issue of "cyber relationships"
as it seems very treacherous ground to tread. I had a friend
write a letter to me and I have posted it [only with her permission]
within my blog.
I am really looking for feedback from other submissives
and Dominants to help her through this time. I am just unsure
what to say and am asking for the good opinion of what I feel
to be ...
1 Comments,
113 Views,
4 Votes
,2.47 Score
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How to woo a woman in chat 6/12/2007
In the online universe it seems that men outnumber us girls
and we receive alot of emails a day as well as alot of attention
in chat. While this can be gratifying in some ways it can
also be annoying. You may very well be a wonderful man but
unless you are able to convey that in type then you aren't
gonna catch my attenion. In a public service effort I've
decided to add a few tips of my own to ...
6 Comments,
320 Views,
23 Votes
,6.86 Score
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What am I doing wrong 6/10/2007
I have written many messages to different people. They
are somewhat brief but friendly and formal. I have not recieved
any messages back not even to say no thanks. Is there any
general advice from anyone out there on what I could do to
maybe help me out. Any advice would be appreciated. Thank
you.
1 Comments,
126 Views,
3 Votes
,3.43 Score
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Need some advice please 5/28/2007
I love the thought of being anally penetrated by a dominate
woman with a strap-on but when ever i play about with a dildo
it just doesnt feel pleasurable. Has any one got any tips
on how i could make it feel better?
1 Comments,
87 Views,
0 Votes
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Adult Forums 5/10/2007
I thought this would be the best place to put this. I wanted
to make an adult forum. Wondered if anyone knew of a good,
FREE place to find one. Preferably, a phpbb forum. If not,
thanks anyway! Thanks in advance.
0 Comments,
68 Views,
0 Votes
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Tips on Professional Dommes? 5/4/2007
Has anyone ever visited a professional Dominatrix? Any
tips or advice? I'm thinking of going to one so I can
finally have the fantasy I want - domination, strapon and
humiliation
0 Comments,
136 Views,
2 Votes
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How does one motivate one's partner to accept anal? 5/3/2007
My current partner is a very sensuous latin lady. When our
play gets to the point that rimming becomes a part, she at
first enjoys it until she realizes where the pleasure is
coming from. at that point she steers the play away from
the anal area even though she gets great pleasure from it.
Do I continue and try to increase the time she accepts the
attention to her ass? Hoping that eventually ...
1 Comments,
88 Views,
3 Votes
,2.45 Score
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Bi Porn 4/15/2007
Seriously 90% of the Bi porn isn't great. Any help on
what I should be buying?
0 Comments,
119 Views,
1 Votes
,5.00 Score
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Ten Tips for the Novice, Single, Heterosexual, Submissive Woman 3/30/2007
Let me guess. You're a woman, you're heterosexual,
and you keep having strange, disturbing, recurring, and intense fantasies
of a powerful, masterful man having his way with you. Perhaps
he tears off your clothes and takes you. Perhaps he throws you over his
knee and gives you a long, hard spanking. Perhaps he ties you naked
and spread-eagled to a bed and proceeds to alternately tease
and torture ...
3 Comments,
455 Views,
20 Votes
,6.57 Score
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Its Raining Men: Basics of Water Sports 3/30/2007
Urine – Liquid waste product produced by the kidneys. The
volume of urine depends on the fluid intake and diet. An
average amount of urine excreted within a 24-hour period
is between 0.8 and 2.6 liters.
The kidneys maintain the bodies’ electrolyte balance
by excreting excess electrolytes into the urine. Chemically,
urine is mainly an aqueous (watery) solution of salt (sodium
chloride), ...
2 Comments,
184 Views,
9 Votes
,4.07 Score
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knots for bondage 3/24/2007
Hi can any one help me, I am familiar with the common knots eg hitch, half-hitch, granny etc. But would like to find book which will give me, a better understanding of more exotic knots eg Asia and the far east.
2 Comments,
125 Views,
1 Votes
,2.40 Score
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i need some help- fake sperm 3/19/2007
Hope someone can help. We would like to make a video with
her in a bathtub full of sperm. Without haveing to get the
male population of Massachusetts over here, does anyone
know how to make a good "fake" sperm? Needs to
be gooie, yet slippery and must look real. It also needs
to be safe. Hope you can help ASAP. Thanks
1 Comments,
169 Views,
2 Votes
,2.42 Score
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electric play info 3/14/2007
anyone know anything about electric shock play?
don't mean with a tens unit.....with anyway for a stronger
shock......
have been asked to learn how to do shock therapy like she
saw in a movie........I know nothing about it.
any help would be helpful.
thanks
5 Comments,
149 Views,
2 Votes
,2.42 Score
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for the women 3/11/2007
why must you leave the bathroom door open when you go ?
I know you've been in your relationship long enough
he's seen you nude lot's of times but the one time he does not want to see you is when you are sitting on the stool.
WHY CAN'T YOU CLOSE THE DOOR ?
and while I'm at it, why can't you wait till a man's done shaving before you come in and take a dump????
we ...
7 Comments,
201 Views,
6 Votes
,2.23 Score
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Need advice 3/1/2007
I'm new to alt.com, and have a very specific goal. I'm
looking for a creative man or woman who will take control
of my sexuality and introduce me to homosexuality -- using
email, chat, even cam to give me specific assignments that
will break down my inhibitions over a few months. Is this
unusual? What is the best way to find someone?
1 Comments,
135 Views,
1 Votes
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gonna piss off all the women 2/28/2007
why is it that when a nice looking female walks by you when
you are with a woman she will say something like "bitch.....she
thinks she's hot"
I'm thinking that myself.
why is it anytime a woman sees another that she thinks is
attractive she has to make a derogatory comment about her.
if she sees a woman wearing a short skirt she will have something
to say about that. ...
4 Comments,
138 Views,
6 Votes
,1.66 Score
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snapping pussy? 2/27/2007
In my years growing up and in adult life I have heard the term
"snapping pussy"
Until recently I thought it was just a joke. I had the good
fortune to be with a woman that got on top of me and did not
move her body but the muscles inside her pussy worked my
dick like a machine!
Is this more common than I have thought? I have had women
that could really use their pussy muscles but this ...
6 Comments,
304 Views,
6 Votes
,5.07 Score
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Aggressiveness 2/27/2007
I am a man who has a strong interest in being dominant. I have
had contact with true submissive women in the past and found
I not only enjoyed it, but longed for it. And I want to explore
that lifestyle to the fullest.
But I have a problem. I have a submissive personality. I
was with a dominant woman. A woman who sought out submissive
men not just for sex but as a partner as well. But, she ...
4 Comments,
121 Views,
3 Votes
,1.47 Score
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electric shock 2/23/2007
I have never used electric shock...I have heard of using
car batteries. I'm told it has an effect of total submission.
My question is first, is it safe and if so how exactly is it
done?
I have just learned a friend is planning to have this done
to her and they are using multiple batteries.
I am afraid for her safety...any suggestions.
0 Comments,
206 Views,
1 Votes
,2.40 Score
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The Art of Submission 2/22/2007
Hi,
I'm a newbie submissive seeking to fully understand
the art of submission. I would like to know what qualities
make a good submissive? what is about being submissive
that you/we enjoy?
What pleasure does being a submissive give you?
If you could use any words to describe how you feel about
submission what would they be?
I'd be really interested to hear what everyone ...
1 Comments,
211 Views,
9 Votes
,5.56 Score
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Lady Julianna's Guide to Sensual BDSM 2/21/2007
Excerpt from Chapter 3: BDSM Play Basics - Do’s, Don’ts
& How To’s
Your Domme Demeanor – While playing you must always act
as though you know what you are doing and exude strength
and confidence. Never, ever, ever ask your sub in the middle
of play what he wants to do, what you should do next or if he
likes what you’re doing. There are ways of finding these
things out without ...
0 Comments,
182 Views,
9 Votes
,3.21 Score
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how to make it happen 2/16/2007
we are having trouble on how to tell some of our friends we
would like them to join us in the bedroom for some kinky hot
sex does anyone know a good way to ask them or bring it up with
out sounding like freaks if there not in to it
3 Comments,
144 Views,
10 Votes
,3.78 Score
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Gag mad with a latex allergy? Read this! 2/4/2007
I've spent the last few years desperately searching
for a ball gag, but my allergy to latex has foiled me at every
turn. Living in the back of beyond means no sex shops for
me, so all toys are bought online.
However, I've found that even if the manufacturer
notes that a product contains latex, there's no guarantee
that the supplier will bother to mention it on their website.
...
4 Comments,
183 Views,
3 Votes
,4.41 Score
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Short but true 2/1/2007
If it goes too fast,
it just ain't gonna last
If it goes too slow,
the Master He shall go
If it goes just right,
hey, good luck to Y/you B/both
0 Comments,
46 Views,
4 Votes
,3.63 Score
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deepthroat everyone? 2/1/2007
i am a straight guy that recently experimented with the
other side. both transexual and guys. i have practiced
for a while, trying to master the art of cock sucking. i have
used several different size dildos to practice. from small
to huge. i know that everyone can not deep throat. but i think
if you practice, you can overcome the gag reflex and do it.
i found with the dildos, that i could ...
2 Comments,
253 Views,
8 Votes
,3.25 Score
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I don't understand 1/28/2007
Hi,
I'm a newbie submissive, stepping out on the road to
learning about becoming a good sub for a potential dom.
A long time ago I meet a fantastic dom, who I liked very much
and felt liked me. Everything was going really well, and
we talked about meeting up. I cannot stress how much I wanted
him, and to meet him. Yet at the same time I was going through
an extremely ...
7 Comments,
187 Views,
6 Votes
,2.23 Score
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I Could Beat You For That, But You Would Enjoy It Too Much: Alternative Punishments That Work 1/26/2007
Punishment by nature is something that is to be avoided,
something that is negative; it should be unwelcome and
act as a negative motivator. It can be used to motivate a
submissive/slave to start behaving in a certain manner
or it can be used to encourage a behavior to stop.
Some people think that a paddling or spanking is punishment;
these actions would normally be what I would ...
2 Comments,
295 Views,
11 Votes
,5.04 Score
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Advice for my first time crossdressing in public 1/22/2007
Hello id like to go out to one of the clubs in London for crossdressers
but am quite nervous and shy about going. Id like to know
if other people who have been felt the same on their first
time and if so how did they handle their first time? Are there
any clubs out there that people recomend for me to go to?
1 Comments,
289 Views,
1 Votes
,1.10 Score
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10 Themes for Domination 1/13/2007
I wold like to share with all Egyptian dom(me)s these basic
rules about domination:
1. Be patient! Until you enter into a contract with a submissive,
you have no more right to order him/her around than does
anyone else. Give your bottom time to get to know you and
what you are like. Finesse and subtlety are major elements
of dominance. Similarly, strength and gentleness ...
1 Comments,
248 Views,
8 Votes
,6.26 Score
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I like how it feels but how do I feel? 1/13/2007
I"m troubled by a situation and wa slookinf for a word
or two of advice from someone more experienced or who just
has anything at all to offer in the way of assistance. I"ve
had some trouble coming to grips with thsi pbefore but I'm
fine with now saying that I enojoy receiving analpenetration.
I have experienced a woman's strapon and quite enjoy
how it feels physically, but wooried, what it ...
1 Comments,
148 Views,
2 Votes
,3.81 Score
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being new to alt.com 1/11/2007
with being still quite new to here l thought u could get help
from anyone but it seems you can so l think there should be
a place on here to go to and get some good advice on how to do
anything on alt .com
1 Comments,
120 Views,
2 Votes
,3.81 Score
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Am I really ready??? 1/10/2007
A question that has plagued all of us at one time or another.
All I have to say is: "When you want to take on greater
responsibilities then you should be ready to take on the
greater consequences."
0 Comments,
185 Views,
3 Votes
,2.45 Score
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It takes sooo loonnnggg! 1/9/2007
Well, I shouldn't complain, but it takes so long for
me to cum sometimes! Now I know that some would value this,
but sometimes it'sa little inconvenient. But it is
kinda nice to be able to last a long time.
Does yohimbe have any effect on this? I haven't used
it, just wondering.
0 Comments,
105 Views,
2 Votes
,2.42 Score
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Sex with people you don't "Fancy" 1/8/2007
I kinda have a thing for sex with people that I would not say
I "fancied" in the classic sence; just purely
get excited about the idea of having sex with them.
For example larger girls, older girls, strangers ... all
these things excite me sexually but not in a way that I'd
maybe look for in regular partner.
One slight issue I have with this is how honest I should be ...
2 Comments,
283 Views,
2 Votes
,5.20 Score
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How do I find that special person? 12/24/2006
Hi out there, A question for the WOMEN out there (or a man
who'se been in my position) I'm seeking some sensible,
helpful advice. I'm a heterosexual crossdressing
male, generally a normal macho bloke but like dressing
up for sex occassionally and have a bit of a smoking fetish,
only just joined this site but been on Adult Friends finder
for a little while, but had few views or messages, ...
1 Comments,
176 Views,
4 Votes
,1.30 Score
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Abusers of the BDSM way for presonal gain. 12/22/2006
Members of this community are far more vulnerable to being
accused of abuse than any other minority community existent.
Because of that the community tends to talk about abuse
and consent a lot. The line between BDSM and abuse is consent.
Misrepresentation, deceit, failure to be honest in any
form in order to attract, lure or seduce someone into a controlled
position simply to proceed with ...
0 Comments,
180 Views,
4 Votes
,3.25 Score
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Looking for creative input. 12/18/2006
For the last few years I've been working in writing
erotic stories loosely based on experiences my ex-wife
and I had "playing". Is there anybody out there
who can help with some creative input?
0 Comments,
46 Views,
1 Votes
,1.10 Score
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Love the roleplay/ageplay fantasies? How do I get interest? 12/4/2006
Hey, I put out lots of ads on this issue, but get very little
resonse. Is there just no interest in it? Help me out please!
1 Comments,
124 Views,
1 Votes
,5.00 Score
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Female Ejaculation 12/2/2006
This article was passed on to me by another member in the
hopes that I would pass it on to others here on alt. and in
my other venues. My thanks to Elder_Velvet for his contribution.
Some women ejaculate during orgasm like men do. It's
a natural action, but there's a lot of misunderstanding
about it. When it happens, It's often a surprise to
both parties, and an embarassment to the woman. ...
3 Comments,
476 Views,
15 Votes
,6.04 Score
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should I? 12/1/2006
I have done research in my area and have found a Domme. She
will session with me. But now I have a connundrum. Do I go
see her for I am in a great relationship, and my Lady is unwilling
to go to the extremes that I am searching. So that is where
I am at. To be Dominated and anally abused and showered upon.
0 Comments,
121 Views,
4 Votes
,3.25 Score
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The origin of fisting fetish (vaginal and anal) 11/23/2006
The origins of fetishes, particularly Fisting and Anal
play.
I am one of those people who like to analyse the origins of
my fetishes.
I suppose having studied psychology, being a qualified
nurse for many years and currently training to be a psychoanalyst,
would certainly give me the background for this kind of
self analysis!
I first became interested in fisting and playing ...
2 Comments,
185 Views,
6 Votes
,4.79 Score
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Mind Fuck 11/22/2006
Recently I meet a sub, who was not even close. So I guess I
should have ID her as a wantabe. We exchanged email and numbers
and even met up, but when it came down to the experience she
said she had it was not there. I took her to a open bar where
people of our mind frame can let our hair down and she seemed
at ease, but as the evening wore on I came to find out, this
was just a mind fuck ...
1 Comments,
546 Views,
6 Votes
,2.51 Score
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Abusing the COLLAR 11/18/2006
Why should I collar you?
I don't really know you.
Do you really know me?
Do you even understand what it Means?
The Collar and Its Meaning
A collar in BDSM symbolizes a commitment that has often
been compared to a wedding ring. This type of commitment
comes in other forms, such as a brand, a tattoo, a piercing....
Each symbolizing the pledge of the Dominant to ...
3 Comments,
302 Views,
22 Votes
,7.57 Score
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stolen pictures 11/17/2006
What do you do when you see a picture of yourself and someone
else is using your picture with their information.
Has this ever happend to anyone
5 Comments,
489 Views,
8 Votes
,4.41 Score
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hard nipples 11/15/2006
i am slave jayne, partner to my Master Rex (his handle is
Rexking). Master loves hard nipples. The harder the better.
My nipples are fine, but i want to know if there is something
out there that would really make them huge and hard? Some
kind of cream or lotion that i could rub on them to really
get them erect. i am hoping someone out there knows of something
i could use so that i can ...
0 Comments,
223 Views,
4 Votes
,4.41 Score
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Sub or Dom? 11/14/2006
How true is it to be, or find people that are actually both
doms and subs? I know very few people are either white or
black and most fall in some shade of grew. But can people
truly enjoy submitting as much as they enjoy dominating
another? Can this happen with the same partner? Thanks
for the input.
3 Comments,
238 Views,
4 Votes
,4.02 Score
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swinging club London 11/5/2006
anyone knows or can propose any swinging club in london?
why is it good? and which day best to go?
0 Comments,
255 Views,
0 Votes
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FRUSTRATION! 10/22/2006
So.... I'm searching for something that seems to elude
me time and time again and I was wondering what others have
to say about it....
Heres the story....
What I want is basically a fuckbuddy that is dominant but
doesn't have to always play in D+s. I want someone who
can get a hard-on and cum 3 or 4 times in a night, not every
night, night after night of course, but as ...
4 Comments,
242 Views,
15 Votes
,5.43 Score
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Why are there so many people on this site that just like to type vs. actually doing anything? 10/15/2006
Although my husband and I are fairly new to this site, I can't
help but wonder (or maybe its just new to me or I have totally
fucked up our profile ) why so many people exchange likes,
dislikes, etc. but aren't really active in pursuing
something that probably would be pretty fun. I have spent
a couple of days checking out different parts of alt.com
to get a better understanding of what ...
6 Comments,
224 Views,
10 Votes
,3.98 Score
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First communications 10/12/2006
It's surprising how many people are not aware of the
importance of those first few lines of communication.
Most of the correspondence on this site seems to have two
problems:
1. Waffle
2. Too many on liners
Regarding waffle (taking too long to say something or nothing).
If you haven't got someone's attention in the
first sentence or two you have lost them ...
3 Comments,
321 Views,
14 Votes
,5.22 Score
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smoothly does it. 10/12/2006
Can any ladies(or men) out there give me some advice on getting
a really smooth shave? I have tried loads of methods, epilating,
depilatory creams, expensive mens razors and womens razors
and nothing seems to work! I'm either left with stubble,
a rash or ingrowing hairs!
4 Comments,
253 Views,
4 Votes
,3.25 Score
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bi girls are exceptable and bi guys are not what gives? 10/12/2006
i`m a bi-curious guy and have found it way less exceptable
than if it is a bisexual female. I have yet to meet anyone
or couple but am very intrested in doing so i would like to
meet a female that excepts my intrests i don`t nessarly
need to live out the intrests but would like to be exceptable
to someone who understands and can live with it. i was divorced
last year because of my intrests ...
2 Comments,
98 Views,
2 Votes
,2.42 Score
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Meeting on ALT 10/8/2006
I would like to meet other ladies on ALT. I have found that
well, for now no luck and I have been on for the last 5 months.
Is it all by having a Silver or Gold or is it ???, Please check
my profile to let me know if I am way off base or upgrade membership.
Thank you all
1 Comments,
126 Views,
4 Votes
,2.47 Score
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Tgirls 10/8/2006
What is the attraction that a straight man has with these
Lovely Tgirls?
From the beautiful hair, makeup, lips, long leggs lucious
ass and even the dick. Which on a man is not even the least
bit enticing.
Any answer will be taken to great lengths.
5 Comments,
261 Views,
6 Votes
,2.80 Score
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Contacting ex dom's 10/5/2006
Hi,
Before I begin I am a complete newbie at this. I'm trying
to find my way in this kinky world, and understand all the
kinky rules etc.
My question is this. Do you as a sub or a dom contact old/past/ex
subs/dom's?
I meet this great fantastic dom guy, who I felt had made a
connection with me. Things were going well, and it was getting
close to arranging to ...
2 Comments,
320 Views,
5 Votes
,5.10 Score
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A Case of Mistaken Fantasies? 9/29/2006
I'm interested to find out how kinky woman can generally
be or if there is an age old myth that men have been building
up in their heads. Do women enjoy using strapons on men?
I know sexual tastes very and each kink has its own crowd,
but do women think about or act upon the erge to have a man
so willing to please her that he will open up and let her inside?
I have been tot he Ontario group ...
5 Comments,
323 Views,
3 Votes
,3.92 Score
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the vast power of WANTO ...... meta physics 9/29/2006
The vast power of WANTO .. have sex
Your level of wanting , , or what I have called wanto is , ,
it is the energy of the expectation that effects sub atomic
particles in that Quatum Physics experiment we talked
about earlier …. Wanto , , this dates back for to the days
of National Guild of hypnotists and my active Hypnosis
practice … you hypnosis got the same results in stopping ...
0 Comments,
225 Views,
1 Votes
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getting more anal 9/24/2006
I am having difficulty getting my GF to play anally. On a
grand scale. I love to rim, for days and days. But she seems
to stop me after a while. EVEN though she is all over the anal
play in masturbatory realm. WHAT TO DO, WHAT TO DO?
I would aalso be all over her doing me anally. I gues that
is another hurdle.
3 Comments,
160 Views,
3 Votes
,1.96 Score
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FOR WOMEN ONLY 9/12/2006
Men's Pet Peeve.
LADIES! LADIES! LADIES!
You hardly ever answer our email. There's a quick reply
button immediately above our message! It takes but a few
seconds to hit it and send. You don't even have to go
to another page. The best one is the second one up. "I'm
not seeing anyone new right now" If you have the time
you could count another 7 up ...
4 Comments,
316 Views,
8 Votes
,4.41 Score
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Getting "laid" 9/11/2006
I recall a line from a film which goes like this. "Do
you know my secret to getting laid, lower your standards."
Does anyone think this is true? Seems too often it is.
4 Comments,
122 Views,
5 Votes
,2.49 Score
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feminisation 9/10/2006
I have always had fantasies about being sub to women.Im
not sure why but i think its because i want to be one but im
too much of a coward to do anythingg about it.Has anyone
been on female hormones i want to know othes experiences
of transforming into a female.I want to work in a beauty
parlour where i can best serve and learn about being feminine.I
could never go through with it without ...
3 Comments,
475 Views,
5 Votes
,3.14 Score
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What does a cd or ts want in a man? 9/3/2006
I'm finally taking action and exploring the neglected
side of my sexuality. I've recently ended a long relationship
and am now wanting to meet a crossdresser or transvestite,
I realize that is a general term and that there are differences
between them, as well as transgender and tgirls. I'm
not an expert as I have no experince with cd's or ts'.
I know these beauties are just regular people ...
1 Comments,
110 Views,
6 Votes
,0.80 Score
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GloryHole anyone 9/2/2006
I want to know if Anyone can tell me where I might find a place
that has real Gloryholes in this area. . . I would both like
to place my cock in one to try the experience, and I'd
like to be on the other side to give the best gloryhole sucking
anyone ever had.
1 Comments,
165 Views,
3 Votes
,1.47 Score
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how can you protect her when you are drunk , you R and easy KILL ! 8/30/2006
i am to writing what jackson pollock was to painting.. this
is kinda out reponse to that chick getting hit by a car the
last bon fire!
This has to do with the chick that got hit last night , and
chemical recreation in general . first from your aspect
young master , ,, NOT in front of you women , ,never fucking
ever .. it insults their need for a strong male , when you
are drunk ...
1 Comments,
46 Views,
3 Votes
,0.98 Score
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is it wrong to be turned off? 8/29/2006
a situation that came up. i talked with an interesting man
and was comfortable enough to agree to meet with him. now
on the day that i was to meet i got sick. i imediately contacted
him and told him that i couldn't meet and why. he responded
that it was fine b/c he had his wife and two other younger
girls that could satisfy him.
i know that a man on sites such as this would ...
8 Comments,
295 Views,
16 Votes
,4.16 Score
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A Primer on Male Submission by Ms Simone 8/21/2006
A Primer on Male Submission
A-Z
By Mistress Simone
Arousal and Denial: In regards to the male, denial is an
excellent motivator. The promise or restriction of a possible
orgasm will spur the strongest man to submission.
Ass tray Service: Can be either he holds it for you or he is
the ashtray.
Body Worship and/or ...
3 Comments,
1117 Views,
20 Votes
,5.93 Score
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Travel 8/20/2006
How far would you be willing to travel to meet someone from
this site? You can never really know someone until you've
met them in person no matter how many emails or phone calls
involved. Would you take the chance of going to another
country if you thought this person MIGHT be worth it?
3 Comments,
133 Views,
1 Votes
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Reporting hate & abuse 8/18/2006
I have recently become a victim in a hate
crime. I make no bones about stating that the person was
on this site, lives in the province and has been a member
of this and some other groups.
Some of you may have seen her posts in this group. Many have
not as I had to get up early to scan what she posted late at
night and delete it. I complained to the other groups ...
2 Comments,
130 Views,
4 Votes
,3.25 Score
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Prostate Milking...? Reality ? 8/17/2006
I have been seeking any and all information about Prostate
Milking. I read stories of endless orgasms and domination
by Mistress. But I am having trouble experimenting.
How long do you need to stimulate your prostate to start
the cum from oozing out? How much can possible get from the
milking? I have been able to get 3-4 drops but that's
it. I want more..I want to run dry. How long ...
0 Comments,
387 Views,
2 Votes
,3.81 Score
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Oral sex question... 8/14/2006
I hope I'm posting this in the right place. I couldn't
work out whether to put it here or in articles.
I've picked here and hope I get an answer or two, as
I'm really confused.
When I was with an ex b.f which was a vanilla relationship,
he would give me oral sex a lot of the time. Not that I'm
complaining!
But it was to the point that I thought he was just ...
2 Comments,
544 Views,
7 Votes
,3.80 Score
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Dirty secrets and real life 8/12/2006
How are other people reconciling their dirty secrets here
on alt with their real life? I'm finding it very hard
to really meet people here on alt and fulfill the fantasies
that keep me up at night, and still keep this part of my life
secret.
Obviously I don't want everyone to know that I love
being tied up, spanked, teased, humiliated, fucked by
women with strapons, and forced to suck ...
3 Comments,
193 Views,
8 Votes
,3.94 Score
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Take it easy!! 8/11/2006
Folks, I have been on this site for a while.Years.What
I see lately are a lot of people that are not taking the time
to get to know someone before they invite them to thier network.I
have found that the ladies invite who they are interested
in.So, be nice and patient.You might have more fun here.
2 Comments,
127 Views,
8 Votes
,4.87 Score
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Labelling Sexuality. Is it really possible? 8/5/2006
I have been trying to figure this one out for ages. Can you
really place everyone into a category? Is it possible to
"label" people's sexuality?
For instance,
someone who enjoys "Normal" M-F is labelled
"Hetero-sexual".
Someone who enjoys F-F is labelled "Lesbian"
M-M = Homo-sexual
M-M/F = Bi-sexual
F-F/M = Bi-sexual
M/M-M/F+M-F = swingers / ...
1 Comments,
46 Views,
2 Votes
,4.50 Score
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Linking Pissing and Spanking: do they go together? 7/29/2006
When I began to explore my sexual tastes online I found I
seemed to be somewhat unusual.
I love a girl, especially an adult little/school to piss
her panties and be spanked for it.
I can't find much on the web that relates to this area,
and here I am at alt looking for sub women who have a similar
interest to myself.
Do pissing and spanking go together anywhere on the web?
Do any women ...
1 Comments,
254 Views,
5 Votes
,3.14 Score
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Any advise for a single female that wants to attend a Voyer/Exhibitionist party? 7/25/2006
I am a single woman and I want to attend a voyerism/exibitionism
party. I was wondering if anyone had any advise for me? What
to wear? What to do? What not to do? I am new to all of this and
I want to go and see what it is all about, but I'd rather
not make a fool of myself.
1 Comments,
135 Views,
3 Votes
,3.43 Score
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Tops bottom' turn around? 7/13/2006
Hello thank you for taking the time to read this rambling.
I was married to a Male Marine for over twenty years and after
all that time of (if I may modestly say) perfecting my talents
as a bottom – I find my preferences to be more toward get some
hunger hole (mouth or ass) and mercifully cramming it full
to my satisfaction with my fat dick. This is not to say I do
not enjoy the same at ...
1 Comments,
90 Views,
2 Votes
,5.20 Score
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More Tgurl Stuff! 7/12/2006
It's been a while sence I actualy posted something
help full so here it go's.
I work at a Drag Club and I see alot of different girls come
and go. And see alot of them trying to be someone else. Which
is why I am writing this,
It is fine to want to model your look from someone, But NEVER
try to be them! I am SO tired of seeing girls go under the knife
SO much to look like a famous woman ...
0 Comments,
523 Views,
13 Votes
,4.49 Score
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Moving,,,, 7/6/2006
How to get to know a master that is in a different country
when travel is limited? To know that 24/7 is possibility...
0 Comments,
196 Views,
1 Votes
,3.70 Score
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how can a men say he is a dominant... 7/6/2006
Why are married man that say that they are dominant...hide
from their wife...???
2 Comments,
305 Views,
9 Votes
,4.71 Score
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ladies help please 7/6/2006
i recently have taken a new lover
she is a friend and i dont want to hurt her
she smells down there and i dont like the smell at all
is there a nice way to tell her she has to take a bath
she is very sweet and we have been friends for over a year
but
well give me some advice on this smelly problem
3 Comments,
254 Views,
2 Votes
,2.42 Score
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Blindfolds A view 7/4/2006
Thank you for reading this.
Most of this is going to seem like teaching your granny to
fart on Christmas day.
The majority of people just put a hood/fold over the eyes
and think that the persons senses no longer exist, when
they are heightened.
Softly, softly catches monkey
The most effective tool is total silence (putting ear-plugs
in ...
0 Comments,
134 Views,
2 Votes
,1.73 Score
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Shoe Fetish 7/3/2006
My Mistress and I share a shoe fetish. We go shopping together
and I kneel in front of her in shops, helping her on and off
with shoes, then paying for what she has chosen and carrying
her bags like a servant. I would love her to call me slave
in front of the assistants and to kiss her feet in public.
Has anyone out there worked in a shoe shop and witnessed
anything of this sort? I would ...
1 Comments,
117 Views,
2 Votes
,1.73 Score
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New fun play full up for learning new things 6/24/2006
Hi every one my name is michael im 22 male from hapsire im
looking to make new freind have some fun and gain new life
expernaces. I am out going sexyy and like to keep my body
in shape i like rock music hip hop tattos and percing and
wanting to learn more about the alt life syle. Will to travil
and meet new people. Im kind and allway think of the other
person first . I can be wild and kinky ...
0 Comments,
24 Views,
0 Votes
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SOUL MATE SILLYNESS 6/21/2006
SOULMATE SILLINESS
Another butt bubble from the “What the Fuck Files”
What is it about some women who have this notion they can
advertise for their soul mate? Hand over that menu of men.
I want to order my Soul Mate. Surrender to me, I want you.
It essentially reads like this.
“No one night stands. I’m looking for a LTR, my soul mate,
my best friend, a good ...
0 Comments,
110 Views,
0 Votes
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Pain Threshold 6/19/2006
I am in the wonderful position of being a submissive male
who has just found a new Mistress. She enjoys thrashing
me (and I mean ENJOYS). She uses a cane, a crop, a cat and several
paddles on my butt, and regularly leaves bruises. Even
so I feel that I am failig her if I use our safety word. I am
devoted to this woman and would grately appreciate any
advice on how I could raise my pain ...
0 Comments,
101 Views,
1 Votes
,2.40 Score
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Shaving 6/16/2006
Every time I use a razor to shave my pubic hair I always end
up getting those nasty red bumps. How do I avoid them?
6 Comments,
353 Views,
8 Votes
,3.25 Score
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Easy to get a dom? 6/13/2006
How many have managed to find a dom.? Ive been here for some
time and although i did chat to few, doesn't seem to
be someone genuine out there, that would like to talk or
meet. Or is it smth on my pro.? Let me know please and in case
you like it, message me. Thanks
1 Comments,
119 Views,
0 Votes
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Getting good blow jobs... 6/9/2006
Just a simple message guys... found this out after fucking
a gal from Hawaii for a few months...
Eating lots of pinapple will change the taste of your cum
substantially... they'll even say very delicious!
eat 3 times a day an in three days... they'll be sucking
on ya like baby piglets!
0 Comments,
177 Views,
1 Votes
,5.00 Score
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BDSM & SOCIAL TOLERANCE: 6/3/2006
Social tolerance , verbal out look and different points
of view
With in the social structure of O/our lifestyle, the substructure
seems to change with
the points of views shared by the Doms and Dommes in Their
tight knit groups,
to fit Their own needs and social structure .
If an individual or outsider comes in per say , as an outsider
not knowing Their rules
H/he or S/she is ...
0 Comments,
46 Views,
0 Votes
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90's Mood 6/2/2006
Two 90 year olds had been dating for a while, when the man
told the woman, "Well, tonight's the night we
have sex!" And so they did.
As they are lying in bed afterward, the man thinks to himself,
"My God, if I knew she was a virgin, I would have been
much more gentle with her!" And the woman was thinking to herself, "My God, if
I knew the old geezer could actually get it up, I would ...
0 Comments,
68 Views,
2 Votes
,3.81 Score
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Her Needs 6/2/2006
To most women affection symbolizes security, protection,
comfort, and approval.
A hug can communicate all of the affirmations of the previous
paragraph.
Affection can be shown in many ways such as: kisses, cards,
flowers, dinners out, opening the car door, holding hands,
walks after dinner, back rubs, phone calls there are a thousand
ways to say "I love you." ...
0 Comments,
31 Views,
0 Votes
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Signs Of Infidelity 6/2/2006
If you have suspicious, consider some of the following
and be as impartial as possible. Have you noticed a:
Sudden increase in time away from home.
Decreased sexual interest with you.
Cheating spouse is often distracted and day dreaming.
Cheating husband or wife is often unavailable
while at work.
Cheating spouse attends ...
3 Comments,
404 Views,
4 Votes
,4.80 Score
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Marital Infidelity Facts 6/2/2006
A 1983 study found that 29 percent of married people under
25 had had an affair with no statistical difference between
the number of men and women who chose to be unfaithful to
their spouses.
By comparison, only 9 percent of spouses in the 1950s under
the age of 25 had been involved in extramarital sex.
Another study concluded that by age 40 about 50 to 65 ...
1 Comments,
87 Views,
0 Votes
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The faith 5/31/2006
I will communicate with complete honesty
of my needs, desires, limits, and experiences to my Dom.
I realize that failing to do so will not only prevent my Dom
and I from having the best experience possible, but it could
also lead to physical and emotional harm.
I will not try to manipulate my Dom.
I will not push to make a scene go the way I feel it should,
nor will I ...
3 Comments,
349 Views,
18 Votes
,6.13 Score
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what do you think? 5/31/2006
yes i love the lifestyle and yes i am always trying to being
my self up to a higher and better way of life and i do respect
life and rules but i think it should be left up to the ones
that are playing to gather on what fits them and not by the
masses to rule over them for each one walks a different path
in life.
as for me i would Rather be a leader then a sheep
a person not someone that ...
0 Comments,
45 Views,
0 Votes
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Little nipples 5/24/2006
I would like to know what is the best way to enlarge my nipples?
I like to have clamps and such atached to them but there is
not much there............
0 Comments,
101 Views,
0 Votes
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Pondering 5/18/2006
I would like to get the other members’ opinion on this one.
I’ve been into this lifestyle for some time now, but out
of necessity I have kept it to myself. In fact if any of my
relatives, friends or associates knew about it they’d
be shocked.
However I do have a female friend who does know about it.
How she came to know doesn’t matter. Although she isn’t
into the lifestyle ...
0 Comments,
106 Views,
0 Votes
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Hairy or not? 5/12/2006
Do women want men with hairy bodies or do they prefer them
waxed or shaved including the genitals.
0 Comments,
242 Views,
4 Votes
,2.47 Score
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Testicles are our friends. 5/11/2006
While giving BJs and HJs, please observe the following:
The balls.
Here's a nice little trick that some of you don't
know. Heaps of you do know, the rest of you can simply nod
your heads and revel in past experience.
Using you index finger and thumb hold the top of the scrotum
where it meets the base of the penis. Now wrap your two digits
around the scrotum so the tips touch each other ...
2 Comments,
284 Views,
7 Votes
,4.06 Score
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Angry PAYING Member a Word to the wise 5/9/2006
*** I KNOW I AM NOT ALONE ADD YOUR COMMENTS
***
A vent from an angry member.
To the Executive Staff of Various, Inc,
I do not know why you are trashing your own website.. Many
people I know are leaving because the site is becoming like
Adult FriendFinder, your OTHER site.. BDSM is not about
SEX, it never will be the MAIN focal point. ...
0 Comments,
239 Views,
7 Votes
,6.10 Score
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So you think you have what it takes to be a Dom huh? 5/9/2006
You've thought about it, you've fantasized
about it, and you've decided that it's for you.
All well and good. Now to take the theory into practice.
There's a distance between wanting to be a dom and being
a dom, though, and it pays to be aware that there's more
involved than you might think.
How hard can it be?
Trickier than it sounds. There's ...
6 Comments,
410 Views,
24 Votes
,7.33 Score
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how to capture webcam images if you have windows or windows xp 5/6/2006
hi all thought this might be of some use to anyone who wants
to to take pics of people on web cams. Asking their permission
first of course to take a web cam image in windows xp first
press the print screen key then open up paint then press
the control key plus v then save the image with the line gif
you now have that image. in your pictures file hope this
helps....
0 Comments,
64 Views,
1 Votes
,2.40 Score
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Offers? 5/4/2006
Question..?
I am willing to pay for someone in the United States to relocate
at my cost.
Is this a offering to buy the person
such as the like buying a date? (yea ALT thinks this)
or
Is this a reasonable offer should she be the right slave
I seek?...
2 Comments,
207 Views,
3 Votes
,2.45 Score
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Need Help 4/30/2006
I am new to this and I am wondering if there are any attractive
females who might help me in my new experimentation. Are
there any of you that can help. Females only please.
0 Comments,
36 Views,
1 Votes
,2.40 Score
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Why 4/24/2006
This is the 3rd time that I'm trying to post this question.
Thus far alt has denied it twice.
Ok I have been a paying customer on this site for a long time
and it's time something is done about it. At least half(probably
more like 80 of the responses I get back from women are
fake, and I know other guys are experiencing this same thing.
Before long it's going to be as bad as Adult ...
2 Comments,
287 Views,
7 Votes
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Is it wrong? 4/22/2006
Is it wrong sometimes I like to be filled up to the extrem?
Could this hurt me in any way? I'm afraid that this might
stretch things out to the point of no repair. Thanx, angel
4 Comments,
371 Views,
6 Votes
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Idenitfying , email grabbers and such on alt 4/18/2006
As of late, alt seems to be inundated with , prostitutes
and people grabbing personal email info for spamming.
A few tips we've found to be helpful and all based on
the id. Don't bother with these. They are a waste of
time.
- All are standard members. If you see someone with a paid
membership, none of the following apply.
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- Seem ...
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15 Votes
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expectations 4/13/2006
As a reminder for those like myself;
Don't get ahead of yourself with a new relationship,
and don't have high expectations for at least a month,
until everything eases down.
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Why Do You Suppose ??? 4/7/2006
Why Do You Suppose We Do Some Of The Things
That We Do??? You Can State What Would Be Considered To Be
The Obvious...But I Take Pleasure From Hearing Your Most
Thought Of And Deepest Feelings.
Enlighten Me!!!
...
2 Comments,
93 Views,
2 Votes
,5.20 Score
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Am I A SWITCH Or A DOM ??? 4/6/2006
Based Off Of What You May Have Read About/From
Me...Ms.Kitty...How Do You Really Perceive Me??? As A
Dom Or A Sub??? I Profess To Being A Switch, With A Submissive
Side Of Course But What Do YOU Think Would Fit Me Best...Hence,
The Reason I'm A Switch...I Enjoy It All From Both Sides...Though,
Whatever Responses I Receive Will Not Change This...Simply
Want To Know How I May ...
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Simply A Little Insight... 4/6/2006
I'm Looking For A MASTER To Give Me
A Few Tips On Being A MASTER...I'm Quite Dominant And
My Partner Is Passive...I Want To Use This To Both Of Our
Advantages...LOL ...
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0 Votes
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Is There Something Wrong With A Sexually Free Spirited Woman??? 4/6/2006
In the past, I've been faced with
a dilemma...and am now reaching out to my fellow ALTS for
a little input. Two part question...the other is below.
Question: How many men are intimidated by a sexually free-spirited
and uninhibited woman???
What I've discovered personally, firsthand is that
most are...maybe some won't admit it...but I truly
believe a few of ...
2 Comments,
251 Views,
3 Votes
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What Would Be Your BEST Suggestions??? 4/5/2006
I Was Wondering What Some Of You Would
Suggest For A Couple Where The Female Partner Has Had More
Experience In The Lifstyle...And The Male Is Still A Beginner???
I'd Love To Dominate Him...He's Pretty Passive...So
Would It Be Wise For Me To Simply Just Begin Placing Damands
And Such Upon Him???
He's Said I Can Do Whatever I Like...He Wants Me To Lead
And He ...
1 Comments,
65 Views,
2 Votes
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Cum Swallowing Tips 4/3/2006
Cum Swallowing Tips
Suck on an Altoid, Tic Tac, or mentholated cough drop immediately
before giving head. Many guys enjoy getting a tingle from
mint or menthol products on their willies. The mint will
add a little zing to the blow job, and kill the taste of the
semen when he cums. You can also use a dab of toothpaste in
a pinch. We don't recommend mouthwash or breath sprays; ...
2 Comments,
492 Views,
9 Votes
,5.14 Score
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Truth in age 4/2/2006
Greetings,
Recently I was contacted through alt by another dom. The
age on his profile was 60. When we met I thought he was older
and asked him how old he was an he said 62 and then while telling
a story he refered to himself as 65. We had met for a drink
and seemed to click as two tops.
I am 48 years old. My birthday is not April Fools Day as it
says on my ...
1 Comments,
170 Views,
3 Votes
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can anyone out there help me? 4/1/2006
I am happily married but my sex life is suffering. My wife
is great but there just doesn't seem to be enough time
for sex. Have any of you got into this kind of situation?
Is there anything i can do to help my sex life pick up? Anything
at all let me know. Is there a video or toys that worked i'm
willing to try just about anything.
2 Comments,
151 Views,
5 Votes
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Is this dom safe or dangerous... 3/30/2006
Hi everyone, I'm a newbie sub who is trying to set out
on the BDSM journey. So far its going ok, but I now think I've
meet that 'dom guy' the one your warned about.
So I'm looking for some advice and any suggestions
from both subs and dom's.
Firstly we had chatted briefly, he knew I was a newbie and
looking for a dom guy to train me, it was one conversation
and with that came the ...
12 Comments,
933 Views,
12 Votes
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Im new 3/27/2006
Im new to this sight and like to be the dom partner. Is there
anyway i can find female partners who would be willing to
be sub?
0 Comments,
82 Views,
1 Votes
,2.40 Score
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Learning From my Own Mistakes 3/27/2006
I recently had written an article because I was very upset
when My Sir had emailed me releasing me and getting off Alt, ,
Moving out of the state and stuff , ., .I Was wrong, He is
not a Fake I wrote an article out of hurt and anger..I have
since tried to connect to several different Dom's
, ,I have had one disaster after another, , , Ladies and
gentleman that also might be Sub's.This is a ...
0 Comments,
65 Views,
5 Votes
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Don't always rely on looks 3/25/2006
I have been with several women from this site. I have found
that you should never rely on looks alone. Most of the women
I have been with that are the "barbie" type are
shallow. I think that the best women I have been with are
not the barbie type. They are more down to earth and much
more appealing. They make much better companions.
4 Comments,
186 Views,
12 Votes
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The Difference between S/M and Abuse 3/12/2006
A group of leaders and activists who attended the Leather
Leadership Conference II in NYC on April 17-19, 1998, compiled
the following set of ideals based on established community
principles that SM is fundamentally different from abuse.
We hope the community agrees to the following Standards
& Guidelines that are intended to help the law enforcement
and social services communities ...
1 Comments,
220 Views,
12 Votes
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Advice for new male submissives 3/9/2006
This article is being written by Mistress Lila's male
submissive. my name is pleasure.
Hello. Let me tell you a little bit about me and why i have
the right to address this topic.
i have been a submissive since i was 23. i am 50 now. My first
wife was a Dominant. She trained me as a service sub to Her
and Her friends. (ok guys, get your heads out of your crotches.
Not ...
3 Comments,
264 Views,
3 Votes
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What I looked for 3/6/2006
Since I wrote something about what I do not want to see in
messages and profiles and since I have gone forward and
I am in the process of actually becoming owned, I thought
I would write about what I looked for. I will put a strong
disclaimer that this is purely one girl’s opinion and thought
process and that is all. I would expect we all have different
ways when it comes to this subject. ...
2 Comments,
283 Views,
14 Votes
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Whats the catch with Dommes? 3/5/2006
OK whats the catch? Your profile isnt advertizing for money
or anything so whats the catch? Dont tell me, your looking
for free labour or something? I mean you cant actually be
looking for a male sub for a real relationship can you surely?
1 Comments,
153 Views,
2 Votes
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at Boston's Logan Airport 3/1/2006
The airport limo brought her up to the main door,
When she stepped out I nearly fell to the floor
She was a wearing a Black Vinyl raincoat, and matching
boots
Her porter accidentally dropped her bag, he wasn't
very astute
When he bent over, her stiletto heel found...leaving its
mark
It sounded like a whoof, he keeled over_N_he didn't
dare bark
Picked up her bags, and he lap dogged ...
0 Comments,
244 Views,
3 Votes
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Oral Sex, Who's really in charge? 3/1/2006
Have you ever wondered about that question? It seems to
be that if you ask a woman, it's them on both ways. If
you ask a man you get the same answer that they are. So which
is true? That depends on the situation. Of course if the
giver is tied up the reciever is in control. If reciever
is tied up then the giver is in control. If no restrants are
involved thats the shady grey area.
...
1 Comments,
305 Views,
7 Votes
,4.57 Score
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Take your time to learn all you can 2/25/2006
Every one's in such a hurry these day's and not
getting any ware fast.Take your time to learn all you can
with in you World.Enjoy life and all it has to offer good
and bad.Ying & Yang good & evil spinning toghter
in a perfect circle of Harrmoney much like your own little
World.
0 Comments,
78 Views,
3 Votes
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cross dressing 2/25/2006
I"am A strict sraight man but love to wear womans clothes
nylons, heals.short skirts etc.Is that normal or am seeking
something else.
6 Comments,
416 Views,
12 Votes
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