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kdom4whores2 65M
230 posts
2/26/2021 6:06 am

Yes Ina like you been here for over 30 years or more cant remember when I first had a profile. As you say used to be good place to chat and even meet good people. Now its just crap fake and there for alt to make money scamming.
Ionly strated to use blogs when alt made it virtually impossible to communicate through mail and IM, but get what you mean here.
Its been taken over by the idiots scammers fakes and alt pushing its false profiles.
Shame there isnt a good realistic alternative to here but soon it will die completely then alt will realise no memembers = no more money !!!!!
Take care, shame you not in UK would intro you to my pet friend


msfunfor 63M
10618 posts
2/26/2021 6:23 am

,,in the end we have to push on or call it a day , but then the mediocre wins for sure .

i fear leaving the field to liars and 'alternative' facts will Not end well for the country


Falcon1343 80M
286 posts
2/26/2021 6:31 am

yes this site is getting worse and worse...
and is becoming not likeable.
wayto many fakes


Plzrmeister 67M  
10148 posts
2/26/2021 6:50 am

political stance.

I think if this place was devoid of any political stances - Left or Right - it would be much better.

I agree .... Leave the politics and the derogatory comments at the door.

Wishful thinking. There are those that have to constantly rock the boat.

Almost makes you miss Vlad ..... Almost.

Make Women Female Again


slaveforyou365 63M  
4488 posts
2/26/2021 6:57 am



Slave rick


DancingDom 74M
22476 posts
2/26/2021 7:08 am

It is a sad state of affairs.

"One Big Sky Covers Us All Equally"


Artschoolgrad 46M
8451 posts
2/26/2021 7:21 am

agree completely. looking for a good alternative that allows pics in blogs and etc.


jenny14 75T  
90125 posts
2/26/2021 10:12 am

ina

I agree with all you said but , some of those bloggers ( like yourself) are high quality and that is what keeps me here


A life spent making mistakes is not only more honorable, but more useful than a life spent doing nothing. George Bernard Shaw

Jenny


Vameespang 70M

2/26/2021 12:44 pm

I blame the media. They are out of control. They divide and divide and divide. And they don't stop.


msfunfor 63M
10618 posts
2/26/2021 2:45 pm

wow .... sorry you have to endure the manure ,,,,, i am starting to think the steffie is unhinged


softrayne 56F
3088 posts
2/26/2021 6:18 pm

Hi ina, I agree, Alt has really gone downhill since the last time I was here. I do have some bloggers that I love and learn from on here, but they are in the minority. I used to read and follow the primary political culprits on here, as well as the "older guy", but now I don't even waste my time. The whole thing just screams "look at me!!" and honestly from those calling themselves Dom, quite frankly I expected more. Although hardly surprised to be disappointed. So I just take the "it's your blog, write about what the fuck you want, I am just not going to read it" approach. I read yours though


DancingDom 74M
22476 posts
2/27/2021 6:33 am

BTW, I just block the total asshats who want nothing but attention.

"One Big Sky Covers Us All Equally"


BostonBoi 55M
17245 posts
3/4/2021 10:43 am

Frankly, with the explosion of social media over the past decade...I'm a little surprised these blogs are even still here. Even more so with the invention of dating apps where hookups are just a swipe away. Both of those venues satisfy the same basic needs of self expression and sex.

As a woman, I'm sure I don't need to tell you the vast majority of pipe-swingers here just want a hookup. Seems like it would be much easier for them to be on apps.

The specificity of this type of site, and the ability to broach subjects other social media doesn't tolerate, must be the only thing keeping it wheezing along. Even then, other fetish dating sites do it better.

The inflated numbers here are hilarious. 115, 485 blogs as of today. I'd wager that's every blog created since they added this feature minus the ones deleted from members deleting profiles. A new person might see that and think this place was hopping. A real marketplace of ideas, and stories and camaraderie, and mentorship and support. Not so much. And there's...what...maybe 25 people who even post anything weekly? My Watched Blog list is down to eight from around thirty in previous years. Alt boasting of so many members and so many blogs is catfishing on a grand scale.

This is a dying community.

You've been here even longer than me (almost 16 years for me, off and on) so you can judge if my perceptions are on point or not. There's always been folks on here who were not particularly liked, thrived on conflict, screamed for attention, bullied, lied, stalked, plagiarized, shitposted, and so on. But there were such great writers here in such abundance that there were alternatives aplenty.

Conflict is normal, can be healthy and should be expected in an online community. But we used to be able to avoid it here pretty easily. As people with writing skills have left they haven't been replaced. There's been a Perverted Brain Drain.

"In a time of universal deceit - telling the truth is a revolutionary act."
---George Orwell


kentukmaster 62M

3/26/2021 8:22 am

When someone quotes Orwell it reminds me of the days when I used to drink in the pub that he had used when working for Aunty.

As for Sir Steve's use of "leftie" as an insult. Yawn! He would have hated both de Sade and von Sacher-Masoch.



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