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Plzrmeister 67M  
10144 posts
4/7/2021 7:00 am

You have to have a comment to your blog in order for it to show up in 'recent posts' .... Where people can see it.

It's best to merely say "Blog in comments" and post that.
Then go back into your own blog and make a comment, which will be your actual blog entry.


Make Women Female Again


LQQKing4NothinG 54M
182 posts
4/7/2021 7:09 am

I think someone "with experience" would have more expectations and a tendency to want to compare a new experience to an older experience. To me it might be more fun to break someone new into it than have to make new ground with someone who has been in the life for 10-20 years and seen and done just about anything.

But, there is a slight advantage in meeting someone who has experience and knows what they want and what works for them during playtime. So it's a close call to me but a slight advantage to the new one....


frida62dk 61M
476 posts
4/7/2021 9:26 am

Votet


slaveRam4MsM 42M
177 posts
4/7/2021 9:32 am

Experience, new but first need understand, trust and ready to submit ... who discuss and chat with sub or slave people more .. they only easy to control their sub...i never seen such a person this website... but I met few people in my life..


ezwheelz 48M
153 posts
4/7/2021 11:27 am

Voted No Experience, because I have no experience and we can find our way together.

But, of course, I could learn and benefit greatly meeting someone with experience.


Peanni_au 60M
192 posts
4/7/2021 5:30 pm

All 3 have merit and offer different possibilities.

Someone new can be exposed to many things

Someone experienced knows what they have tried and offers a starting point

It doesnt matter both parties are there to explore and have fun.

The main point is it should come down to having a trust, an open mind, setting limits and having a go. We all have our kinks find the right one with matching kinks and chemistry is the trick


alwaysassertive 63M

4/7/2021 6:19 pm

I'm okay with experienced or not. Sometimes no experience becomes more of a challenge because they have this Idea how they think things should evolve based on tv or a movie. They have no frame of reference to really know if you're doing the right things or not.

Once trust can be fully established and there's a mental connection. She will be willing to turn herself over to my judgment. At that point I can bring in some structure.

I hate to use the word molding, because it's synonymous with change and the last thing I want to do is change the very thing that attracts me to someone.


_kai 49F
12 posts
4/8/2021 6:16 pm

    Quoting  :

an open mind is key


bdsmDOMdaddy 61M
4025 posts
4/9/2021 6:20 am

experienced preferred but not a deal breaker as long as they respect are obedient willing to learn be molded as well into roleplay & discipline!


dirtyoldwizard72 77M
148 posts
4/9/2021 11:13 pm

Myself I like new in away, as you can let a sub be free and help guide and let them explore as you guide them in seeing what they like and don't like and seeing them grow and for them to be themselves and not pretend to be someone they are not.

As watching someone grow and learn can be a amazing thing but a girl also has to want it as well


DancingDom 74M
22476 posts
4/10/2021 8:48 am

If they are into doing things, I would rather not participate in. Which usually comes from those who have a lot of experience, I would probably pass on them. Example, if they wanted to be human toilet or do ATM, I would pass. Or if new or seasoned and they said they were a no limit submissive/slave, I would cross them off my list for sure.

"One Big Sky Covers Us All Equally"


ClimaxHer 65M
128 posts
4/10/2021 10:54 am

For me, it does not matter. Her honesty is what matters. I married a woman who told me that she loved to be tied up. We married. She lied! My miserable marriage was based on her fraud. Thankfully, that marriage from hell has ended. So, I joined Alt. After only a few months, I found a rookie, she was a newbie, and she was only a 2 hour drive away. Every rope that I wrapped her in took her breathe away, she was excited to be tied up. Her ex-husband was a lousy lover, she only had ONE orgasm per year. When I tied her up the first time, she had EIGHT orgasms for me! She was in heaven, and so was I! So as a Dom, it was a real thrill to have a sub with zero experience, everything was new and exciting to her. Sadly, she left me for a local man.
So, I will be satisfied either way, if she has experience being a sub, that is fine. If she is a newbie, a rookie, and rope rookie, that also is fine with me. What I am looking for is an honest female sub. I need her and she needs me. I just bought a much larger home, so I've got plenty of room for her, once I find her. I hope I find her soon.


DancingDom 74M
22476 posts
4/10/2021 1:05 pm

"It's funny, I can't use certain words or things won't show up. And they are common words. Anyhow, thanks for your words."

You are learning. Many folks may have a lead off line in the first post that says. " Blog (of something) is in the comments." That helps to avoid those dropped letters. You also have to substitute symbols of some letters in words that are a no-no per term & conditions. Such as for reference to words about an**mals, R*pe, kid*lets, ha*te and such. See the T & Cs. They will suppress your post even if those words are not used in any context sexually.

May will set up their first and second post like I have for messages and to show profile so non paying members can view it.

I would set up every post only viewable by ALT members or it can wind up all over the web. If you set it for private or only viewable by your listed friends, no one else can see them. You can only add friends if you are a paying member.

"One Big Sky Covers Us All Equally"


Missfintress 48F

4/11/2021 1:06 am

Someone who has dont research and doesn't think kinky sex is "experience "


iam4u2use 69M

4/13/2021 4:47 pm

Someone who will respect you and your friends


AlphaDaddy4subF 58M

4/14/2021 6:44 am

It doesn't matter. What is most important is their values and desires


Clampher 66M
7 posts
4/14/2021 6:24 pm

Experience level as long as they have an open mind and eager to learn more. Commitment is huge as well as trust


DragonTrucker69 55M

4/18/2021 7:03 pm

Trust, attitude, and personality are the most important to me


tastetester61 62M
1749 posts
4/20/2021 6:17 am

For me, experience doesn't matter. Having experiences that matter, does.


anotherunne 62M
78 posts
4/22/2021 3:08 pm

Even if experienced, you should both be sharing new experiences!


aldompdx 62M
1074 posts
4/27/2021 2:27 am

Younger people have more experience to gain in understanding their self.
Older people, who remain confused about who they really are, present more difficulties.

Just as mastery is of one's self, and thusly requires one to know their deeper inward self; surrender requires awareness of one's true disposition. Neither dominance nor submission work as a bargain to get love. They only work to intimately share who you really are in resonance with another(s).

Via my handle ALDOMPDX, I communicate on the usual daught calm places.


SociallyTwisted 57M
244 posts
4/30/2021 7:57 am

I voted 'it doesn't matter BUT there are times when the investment on My end (training) leads to Me becoming impatient; that said, no two relationships can be alike so training is a must.


bindittight 44M
20 posts
5/5/2021 6:33 pm

I voted too


Owningyourholes6 43M
22 posts
5/12/2021 9:24 am

I'm seeking a female dom


QueeningCBT 46M

5/16/2021 12:22 am

I seek a Domme but for me it’s more about connection not experience


S_K_AlphaDaddy 56M

5/22/2021 5:56 am

It really doe not matter. Someone new is nice though as we can build moments together exploring


Painter777 63M  
30 posts
5/28/2021 3:29 am

expirience is not found in one day,as so many of those so called pro dommes or doms think..specially those young chickies..
it needs to build..grow from a base that is there..sometimes it comes quick ,when its in your nature but still takes time and skills.. as I like shibari took me some long time to perfect a few and am still learning..


NicebutnoBottom 50M
142 posts
6/1/2021 10:54 pm

understanding is important, the rest comes by time


daddytaz6 56M
27 posts
6/20/2021 4:50 am

train your sub to your liking



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